Phone checking? NO NO NO!!! >
Only desperate and possesive ladies do that.

In response to the origin of this thread.

First: I CANNOT save any name in my phone with a pseudoname. If it's Mary, you will see it as Mary; if Angela, then you've got Angela. One can easily assume that every coded name is a secret admirer . It's that simple.

Second: For those inquisitive phone browsers, if you look for what is not lost, you will find what you don't expect and cannot stand. Curiosity killed the cat. Learn to trust what your hearthrob TELLS you. Call it quits when you catch him/her red handed.

Rhea,where did you get that name?

it depends on why he is checking my fone. if he just wants to play or something, fine. if he asks about anybody in my address book i'll tell him since i have nothing too hide. if he does it frequently, then i'll know that there's skon skon in his head

then i'll know that there's skon skon in his head

ROTFLMAO!

As long as you love him and is not cheating on him .Why not.

Why on earth can't he go thru ma phone? He infact does, he goes thru it not 'search', especialy ma inbox, n in a few cases we've had 2 have 'little talks' bout d kind of msgs he reads der- i actually leave dem on ma phone for him 2 read dem n thereafta i delete dem. There's this trust n we so love each other n we aint got skeletons so it's no big deal. I cud even take tyme 2 explain al d names in ma phonebook if he wants me to. Yes!

for why? why will anybody want browse my phone? i wont anyway so case closed.
its nothing anyway but i feel people should just learn to trust one another.simple !

nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Skeletons or not, trust or not, checkin a guys fone is a big mistake ladies
they say wat u dont know will not kill u!

som pple even get threats from gals theyve refused,
som get admirers all the time,
som have female "fans", u knw wat i mean

how do u explain such to ur lady
ths stuff brings alot of controversy btw couple,

so let the sleepin dog lie
as long as there is love n happiness
just let it go

yah he might not hav anythin to hide, but wat if u read a txt from such desperate pple
n resort to breakin ur relationship up based on wat u saw!
no xplanation wud make sense to u!

but u might be wrong
plzzz ladies, let the curiousity go!

thats my advice
a word is enuf 4 d wise

Any day any time the VIP NR , I have them in my head.
Not even on redial will you find me

Now you see me now you don't

ok guys , the topic of spousal snooping is once again being brought up just like when i asked a if it's ok to confront or collect evidence to which most ppl did reply to. okay my thing is that most people do things for a reason. in thatt line of thinking, most people snoop because they suspect their mate is up to no good. l sincerely doubt that your girlfriend would have been checking your phone, if she didn't think that something was going on.

yes, why not. oh is she/he not part of u anymore? than if she/he is part of u she/he got d right to search ur phone

some nairaland guys are just too bad and they are players,a guy who can't allow me search his phone is a player,i won't trust him,and we'll be laying our self.but i checki miy boyfi own sha

There is no problem about that my girlfriend can browse my phone.

nahhh,

Lia Lia my boy friend is such a jealous boy! even if he sees a boy's number on my phone Na wahala!

exactly just phone numbers and not that you are doin anythin outside, best thing just keep your phone to ur self

As much as I love to check other people's phone, I don't like my phone to be checked! If my friend, not even boyfriend, picks up my phone to check I will quickly grab it from him/her. I am secretive. If my troublesome friend wants me to chase her around a bit, all she does it to pick my phone and start running.

Yes why not, It all depends on why she is searching / what she is searching for. To start with, she probarbly knows every contact in my address book and has seen almost every SMS on the phone as well. I've always been so free leaving my cell phone with my Ex.

Effective communication is also very important. No coding, no assumptions. Let him/her know everything. That way, you guys are sure you are hiding nothing from each other. Its all about trust.

ronkeD:

Lia Lia my boy friend is such a jealous boy! even if he sees a boy's number on my phone Na wahala!

Ronke,  So what if he sees a boys number? As long as the name is not coded,  If both of you communicate well enough he should know almost all your male friends by name. Even at that gan pa pa, You fit jam a new friend today now,  how far with your bobo sef,  Make e take am easy,  Except he wants to kill himself with Hypertension. If he no trust you now, he is never going to trust you. I wonder on what foundation your relationship is then built? If you know say there is nothing to hide o, I beg let him go through your phone as many times as he wants to,  if his thermometer overguage because he see boy number, wahala ni o ko ra e si,  like say he no get girlfriends wey dey call him or wey he dey call. Saint Michael,

She can check mine, if i can check her's.

Wetin she day find for my phone abi she follow buy am.
I also noticed it is mostly the ladies that are for searching and the guys are like: No way !

Before the advent of GSM were relationships not being conducted in peace ? In fact we are taking technology and civilisation too far and causing unecessary problems for ourselves.No wonder relationships and marriages no longer last.People have become too suspicious and intolerant of each other.

Personally I don't think it is wise running through each others phones or computers.What are you looking for ? I will keep my phone to myself and let her keep hers.I have nothing to hide but there is no need for her to go searching.I will choose to trust her so I won't bother searching her phone either.If somebody is unfaithful it will come out one day,phone searching or no phone searching.

Checking your partner's phone to sincerely get a piece of information is okay but scrolling through to see what he or she has been up to speaks of distrust and somebody has no business being in that relationship in the first place.

Except she is paying my Verizon Phone Bill, otherwise she should not even touch it. I think it is a violation of my privacy. U said girlfriend not wife right?

Old Glory:

Except she is paying my Verizon Phone Bill, otherwise she should not even touch it. I think it is a violation of my privacy. U said girlfriend not wife right?

Young man, if you have nothing to hide, whats the big deal in she touching your phone? If she be girlfriend nko? No be girlfriend dey become wife? Shio kelebe tue, O wa la ara e

IAH:

As much as I love to check other people's phone, I don't like my phone to be checked!

@IAH, I suggest you keep your hands off other people's phones if yours is untouchable.

spikedcylinder
I didn't get ur question

To dominobaby,if you guys trust each other so much why do you have to explain everything on your phone?I believe if you love and trust each other you have to tell him all of your business without him confirming it on your phone.

Rhea,i like your name,is it your real name?if its not,where did you get it?geddit?

thanks!
it's a greek name for a girl meaning "she who flows"

is it your real name?

Rholadyn i accept the fact that plp who feel insecure r those u will search phones! But i am still saying Y DO GIRLS search more than the guys?

thupsie:

But i am still saying Y DO GIRLS search more than the boys?

Because girls are too possessive and some of them feel too insecure. When they come into your life they want to take everything over