you people are assuming those are not his kids. those are his kids. he just no wan marry to lose half his assets

Op what do you mean by single mum

Is she a divorcee , widower or babymama ?

1Sharon:
They pushing him into a corner lol

a very tight corner, and the mumu is smiling 😁. His eyes would soon clear. Not even 1 but three kids, who would pay for these kids responsibilities. 🤦

Nazgul:

It depends. Looking at how healthy those kids are, it's safe to say that the girl has a good job. So he won't be weighted down by unnecessary responsibilities.

He can actually focus his finances on getting a home or something else.

Where I would have issues is when an able bodied young man marries a jobless single mother with over 3 kids. He'll age faster cos he won't be able to do anything with his own money.

Just dey play.

I don't understand... how can a man marry a woman who has given birth for another man like himself?

Me I can't o ...I dey kraze 😒.
Even lions in the jungle before mating with the female of another pride they kill off her offsprings.... because it's not their blood.

Well good for him,he's got himself kids now.

They should try have their own kids like one or two and live their lives.
Don't know which country they are but it's ok.

Dpharisee:


I just realised you are a lady, so I will rephrase my comment, no reasonable man plans his life with his wife's resources, even if she's Lola Alakija and the husband does labourer work he will still be asked to bring N1500 out of the N2000 he received yesterday from painting his neighbours house to buy a loaf of bread 🍞 for the family; while she will easily claim that her own money has been budgeted to buy a G-Wagon for the 'family' from the millions in her account which sounds logical to an average mind; but the man is going to be in distress after N1500 has been taken out of his last N2000.



She has tried everything else and she couldn't get him to commit after years of their relationship, so she had to put him on the spot in front of friends and family, imagine how all those people will look at him if he says NO, he will forever be seen as taking undue advantage of her situation as a single mum, a player and deceiver of sort who has been lying to her all along; fear and respect women o

Forget all this. Uncle Chris aka Dad is loaded obviously no reasonable mother of three kids proposes to a man looking for work.

dinachi:

He is the only stranger in that house. Think about that.

And will remain a stranger

sukkot:
you people are assuming those are not his kids. those are his kids. he just no wan marry to lose half his assets

they are not his kids. The guy still looks young and unstressed. The guy even looks younger than the lady. If they were his kids. Responsibilities would have choked his looks older

I will just say yes...grab the kids, hug and kiss them and enjoy the moment.

Travel the next day, NEVER to be seen or heard from again by them.

Proposal no be marriage, which kind of handicap odd is this. I don't like nonsense

I don't understand? Who bought the ring?

Nazgul:

It depends. Looking at how healthy those kids are, it's safe to say that the girl has a good job. So he won't be weighted down by unnecessary responsibilities.

He can actually focus his finances on getting a home or something else.

Where I would have issues is when an able bodied young man marries a jobless single mother with over 3 kids. He'll age faster cos he won't be able to do anything with his own money.

It's not about job but character.....most of these single moms have hidden bad character, something made the first man leave....they can pretend....

Rejouir:
they are not his kids. The guy still looks young and unstressed. The guy even looks younger than the lady. If they were his kids. Responsibilities would have choked his looks older

this story was discussed on classic fm yesterday. They said those were his kids. You no see the guy head ? He is going bald lol. His type of baldness na stress cause am

This one nah corner side baming ooo






Some guy sef no dey try oooo

sukkot:
this story was discussed on classic fm yesterday. They said those were his kids. You no see the guy head ? He is going bald lol. His type of baldness na stress cause am

who told you bald is cause by stress?

Lol....
I don't think I like this Sha....
Exposing the kids to all these nonsense doesn't really make sense to me but then it's my opinion...
Who am I to tell em how to live their lives

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Gentlesoul2021:



The kids dad Na the real dad the mumu Na aka dad...

You guys don't listen well and comprehend... The woman said they have been together for 10 years... Obviously the first child is over 10 years which makes her his step daughter, but the last two are younger than 10 years which means he's the father of the last two kids...

papyjaypaul:
Learn to mind your business and wish them good. That is all you need here. If you like project all the bad news and fears to them, e no mean say e go do dem.

Marriage comes with experience and if you are lucky to do it again, you will show that experience in the game. Lucky man. Children do not easily accept other men, he has his work cut out for him with this bridge they built for him. I am glad the kids have a father figure aka Daddy. That has saved the generation.

God bless their family.

It's like u are married to someone's wife or about to

Gasayi:
who told you bald is cause by stress?

ok let me first renege from my initial point. It does look like he has a child with her, maybe the youngest child, but the other children are by other men. Meaning he knew what he was getting into and has been in the situation for a while and seems he enjoys it


As far as balding ? Yes stress causes balding

Where's the man who gave her the children?

Wow all good best home I wishes you guys.

Why do African-American women have so many kids out of wedlock? A love child is more than enough.

Gentlesoul2021:




Three good grown up kids... The mumu think them go love him pass their real dad ... He go learn the hard way...

The last of the kids is for him.

LilMissFavvy:
Did he say yes? I've watched the video but didn't hear his reply. So she had children of her own, he also got her pregnant and have a child between them, yet they have known each other for 10yrs, without marriage, hmmmm.

Yeah the match is currently 2:1 lol

Set up

DaddyRochie1642:
See the man smiling and shining teeth like goat,

Which kind blackmailing be this,

I am seeing up to three children from what I'm seeing, how will a right thinking single man marry a single mother of three children, make that man no gree o.

His eyes go clear when the reality of paying household bills and school fees set in. He think taking care of children is a child play.

So what's the discrimination with marrying single mums with kids among single guys?

But we are very okay when a single father with kids is getting married to a single lady without kids.

Bluntemperor:


You might not be right with your suggestions!
I read in another Forum,where the Lady in question said 'they already have a baby together' and this young man,was shaking his head in the Proposal that there are African ways of doing things and he eventually agreed the Proposal!
Indeed,the woman must have forced the man, maybe,she has been pleading with him for some times.
Whichever way what is important is LOVE here!

She also said it in this video. Her last child is for this guy.

Palazee:
Single mothers are a no no no

I don’t blame you. I can’t marry a single father too. Thats like a really hard limit for me.

Na wa oo. Nwanne, first remove that shirt and close your teeth. This na very serious ambush.
Any way you choose, just be ready for the consequences. Jah bless

Rejouir:
a very tight corner, and the mumu is smiling 😁. His eyes would soon clear. Not even 1 but three kids, who would pay for the kids responsibilities. 🤦

The last kid is for him na.

Some people that married single mom have peace in their marriage than those that married virgins.

I can't but pity the man. I don't think he really understands what is at stake