I posted this at the wrong place so decided 2 re-post it here (I hope at the right place).

A female friend of mine was on a date with a guy she had been wanting to step out with for months. What happened on the date was so funny when she got back and told me, I laughed so hard I taught I would burst something. It’s not something she was proud of and I know she is not that kind of person that has bad dating behavior.  She was having dinner with the guy, when she got caught gawking another guy.  It doesn’t get much tackier than that! She had no real excuse for it, really.  I mean, she had some wine and was not enjoying the conversation then.  Even still, it didn’t give her the right to stare at the fine (FINE) man walking by.

To make matters worse, she locked eyes with said good looking man and he gestured something to her, as a rude boy wey in be.  Just when she tried to figure out what he was saying, she notice her date looking at her as if she had sprouted 7 heads.  Ewo!  she tried unsuccessfully to play it off and that just irritated him more. Things went downhill from there, including a icy glare and awkward silence.

Needless to say, I don’t think she will hear from him again.  He was justifiably annoyed. Heaven knows what she would have said or done had he been the one checking out some woman so blatantly.

Do you ever have a problem with wandering eyes?  When you are out with someone, do you ever sort of check out of the conversation and somehow start looking around at other people? Why do you think it happens?

What would you do if you caught your date or your significant other looking at someone else in front of you?

P.S. Do you think she should let sleeping dogs lie or would it be nice if she at least called to apologize?

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first of all, pls poster can you explain the below statement (or maybe this happened to you):

drnoel:

Just when she tried to figure out what he was saying, she notice her date looking at me as if I had sprouted 7 heads. 

as for what happened, she caught herself doing something NOT CLASSY at all on a date. having a simple glance is ok but staring/giving any attention to some OTHER dude, is just extremely cheap (and says a lot about this damsel).
thats a sure DATE KILLER!

at least the guy is a nice dude, i would have found a way to escape the restaurant, while she's still there, and send her a sms from my car telling her to go ask the other bobo to pay OUR bill, lol!

MRbrownJAY:

first of all, pls poster can you explain the below statement (or maybe this happened to you):

as for what happened, she caught herself doing something NOT CLASSY at all on a date. having a simple glance is ok but staring/giving any attention to some OTHER dude, is just extremely cheap (and says a lot about this damsel).
thats a sure DATE KILLER!

at least the guy is a nice dude, [size=14pt]i would have found a way to escape the restaurant, while she's still there, and send her a sms from my car telling her to go ask the other bobo to pay OUR bill, lol![/size]

Falls from OKADA!

MRbrownJAY:

first of all, pls poster can you explain the below statement (or maybe this happened to you):

as for what happened, she caught herself doing something NOT CLASSY at all on a date. having a simple glance is ok but staring/giving any attention to some OTHER dude, is just extremely cheap (and says a lot about this damsel).
thats a sure DATE KILLER!

at least the guy is a nice dude, i would have found a way to escape the restaurant, while she's still there, and send her a sms from my car telling her to go ask the other bobo to pay OUR bill, lol!

Nice one there. No it didn't happen 2 me, I did say at the begining of the post that I knew the chick. I got the gist 4rm the chick who wasn't very proud of what she did.

God safe your friend it was not me, seriously I treat her the DSTV advert!!

She goofed big time,so not cool on a date.
I think the eyes are meant to wander na,its only natural that when something\someone passes or something happens around you, you look in that direction,locking a gaze with another person of the opposite s3x when you are on a date is a no no.

I guess she had a better time with her wandering eye date.   

We are humans and we are going to look, but it is a disrespect when it is obvious you are attracted to someone other than you date/man.

^^^
It is not disrespectful, it becomes so when you actually ignore your date or spouse to pay attention to the other person

Mrs, Chima:

I guess she had a better time with her wandering eye date.   

We are humans and we are going to look, but it is a disrespect when it is obvious you are attracted to someone other than you date/man.

She really is this down 2 earth cool chick and a good friend of mine. Well I told her my mind and believe me when I say that I wasn't very nice about it. Funny, it happened in the company of the guy she keep wanting 2 step out with 4 a while . Sometimes u just don't understand women?

She could have done better

Killz3:

Falls from OKADA!

lol

She bleeped up nah ...she wuld ve taken permission from her guy to look @ d other Guy ...simple ..shows respect

apparentlylaw:
She bleeped up nah ...she wuld ve taken permission from her guy to look @ d other Guy ...simple ..shows respect

so u mean when men look they also have to take permission

drnoel:


so u mean when men look they also have to take permission

Sure nah ...the fact dah she was looking dosent mean she loves d guy ..Letz say its a form of admiring the guy or appreciating his swagg , anyfin .....if u are wif ur bae and u see another geh u can be like " wow ! Dz geh is hot buh I ve got a geh datz more hotter and itz u " she wuld grudge a lil buh definetly she mxt blush ....datz a way of asking permission

apparentlylaw:
Sure nah ...the fact dah she was looking dosent mean she loves d guy ..Letz say its a form of admiring the guy or appreciating his swagg , anyfin .....if u are wif ur bae and u see another geh u can be like " wow ! Dz geh is hot buh I ve got a geh datz more hotter and itz u " she wuld grudge a lil buh definetly she mxt blush ....datz a way of asking permission

What of if na ur woman

Not cool...

Pinkiedearie:
Not cool...

But it happens