Reelmii:
Ok..this story is not complete...it looks to me like a case of revenge.....untill the woman comes to speak...i reserve my comment...


I said a case of revenge because i have witnessed some things like this from a couple.....tho the man survived sha but he always wish for death everyday....

May God heal this man..atleast he can talk..let him explain wat happened

FireUpNow:


I am not supporting the woman but some men do not treat their wives well. What I told you is not a lie buddy.

Jeon:

This ur narration no go be lik this if na woman dy for sick bed.

royalfly:


Men don't neglect htier wives on thier sick bed. That's not to say I does not happen but check the percentage to which that happens u will be amazed. Bro u need to check. Most men will be by thier side despite what do woman may have done but a woman will never overlook a man's fault to be by his side. My little cent though.

Jeon:

Incoherent.

Reelmii:
Ok..this story is not complete...it looks to me like a case of revenge.....untill the woman comes to speak...i reserve my comment...


I said a case of revenge because i have witnessed some things like this from a couple.....tho the man survived sha but he always wish for death everyday....

May God heal this man..atleast he can talk..let him explain wat happened

Vanpascore:
Most men do this a lot. After marriage, they disown their family and focus only on the wife and her family.

Whatever he might have done, abandoning him in the hospital is just too much, meaning that she was expecting the man dead.

He has made a greatest life mistake, in life to come he will adjust, if there is another.

BloomingDale:
I bet if he had treated his wife well she would have stayed.

saddler:


Really sad situation. Everyman on this thread should learn one very important lesson from this man's predicament.

Dont marry a woman for beauty or big yansh or bwest.

The best woman to take in as a wife is the one who have shown consistently that she will be with you in thick and thin. Such a woman will hardly leave you when life turns sour.

Also dont choose a woman when you have become rich. The best time to find a woman for yourself as a man is when you are still struggling. Women who chose you at that time are potential wife candidate.


Men please learn. Na old age or when your life turn upside down you go know the thing wey you marry whether na wife or street dog.

maasoap:



I don't think it is a case of doing something bad to the wife, the wife is simply fed up with his condition plus no money. She just opted out and moved on with her life and kids since there is no husband's family that will be disturbing her

ijustdey:


https://saharareporters.com/2024/01/05/wife-takes-sick-husband-nigerian-hospital-abandons-him-there-over-six-months-edo

FireUpNow:


I am not supporting the woman but some men do not treat their wives well. What I told you is not a lie buddy.

hobat4cash:

Lol. Do women need any reason to behave like women?

komzy589:

Why do people always fall back to this nonsense talk. This is a life or death situation here. It’s only wicked and manipulative people that reason like this.
Sometimes issues happen in marriages. Husbands feel used, wives feel cheated. But if you are sane enough to remain in the marriage and wish death upon one another because of past deeds, you and devil na correspondence.

Wawelexy:
"He has lost contact with his siblings since he claimed to have left his home town for Lagos State over 40 years ago.


He made no attempt to look for his relatives for good 40years? Also, how can a woman be comfortable with a man who she knows none of his relatives, to the extent of getting married and bearing kids for him.... Well, maybe he's got some dough...... His relatives won't do what that woman he called wife had done to him... They only stay when things are Rossy, they stop giving a F when troubles shows up.... I pity those men who do "Me and my wife alone"... No friends, no family...


The hospital management should ask if he's got some properties since he could talk...

MasterTeeUSA:
Men better get sense...A friend has stroke.. and was in rehabilitation in the US. He finally told me the wife came to visit him after 2yrs....the distance from where she lives and the rehab center is less than 5 mins drive. May we not fall in illness..Mr IBU's case is another example. Get sense and plan for all situations. Help others, so some might be there for you at the very least. Don't depend on wife and children alone. [b]You need your community of friends, classmates, church and mosque folks among others. [/b]God bless you bro for the sense you have

Princedapace:
As a man, prepare for emergencies like this by having ur own separate investments. Dont place everything inside family o and oringo.
Women are t#rrible people when they want to strike, they wait for ur worse moment and strike. They wont go when u were cheating becus las las, na so called cheating she go talk sey the man dey do then. If she had left when he was cheating, maybe he would have replaced her with someone better. But they wont go, they will wait to finish u at ur vulnerable time. I know that gender, prepare o.
Have investments for ur healths, if it means land, buy them and be keeping as portfolio. Never ever discard ur family for any woman. Even ur kids fit run leave u when e red.
Find a club or a a union to be a member, they can help u when ur family fails u.
Men health is very fragile becus of the type of life most men live! And above, drink healthy, live healthy as a man. U know, men drink more than women and that alcohol is a killer.
Prepare for ur old age, no rely on ur kids or family o. Forget that one. As I am like this, I no dey even think about my family for my oldage o. While I will surely take care of everyone as much as I can, I am seeing life as a solo race and I am making preparation for my retirement. Have solid plan to reward loyal persons. A loyal person maybe ur staff, ur friend, or anyone u have known to be loyal. Add them to ur will if possible.
Life is a battle, and a solo race.

teekay213:
you're so wise. I like you

Princedapace:


Thank you

"The patient is an Urhobo by tribe and has two underaged children with his wife who is from Calabar, Cross River State. His parents are deceased.

Wawelexy:
"He has lost contact with his siblings since he claimed to have left his home town for Lagos State over 40 years ago.


He made no attempt to look for his relatives for good 40years? Also, how can a woman be comfortable with a man who she knows none of his relatives, to the extent of getting married and bearing kids for him.... Well, maybe he's got some dough...... His relatives won't do what that woman he called wife had done to him... They only stay when things are Rossy, they stop giving a F when troubles shows up.... I pity those men who do "Me and my wife alone"... No friends, no family...


The hospital management should ask if he's got some properties since he could talk...

DonFreshmoney:
Women are very wicked.. heart of evil all cos of the man money and wealth... abandoning your husband you swore at the altar for better for worst..

royalfly:


Majority of the time it's the woman who is careless with thier husband and from the little information we have now, the woman us doing same. A man will provide all that he xan and everything he has yet he us still looked down on. From obvious online facts and life experiences only few men treat women badly but the man's own will be more public nd known trust me

MasterTeeUSA:
Men better get sense...A friend has stroke.. and was in rehabilitation in the US. He finally told me the wife came to visit him after 2yrs....the distance from where she lives and the rehab center is less than 5 mins drive. May we not fall in illness..Mr IBU's case is another example. Get sense and plan for all situations. Help others, so some might be there for you at the very least. Don't depend on wife and children alone. You need your community of friends, classmates, church and mosque folks among others.

Harddiskng:


Let’s just pray we cross path with insensitive and materialistic partners.

Growing up i can still remember a couple, it was very obvious the woman earned more as a civil servant than her husband back then, but she always insisted he foot the bills, long story short; she left him cuz she was “tired of using her own money to support her own nuclear family” lol.

God no go show us, guys don’t ever ignore the red flags. She can’t spend on you. Never marry her.

NOETHNICITY:
This is why I can never break any family ties because of any woman.
If my wife cannot win the hearts of my mother and my family members, I’ll divorce her. Simple.

This has been my state of mind ever since before I got married. And my wife knows how important family is to me.