pendo89:

no thanks. i value my life

pendo89:


Its a free world yeah but if your reason for cohabiting is to find out if you are compatible then I will say you are lost for sure.

1.Cohabitation is no guarantee for happy marriage
2.Refusing to cohabit is no gurantee either
3.If you are not ready to forgive,overlook faults,or if you are a coward do not marry but cohabit
4.If you respect the lady's parents and family and her honour as well then do the honourable thing of making her wife not some test car.

Again its a free world

Mrs, Chima:

$ugardaddy,

Why are you flooding the thread being childish?      Don't take what people call you to heart.  You should know what you are.  

Who doesnt know he is a FOOL? If he says he doesnt, he's a bloody liar! So much for being a matured elder!

That's why i called him an ARSE! He's One!

freecocoa:

Cohabitation is a no for me,don't see it as morally right,besides we may not end up married,wouldn't want to go all the way with a man who's not yet my husband.

Morally yes! Most people against the bible would use it as an excuse! But what does that say about their morals? Living in a perverse world, morals have been rubbished, and is a steady decline! If you dont accept the worlds view on morality, you are seen as weird! I'd rather remain weird anyway!

Mrs, Chima:

I guess it is safe to come in here huh?


Sexkillz

Does a man or woman having a key to their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancee/fiance's house considered "cohabitation"?

Safe? Were you under attack? Are you referring to the crack head wanna be daddy?

Cohabitation i believe is when you actually move in together! Having the key to the apartment is not cohabitation, unless of course she lives there! I'm assuming she comes around and goes. Is that what you mean?

sexkillz:

Safe? Were you under attack? Are you referring to the crack head wanna be daddy?

Cohabitation i believe is when you actually move in together! Having the key to the apartment is not cohabitation, unless of course she lives there! I'm assuming she comes around and goes. Is that what you mean?

sexkillz:

Morally yes! Most people against the bible would use it as an excuse! But what does that say about their morals? Living in a perverse world, morals have been rubbished, and is a steady decline! If you dont accept the worlds view on morality, you are seen as weird! I'd rather remain weird anyway!

Mrs, Chima:

Yeah, When I was exclusively dating Oga Chima, he had keys to my abode and I had keys to his abode.  I come and go as I please but I had my own space until I tied the knot.  I knew how he kept his house and manage his finances.   If things didn't work out we both had our own abodes and would change the locks if necessary.  Once you signed a lease with someone, you are stuck with that person unless the person decides to leave the house and you are stuck with the lease.  It could be dangerous if you have someone that is twisted but hey!  

The reason I asked because on Facebook, a chatter said he considered sharing keys cohabitation and I told him the same thing you said and I said you guys are SHACKING and playing house without the legalities of marriage. 

No No! Were you having pricking conscience? LMAO!  
The idea of cohabitation is actually living as illegal couples! You are not recognized legally as married couples! That's the difference! Remove the commitment, and the vows!

It's like saying "I dont love you enough to marry you yet. Let's see if it works!". . . I mean, WTF?

Mrs, Chima:

Yeah, When I was exclusively dating Oga Chima, he had keys to my abode and I had keys to his abode.  I come and go as I please but I had my own space until I tied the knot.  I knew how he kept his house and manage his finances.   If things didn't work out we both had our own abodes and would change the locks if necessary.  Once you signed a lease with someone, you are stuck with that person unless the person decides to leave the house and you are stuck with the lease.  It could be dangerous if you have someone that is twisted but hey!  

The reason I asked because on Facebook, a chatter said he considered sharing keys cohabitation and I told him the same thing you said and I said you guys are SHACKING and playing house without the legalities of marriage. 

Mrs, Chima:

Uhmm Sexkillz suga, just to make sure we are on the same page with "pricking".  You should know in the States, pricking means intimate relations.  I am sure you aren't talking about that right?    


I am a virgin you know.  

Smh @ Chima being virgin!

So your conscience have intimate relations? Smh!

sexkillz:

Smh @ Chima being virgin!  

annawhite:

cohabitation isnt a good idea,whatever happend to the traditional dating and courtship
without love and respect in marriage,such marriage is bound to fail. . . . Cohabitation dosent guarantee a succesful marriage!

Mrs, Chima:

Why is that so hard to believe?!!!   And yes I have a conscience punk!

Real talk though, my dad always told me to never move in with someone that isn't my husband because MOST not all men would settle for the free cow before buying the milk that if they don't love the person whom they are shacking with.  I know a couple who has been shacking for 20 years and YET TO GET MARRIED.  I always asked them if they believed in marriage and they responded that marriage may destroy their "chemistry" or whatever the bleep that mean.  

I told them I understand not everyone believes in marriage or feel that it is necessary BUT marriage in itself has nothing to do with their chemistry or lack thereof.  But, Upendo made a good point when she said humans aren't cars there aren't a need to test drive them.  If you are not compatible, you are not compatible.  

sexkillz:

Traditional Dating and courtship is now sadly referred to archaic! And most people want the new cool! 21st century Cohabitation![color=#000070][font=tempus sans itc][size=12pt]

sexkillz:

Traditional Dating and courtship is now sadly referred to archaic! And most people want the new cool! 21st century Cohabitation!Yeah! Over here too it happened! This was last year! After cohabiting for 20 years, and after 8 children, this couple decided to get married! It was a spectacle! Everyone thought the were married! I'll want to believe when pendo said it's a sign of cowardice too! I mean, you dont want to take responsibility for anyone? Scared of commitment, and want the best out of an imperfect person? And then you kick 'em out at the slightest whim? Smh!

Okija_juju:

Go Team "Straight Marriage"  . . 


All team co-habitation want to do is . . . . .                   



All of you in support of co-habitation are the ones responsible for 80% of abortions in this country!! 

Yeah! Team Marriage rocks! the votes are even in support of it! Are you sure of the emboldened?