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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Evolutionism: 2:35pm On Dec 03, 2023
onetouch04:
Pretty don't mind those lashing and bad-mouthing you. You have made your choice public.

All these lashing came or are coming from guys who did not tick all your boxes. The are envious of us 6ft and above guys.

I am 6ft 3in and also tick the rest of ur boxes.

How do I meet you.

Port Harcourt based.

My X handle @wilsonnnamdi
Or
DM me on WhatsApp 08036473905
We got to catch cruise.

Ritualist don Showgrin

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by jumpmasta(m): 2:44pm On Dec 03, 2023
SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U grin

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.
5 feet 2 inches . You be “Short engine” oooo

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Theama(m): 2:46pm On Dec 03, 2023
LilMissFavvy:
Funny thread. Thought I was the only one who hates a bald head. I don't think baldness can be genetic, rather, I believe it is caused by lack of care, or lack of good nutrition.


Madam what you "believe" doesn't change fact; baldness is majorly based on genetics.

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by DKM123: 2:49pm On Dec 03, 2023
TrustNone:
grin grin grin
Reality never set in yet, make she dey cruise


TrustNone You wey don reach 35years and still be Nairaland beggar and nuisance that has no life and cannot feed himself talkless of settling down to marry and feed a family naim dey marriage shame another person? Buahahaha
Victor Omerigwe, you should remove the speck in your eyes first. Frustrated buf00n!
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by DOM7: 3:09pm On Dec 03, 2023
Many men will not like the kind of girls with the type of your nose,it is too big and flat.

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Itsernie: 3:20pm On Dec 03, 2023
Me the only thing i don't like about the post; s wer u said short pple are irritating blah blah blah... Babe u can't create anybody not even urself... If u prefer tall guys that's ur own... But don't say mean things about the ones u don't like..... It's not nice abeg... So because they're short make dem kee demsef
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by CSTRR: 3:37pm On Dec 03, 2023
Kemadealadire:

You don't seem to get the point. Life is all about choices and people have choices. It's nobody's business criticising what the other person wants, simple.
Then keep your choice to yourself, and use it where it matters.
Offline.

Nobody wants to hear how you don't want "short" or "bald" men on the internet , as if it is a malady, criminal offense, or an unnatural condition that people should run from.

It's called BODY-SHAMING.

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Pharaoh4rin(m): 4:07pm On Dec 03, 2023
iTroll:

No mind the stupid girl
E wan day take wetin she no fit give
This height requirements is the most stupid thing I've ever seen
A lot of great men that their names are being remembered till tomorrow were short men
Men like Alexander the Great and Napoleon Bonaparte were relatively
short men.
That babe na complete mumu

What about Vladmir putin, sani abacha, adolf Hitler? They're relatively short men ,yet they made a lot of impoact
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Kemadealadire(f): 4:09pm On Dec 03, 2023
CSTRR:

Then keep your choice to yourself, and use it where it matters.
Offline.

Nobody wants to hear how you don't want "short" or "bald" men on the internet , as if it is a malady, criminal offense, or an unnatural condition that people should run from.

It's called BODY-SHAMING.
Lol, the online space is for everyone and you can't tell people what to post, want to what and the likes.

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Pharaoh4rin(m): 4:10pm On Dec 03, 2023
shellybee:
Women aren't worth the headache abeg
What so funny about what she said? It's a post filled with total misandry
See as then be gan, tham no even fine

Nice choice of words
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by dkidd: 4:14pm On Dec 03, 2023
Lol.. funny girl but 5"2 na dwarf na 😂
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by tonytony208(m): 5:22pm On Dec 03, 2023
SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U grin

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.


That's why stupid girls like you end up with wrong marital choices. You focus on rubbish physical appearance instead of you to focus on personality, mindset and life purpose of the man.

By the time you reach 30 and still single, you'll have a change of heart.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by SweetBuns(f): 5:27pm On Dec 03, 2023
tonytony208:



That's why stupid girls like you end up with wrong marital choices. You focus on rubbish physical appearance instead of you to focus on personality, mindset and life purpose of the man.

By the time you reach 30 and still single, you'll have a change of heart.
Oh look it's another he-goat who thinks he has a point
Bugger off
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by LOVEGINO(m): 5:47pm On Dec 03, 2023
Ballzproblem2:
undecided when you reach 40+ you go tell God make you just manage man with good heart
that's if she go see be dat.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by adewasco19(m): 6:01pm On Dec 03, 2023
Just carry chair because you go sit down for market taya
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by 1Sharon(f): 7:14pm On Dec 03, 2023
tollyboy5:

I should also be advising you to work on your personal confidence and self worth.
Small joke wey i throw at you, you run deny your pics.
I cant even date a lady that doesn't show confidence in her look, maybe out of fear of what others might say.
Such ladies will not be able to handle things correctly because they fear judgement.

Those are the kind of things i do pick from ladies first! not the just the body shape.

"I once asked one girl " Who told you that you're pretty? grin" lol. She said she doesnt care about that. She look into the mirror and she know she's not the most pretty but she's good to go.
Actually she's pretty and i liked her. Just wanted to hear her kind of response.

I really don't care about your opinion or advise Mr hypocrite. Why should I listen to you?

Why are you now backtracking and saying you are joking? Where is the confidence in that? Stand your ground.

After I exposed your hypocrisy, you now want to get personal. Typical nairaland man.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by 1Sharon(f): 7:16pm On Dec 03, 2023
tollyboy5:

The hairstyle is because i have no choice. Ladies are mostly bald at the front of their scalp. So should i start looking for a lady that is not bald at all?

I admire ladies that don't put on wig or anything artificial on their hair like attachment. As long as i do keep my hair i still don't use relaxer and i don't like ladies using it also.

Yes you do have a choice, stop the cap. You are just as visual as the next man.

And weren't you just saying you don't care about a woman's hairstyle? So where is this coming from??
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by 1Sharon(f): 7:17pm On Dec 03, 2023
iTroll:

I knew your type would come sniffing around sooner than later
Stupid feminists always going about being a nuisance

Stupid broke redpiller. My comment wasn't directed at you. But you took it personally.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by caandi: 7:24pm On Dec 03, 2023
ednut1:
You wey be like transgender
guy!
This is funny asf! 🤣
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by 1Sharon(f): 7:24pm On Dec 03, 2023
Greenfaces:



Let me tell you how it works

It's not about seeing a girl at first sight. What you see at first sight has to do with the fulfillment of an urge at that time. The height, the complexion, the buttocks for some, the pointed nose, the voice, the eyes and all. Once that urge is satisfied, you start seeing clearly.

Those factors play only 20% of the role that determines how long you would be with her. Sometimes, this perceived period is extended due to circumstances. Some for the sex to pass time, others to allow time and events properly introduce her to you to see if her too-good-to-be-true sides are actually just acting.

What keeps a man (a person who is not given to promiscuity, a person who honours his words, a sincere person of course) not the ones you girls are in the habit of meeting just because he passed your first glance evaluation test that was actually based on his finances. Yes! What makes a man respect you, miss you, sacrifice for you, look for you, stay with you, value you, is 90% the values he gets from your character. If you ask 100 men their first quality of a good wife, 90 will tell you respect. Its that simple. And this is why men can tie the nots with ladies from very diverse economic backgrounds. Men get married to ladies on wheel chairs, check 90% of the marriages with men, the ladies are not actually the prettiest they met, they have seem and still see more beautiful girls even from other races. In fact, you can meet a pretty lady everyday of your life that will say yes to your advances. But when you are looking for a wife, you don't look for her in the same places you looked for friends with benefits, girlfriends till you are financially ready to settle, you don't even date her for as long. Now ask your self. How are you meeting men. Are you in relationship with the ones who responded to the tight short skirt you wore? Or that person who comes to meet you because your neighbour described your personality to him. Or the ones that saw how professionally you handled a task or how you comforted him in his very low point in life? The stories cannot be the same.

Now combining these factors together, if you meet a beautiful lady ( who by virtue of her beauty, is very much on the radar for observation or engagement from many suitors) And she is still single at around 35, 80% says she has a bad character. Because more likely than not, many people have gotten close enough to see and know for certain that they cannot spend their lives with her. Another 18% says she met or dated a time waster and only 1% is for the chances that she has never met anyone ready.

Addressing the part you said challenging me (I know you mean men as a lot) is the definition of poor character. Well... that response would have been for a situation where i referred to you as a lot (ladies generally). But no! I was referring to you Sharon particularly. I know you. But you don't know me again. You did something that I found very offensive and thats why I wrote that.

You go explain tire 😴

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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by tollyboy5(m): 7:24pm On Dec 03, 2023
1Sharon:


Yes you do have a choice, stop the cap. You are just as visual as the next man.

And weren't you just saying you don't care about a woman's hairstyle? So where is this coming from??
Hair type or style is different from fake hair, wig. Those are fake stuff.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by 1Sharon(f): 7:26pm On Dec 03, 2023
tollyboy5:

Hair type or style is different from fake hair, wig. Those are fake stuff.

Lol. You're trying too hard. A wig is a way of styling the hair.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by tollyboy5(m): 7:26pm On Dec 03, 2023
1Sharon:


I really don't care about your opinion or advise Mr hypocrite. Why should I listen to you?

Why are you now backtracking and saying you are joking? Where is the confidence in that? Stand your ground.

After I exposed your hypocrisy, you now want to get personal. Typical nairaland man.
Ok ride on photoshopped lady grin grin grin grin grin
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by kkins25(m): 7:30pm On Dec 03, 2023
Greenfaces:



Let me tell you how it works


What does respect mean?
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by kkins25(m): 7:33pm On Dec 03, 2023
Na so. There's no evil or harm done if you have preference that must be met by your mate. When men ask for theirs, don't also chuke mouth.

As for us, she must be young😁
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by tollyboy5(m): 7:48pm On Dec 03, 2023
1Sharon:


Lol. You're trying too hard. A wig is a way of styling the hair.
An attribute of a good lady is common sense.
I was talking about ladies having bald head of which its understandable its not their fault so i dont have issues with that. You can see from your photoshopped pics you got bald head. Its not your fault its nature.
But attachment is not nature.
Use your head when reading my comment.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by oluxy(m): 7:49pm On Dec 03, 2023
SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U grin

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.

People like you often end up giving birth to what you listed. That's why some of you end of cos I know you must have pelted insult to someone or somebody's child with the quality you mentioned above. And they in return must have pelted curses in return secretly but you may not know.

Don't despised anything you cannot create especially human.

I pray God help and save your soul from ignorantia.
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Little21: 8:20pm On Dec 03, 2023
Evolutionism:


Sharrap there!!!
You will be fine grin
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Evolutionism: 8:42pm On Dec 03, 2023
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Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by tonytony208(m): 8:57pm On Dec 03, 2023
SweetBuns:

Oh look it's another he-goat who thinks he has a point
Bugger off

Lolz. Many women that responded like this year's back have become shiloh-rejects.

The scale of stupidity currently covering your eyes was removed from their eyes after they clocked 30 and still single.

Your own stupidity will also be cured in about a decade from now.. grin

For now, enjoy your stupidity grin grin grin
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by HillaryNelo(m): 9:06pm On Dec 03, 2023
Good for u bt u should have dropped a pic so we know if u look good enough to set standards
Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by 1Sharon(f): 9:24pm On Dec 03, 2023
tollyboy5:

An attribute of a good lady is common sense.
I was talking about ladies having bald head of which its understandable its not their fault so i dont have issues with that. You can see from your photoshopped pics you got bald head. Its not your fault its nature.
But attachment is not nature.
Use your head when reading my comment.

So how many bald women and women with traits the OP dislikes have you dated in the past?

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