i once loved a girl, we went out for 6yrs (2000 - 2006) then along the line we could'nt just go on again

but thats not the problem, the problem is that now i am finding it difficult to love again. i have ladies in my life who profecy love too me but the issue is that that spark is not just there for me to move on with them and i do not tell them so. as it is now there r 4 girls who believes we r into something but the truth is that i ma not intrested and i doint want to tell them so, i am trying to rediscover the spark but it is simply not coming, i dont have any regrets for that, as a matter of fact i enjoy the deception, the only thing is that i do not know if i can love again

Don't way, you will definitely find it if Environ waste people

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it is better 2 have a broken relationship than a failed marriage. we run into danger when we let our desires become so strong that they control us

well sorry 4 all that happened 2 u.but learn from it

love is not a 2 way affairs; it is a tripartite relationship bwtween man, woman and God.

pray 2 God 2 give u A NEW HEART so u can love again.

and be careful with ladies
they are dangerious, be warned.

ufobabe - plz i want to know you? i'm admire your posts in this forum.

niceuzor:

ufobabe - plz i want to know you? i'm admire your posts in this forum.

n wts so funny fine kid?

Sounds like something good is about to start there

Guy I think I know how you feel. It takes me a while to get back again after a break up. You feel betrayed by the previous person. U just have to learn to forgive, and try to be happy . It's way way better to have loved and than not to have experienced it. You can try being alone and see how it goes. Then maybe you might know what you lack, and if u find that in someone special u just might ignite those feeling again. As they say " a man that can well without a woman can most likelydo well when one comes in"

@ NiceUzor

what is it about my post? the guy is in pain and he needs us 2 get him on track again.

well, thanks 4 ur admiration.

but still i want u 2 contribute on how he can get on

knowing that there is safety in the advice of a multitude of counsellors.

@ NiceUzor

what is it about my post? the guy is in pain and he needs us 2 get him on track again.

well, thanks 4 ur admiration.

but still i want u 2 contribute on how he can get on

knowing that there is safety in the advice of a multitude of counsellors.

Actually Ufobabe i know this guy need help,but i guess your advice is ok and others advice

nothing much i could say again,.

BTW:

i want us to be friends,what do u think?

you really should let go of the past so u could get the future, u will never find the same spark but u can creat a new one, when the time and person ur with r right u will know and u will have ur fire, ur heart was used to beating to one rythem for 6 years, u just need to find a new song not a remix for the old one, and once ur there u'll find that it was worthing looking for

good luck

Well I know how you feel; but remember the old saying don’t grieve over spilt milk.What has happened has happened just forget about the past and look for a decent girl to settle down with.

10Q guys 4 all ur contributions

- finekid which one come bi ur own? na who u dey open teeth for?

your teeth dey smell oh

I think the problem is that u ve never let go the girl whio hurt u and u think all girls are the same. my opinion is if u dint quite finish it up wit the other gal ,i mean talk u will neva let go of ur view about women. try this y dont u give the girl u like more among the many in your life and see how it goes.

@poster: AV BIN THERE B4 and i thot i would neva get that feeling again until i tried cocaine, its one hell of a drug!

2dye4:

@poster: AV BIN THERE B4 and i thot i would never get that feeling again until i tried cocaine, its one hell of a drug!

ooooooooohhhhhh cooooooooooooooommmmmmmmmmeeeeee oooonnnnnn, u cant be seriouse

damn serious! a trial will confuse you.

well its not that i am still leaving in the past. as a matter of fact i ve fogiven she that was of the past


the only truth is that ui try to love again but simplly i just cant find the spark again.

i wld think i love some 1 and the nxt few weeks tha same person wld not be appealing to me anymore i am confused

Move On Brother. Remember the Boyz II Men Song? Never Let A Broken Heart Take Your Chance to Love Again and Never Never Let It Make U Fall Apart No Never blah blah blah ?

Whateva, Just Move On. Open Up Yo Heart. Those Who Truly Love Never Lose. Dont Live in Pain. Its not the Best Except U are Pain

@Niceuzor
how many babes have you scoped on NL?
ole

Blues - I get to lose interest in any number of things any number of times. Relationships inclusive (as I've had so few).
Why not? Anything can get monotonous and boring. Why not romance too? Show me love ,

tkb417:

@Niceuzor
how many babes have you scoped on Nairaland?
ole

Are you jealous. . . huh!!