So dis guy in ma church really likes me.he dotes on me nd publicly declares his affection 4 me bt wen we talk,its all church biz.now pple really think we v gone far in d r/ship.he tells every1 dt am d 1 delayn him.can u believe dis wen he has told me nothing.we,v been friends 4 1yr nw nd in all he invited me 2 his place jst last month 4 d 1st tyme.church biz discussion as usual.just 2wks ago,he mustered d courage 2 tel me on phone dt he loves me.he is d youth president in our church nd really prays a lot.I guess he is careful about his image.now my dear nl brothers,If it takes 1yr 2 say I love u,how long will it take 2 propose?
critics r welcome 2

After almost a whole year, I guess you should be married to the brother now...lol or what is the present state of things? Don't tell me it didn't go beyond the I-love-you-over-the-phone stage and that you have another man. I really want to know what's up...lol

Funny though 4 u 2 hear dat he is yet 2 find d guts.he confides in my gf abt it but gets confused wen he sees me.me,am just passive nd c him as unserious.
Not my duty 2 propose nah

Dont stress ur head wit d equatns nw......jst let d rxn takes place first

Dont stress ur head wit d equatns nw......jst let d rxn take place first

You berra stay away from that mumu. If it takes him 1yr to ask u out, then it will tk 3 yrs to propose. After he ventually marry u, it will tk him 10 yrs to start to sleep with u.

There is no problem here, he has told everyone how he feels about you except you so why not have him for lunch one afternoon and lay his cards in front of him? This way you would be helping him out of the hole he has found himself.
And remember that the woman is supposed to be the helper. According to the Bible anyway

Some guys are just like dat. I guess u even like him too. Be patient with him, or u help him out sef. Not bad if a woman does it

..to think amyg was for me alone. *wishing* may his lips be sealed. Iseeee

D-Explorer:
..to think amyg was for me alone. *wishing* may his lips be sealed. Iseeee

Am tired of being in d waiting room 4 u nah,hope it dosnt take u 2yrs 2 propose.(Rescue team,over here)

tpacalipse: You berra stay away from that mumu. If it takes him 1yr to ask u out, then it will tk 3 yrs to propose. After he ventually marry u, it will tk him 10 yrs to start to sleep with u.

Abi o,I told my gf nt 2 worry.if na congo shining,shame no go catch am 4 mouth

amyg:
Am tired of being in d waiting room 4 u nah,hope it dosnt take u 2yrs 2 propose.(Rescue team,over here)

Oh my brazilian cucumber, i'm only processing the right moment. You know i so want you my sweety

D-Explorer:

Oh my brazilian cucumber, i'm only processing the right moment. You know i so want you my sweety

Oh dearie,I ll b waiting.just dnt ask wot happens during d waiting session*winks*

What's with you and proposal sef?

The only thing I saw you writing about is how he dotes on you and likes you. What about you? Do you like him? If he asks you out, will agree? If he eventually proposes, will you accept?

You never for once said anything about how you feel about him. For all I know, it could just be an ego thing for you to feel desirable and wanted by someone coveted by many, whereas you don't really feel anything for him.

@poster if you love him, tell him your mind about his attitude but if you don't, free the lad!