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Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Aug 05, 2023
I used to see post that suggest black and African women are at the bottom of the dating pyramid in abroad. However I never used to believe such post.

This screenshot from Reddit by a black woman on a subreddit called “lonely “ show that what these guys used to say here might be true

What do you think?

Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:49pm On Aug 05, 2023
foolish people and their narrow minded way of thinking.... to each their own misery in life.

there is a reason why many black men dont want to deal with black women, and this has NOTHING to do but black women themselves.
passportbros today are gladly going abroad to find the type of women they are looking for, while letting these narrow minded black women continue to try to be men.

but then again, when a great number are raised by single women, they are unknowingly programmed to think like their mothers (aka they need to be the man of the house, even if there is already a man in their lives). these women aint mentally fit to deal with men in a r/ship because they believe they are just as important as men....while miserably failing to understand that the importance of men is DIFFERENT than the importance of women (we each have a place in society and NOBODY should try to be the other). the minute these women decided that they could be men, thats when they failed in life!

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 3:56pm On Aug 05, 2023
Black women aren't the problem. Black men just have a high lust for all types of women.

If that was the case, the relationships between black men and other races of women will last longer. They don't.

Black men are crossing over to other communities and making them single mothers just as they do to black women. If they were so better, why are they being treated the same?

Marriages between black men and white women last the least. And marriages between white men and black women last the longest for some reason.

Any black woman that is very slim gets propositioned by ALL races of men. Non-black men have higher standards than black men.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by talented321: 4:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:
Black women aren't the problem. Black men just have a high lust for all types of women.

If that was the case, the relationships between black men and other races of women will last longer. They don't.

Black men are crossing over to other communities and making them single mothers just as they do to black women. If they were so better, why are they being treated the same?

Marriages between black men and white women last the least. And marriages between white men and black women last the longest for some reason.

Any black woman that is very slim gets propositioned by ALL races of men. Non-black men have higher standards than black men.



Because black women worship white men. They set different standard for white men than for black men. A black wiman is okay with a white man who can’t really provide cuz the virtue of him being white, in her mind, is high status. She want to have mixed kids. I don’t want to go on and on, but we know how y’all swoon over white men, and we also know how these men eventually disappoint u and use as lust satisfaction

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 4:15pm On Aug 05, 2023
Right005:


Because black women worship white men. They set different standard for white men than for black men. A black wiman is okay with a white man who can’t repair provide cuz the virtue of him being white, in her mind, is high status. She want to have mixed kids. I don’t want to go on and on, but we know how y’all swoon over white men, and we also know how these men eventually disappoint u and use as lust satisfaction

You may be right. It's self-hatred from both sides

But please explain why black men are leaving other races of women as single mothers?

If they were so great, why is that happening to them?

Anybody that goes interracial thinks the grass is greener is on the other side. So once you go there and get burned, you deserve what you get.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:


You may be right. It's self-hatred from both sides

But please explain why black men are leaving other races of women as single mothers?

If they were so great, why is that happening to them?

Anybody that goes interracial thinks the grass is greener is on the other side. So once you go there and get burned, you deserve what you get.

While I don’t want to be judgmental to some sides, but the categories of men who do this in America are black men. Note that black men isn’t the same as African men (immigrant). When an African man bag a beautiful white woman,he considers himself lucky. He would never do anything to compromise this relationship. He consider her as a trophy wife; again self hatred. You see these men at Walmart helping their wife carry bags, including the ones that call themselves online alpha male. There’s more nuance to these things than I can explain

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 4:32pm On Aug 05, 2023
Right005:


While I don’t want to be judgmental to some sides, but the categories of men who do this in America are black men. Note that black men isn’t the same as African men (immigrant). When an African man bag a beautiful white woman,he considers himself lucky. He would never do anything to compromise this relationship. He consider her as a trophy wife; again self hatred. You see these men at Walmart helping their wife carry bags, including the ones that call themselves online alpha male. There’s more nuance to these things than I can explain

Both groups are still black.
There are hardly any African African men in the UK and the same crap is happening here.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:


Both groups are still black.
There are hardly any African African men in the UK and the same crap is happening here.

Nigerian men and in fact African men are romantic even they come to America. 😂 the power dynamic automatically changes. Not uncommon to know someone sleeping with ur wife and very hard to do anything . What men do in Nigeria are what women do here. Men slave cook , appease, and are very compliant

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by FEGNO: 5:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
And there is a reason why they are at the bottom bro. You don’t want to marry a Black American lady for any reason. Their lifestyle, thinking and everything about them is wack. They have no home training because simply put they are raised by no one. The typical black American woman has a child at 16. By 18 she has another one with a different man. By 20 she has a third baby with yet another man. So 3 different babies with 3 different men. No stable home and that my dear is the story of the black American woman. Heading straight to destruction

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Aug 05, 2023
FEGNO:
And there is a reason why they are at the bottom bro. You don’t want to marry a Black American lady for any reason. Their lifestyle, thinking and everything about them is wack. They have no home training because simply put they are raised by no one. The typical black American woman has a child at 16. By 18 she has another one with a different man. By 20 she has a third baby with yet another man. So 3 different babies with 3 different men. No stable home and that my dear is the story of the black American woman. Heading straight to destruction

16?? Lolz some of them already start having sex by 14

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by crackhaus: 6:15pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:
Black women aren't the problem. Black men just have a high lust for all types of women.

If that was the case, the relationships between black men and other races of women will last longer. They don't.

Black men are crossing over to other communities and making them single mothers just as they do to black women. If they were so better, why are they being treated the same?

Marriages between black men and white women last the least. And marriages between white men and black women last the longest for some reason.

Any black woman that is very slim gets propositioned by ALL races of men. Non-black men have higher standards than black men.


An unfortunate minority.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 05, 2023
crackhaus:

An unfortunate minority.
Marriage finally humbled this one and he threw redpill to the dustbin where it truly belongs, you sef no like your life like this? kikikikiki

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 8:13pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:
Black women aren't the problem. Black men just have a high lust for all types of women.

If that was the case, the relationships between black men and other races of women will last longer. They don't.

Black men are crossing over to other communities and making them single mothers just as they do to black women. If they were so better, why are they being treated the same?

Marriages between black men and white women last the least. And marriages between white men and black women last the longest for some reason.

Any black woman that is very slim gets propositioned by ALL races of men. Non-black men have higher standards than black men.



Why are you writing exact opposite of the truth?

Black women have a lot of positives but are a lot of problems to deal with in relationships.

They're very hardworking and make great moms, but their intolerance and tantrums are way out of this world.

White dudes find them a handful to deal with and black men find white women easier to deal with.

We love our black women, but their wahala no be here.
Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 8:33pm On Aug 05, 2023
GlorifiedTunde:


Why are you writing exact opposite of the truth?

Black women have a lot of positives but are a lot of problems to deal with in relationships.

They're very hardworking and make great moms, but their intolerance and tantrums are way out of this world.

black men find white women easier to deal with.

We love our black women, but their wahala no be here.

So why don't your relationships with white women last?

Why are you leaving them as single mothers the same way you do to black women?

Black women are no longer the face of single motherhood since white women opened up their dating options.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 8:42pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:


So why don't your relationships with white women last?

Why are you leaving them as single mothers the same way you do to black women?

Black women are no longer the face of single motherhood since white women opened up their dating options.

And how exactly did you come about this conclusion?
Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 9:14pm On Aug 05, 2023
GlorifiedTunde:


And how exactly did you come about this conclusion?

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4183451/

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 9:28pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:


https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4183451/

And what's the reason why?

Is it the black men or the white ladies?

And this "PubMed" research is how long ago?

Even the Pew reaserch findings was since 2017.

There's high level of divorce rate normally and anything could have been responsible.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 10:23pm On Aug 05, 2023
GlorifiedTunde:


And what's the reason why?

Is it the black men or the white ladies?

And this "PubMed" research is how long ago?

Even the Pew reaserch findings was since 2017.

There's high level of divorce rate normally and anything could have been responsible.


I figured you would go there.

Blame the white women 🥱


2017 isn't recent enough for you?


The divorce rates between WW and BW are the highest. That's the point.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by FEGNO: 10:42pm On Aug 05, 2023
1Sharon:
Black women aren't the problem. Black men just have a high lust for all types of women.

If that was the case, the relationships between black men and other races of women will last longer. They don't.

Black men are crossing over to other communities and making them single mothers just as they do to black women. If they were so better, why are they being treated the same?

Marriages between black men and white women last the least. And marriages between white men and black women last the longest for some reason.

Any black woman that is very slim gets propositioned by ALL races of men. Non-black men have higher standards than black men.



And there is a reason why they are at the bottom bro. You don’t want to marry a Black American lady for any reason. Their lifestyle, thinking and everything about them is wack. They have no home training because simply put they are raised by no one. The typical black American woman has a child at 16. By 18 she has another one with a different man. By 20 she has a third baby with yet another man. So 3 different babies with 3 different men. No stable home and that my dear is the story of the black American woman. Heading straight to destruction
Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 2:40am On Aug 06, 2023
1Sharon:



I figured you would go there.

Blame the white women 🥱


2017 isn't recent enough for you?


The divorce rates between WW and BW are the highest. That's the point.


😃😂
Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by SIRTee15: 9:01am On Aug 06, 2023
Right005:


While I don’t want to be judgmental to some sides, but the categories of men who do this in America are black men. Note that black men isn’t the same as African men (immigrant). When an African man bag a beautiful white woman,he considers himself lucky. He would never do anything to compromise this relationship. He consider her as a trophy wife; again self hatred. You see these men at Walmart helping their wife carry bags, including the ones that call themselves online alpha male. There’s more nuance to these things than I can explain

Stop the cap bro, African men still make single mothers out of other non black woman.
Sharon is right, it's a black man problem globally.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 9:05am On Aug 06, 2023
1Sharon:
Black women aren't the problem. Black men just have a high lust for all types of women.

If that was the case, the relationships between black men and other races of women will last longer. They don't.

Black men are crossing over to other communities and making them single mothers just as they do to black women. If they were so better, why are they being treated the same?

Marriages between black men and white women last the least. And marriages between white men and black women last the longest for some reason.

Any black woman that is very slim gets propositioned by ALL races of men. Non-black men have higher standards than black men.


Are you a single mum?

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by SIRTee15: 9:11am On Aug 06, 2023
GlorifiedTunde:


And what's the reason why?

Is it the black men or the white ladies?

And this "PubMed" research is how long ago?

Even the Pew reaserch findings was since 2017.

There's high level of divorce rate normally and anything could have been responsible.

Come to UK. U will be lucky to see a mixed race kid whose black dad and white mum are together. Very rare.
Sometimes I wonder whether na JuJu they worry those white women. because despite the rampant negativity in inter racial marriage esp with black men, dem still they carry head enter even in 2023.

Though the jury is still out regarding African men and eastern european women relationship. Those ones seem to last longer.

I think it's mainly a cultural issue. Oil and water don't mix. The Blackman from anywhere isn't designed for all this modern day marriage. He's too conservative.
Better he goes for women who have strong conservative cultural background.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by MrSamsung(m): 9:17am On Aug 06, 2023
Right005:


Because black women worship white men. They set different standard for white men than for black men. A black wiman is okay with a white man who can’t really provide cuz the virtue of him being white, in her mind, is high status. She want to have mixed kids. I don’t want to go on and on, but we know how y’all swoon over white men, and we also know how these men eventually disappoint u and use as lust satisfaction

Look you can accuse black women of everything but never the bolded. It is their male counterpart, the black men who worship white women. In fact not just white women but anything lightskin.

And it is a global behavioral pattern of the black man because it happens not just in overseas but here in Africa and Nigeria to be precise.

Sometimes when I see guys with black skin running after and worshipping women with lightskin I just shook my head in disgust for people who lack self respect and self worth even to the point of making their fellow ladies with black skin to think that lightskin and white skin is preferable and leading to bleaching or 'toning'.

If you see how black men behave with anything lightskin, terrible. But at least the black ladies have self respect and ego.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 9:59am On Aug 06, 2023
Right005:


Because black women worship white men. They set different standard for white men than for black men. A black wiman is okay with a white man who can’t really provide cuz the virtue of him being white, in her mind, is high status. She want to have mixed kids. I don’t want to go on and on, but we know how y’all swoon over white men, and we also know how these men eventually disappoint u and use as lust satisfaction


Black women worship white men? 🤣 🤣

Even a mumu will tell you your comment apply to only black men, they are the white worshippers, why do you think black men are referred to as COONS? Because you guys are willing to be domesticated househusbands to white women, it is a taboo to be that for your fellow skin color, but right and good for a white skin, that is the extent of your white worship, a sad display of Inferiority complex, low self esteem, lack of self worth, and classlessness, and at the end of the day black men marriages to white women does not last, not ever, so all the white worship was for nothing 😉

Black women on the other hand will never loose herself because of a man whether white or black, that's why its very rare to see black women marriages to white men, they do not have time for nonsense and will not take nonsense.

Overall I do not see the essence of this topic, are you trying to condemn black women for their choice of marriage and who they end up with or you're trying to glorify whiteness? Pls clarify let's know how inferior your complex is.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by ednut1(m): 10:37am On Aug 06, 2023
Una no dey tire Lol

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by 1Sharon(f): 10:58am On Aug 06, 2023
Bunkbars:
Are you a single mum?

Never.
Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 11:14am On Aug 06, 2023
1Sharon:


Never.
Nice, because there are a whole lot of them on this forum.

Their comments reeks of bitterness and regrets.

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Re: Does This Mean African Women Have Finally Accept The Reality?? by Nobody: 11:31am On Aug 06, 2023
Right005:


Because black women worship white men. They set different standard for white men than for black men. A black wiman is okay with a white man who can’t really provide cuz the virtue of him being white, in her mind, is high status. She want to have mixed kids. I don’t want to go on and on, but we know how y’all swoon over white men, and we also know how these men eventually disappoint u and use as lust satisfaction
Lol this is funny to read from a gender whom the average White woman sees as a moneybag and sexual pleasure satisfying object. grin grin You black men start with dropping your standard from 100 to 09 just to be accepted by women of other races. You drop your superiority complex, your ego, your "I have spoken" right just to appear suitable for a relationship with white ladies. You have to share your "headship" change your total mental and psychological make up as an African man to "blend in" even with your sacrifices only few gets to put a ring on white women's fingers without certainty for a long term commitment. You must be a clown to think you can judge a black woman who doesn't need to prove herself worthy of a relationship half as what you all have to do.

Like I have stated on a thread, a Nigerian man has a lot to change if he wants to be considered for a long term commitment by women of other races while a Nigerian woman has little ( financial dependency) to change for long term commitment with men of other races.

Financial responsibility aside,Black women Nigerian women precisely are breed and raised on very high standards that other races admires. Marriage with black woman lasts longer not because of the jargons you wrote up there but because she doesn't really need to learn a lot or give up too much to be suitable for a life partner position.

Kiss the truth!

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