Th op need to get a restraining order against the girl

Hmmmmmmmmmm

So she has bleeped Akin, Tunde and Femi. Now she's coming back to you?

If you like sloppy 4ths* Go for it, I guess.

* 4ths is being mighty generous. She probably bleeped more than 10 guys. So if you like sloppy elevensies, na wah for u

I change My mind. Guy take her back intact marry her, she is the love of your life and your light. You will be blessed greatly for doing this and guys all over the world will follow your example (at least the hediot and dumb ones)

doe-eyed:

Hmmmmmmmmmm

I am waiting on you

^^^^^^^
Haba,
Take am easy.
Have replied, long day

And I have replied again na

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Mynd_44:

I change My mind. Guy take her back intact marry her, she is the love of your life and your light. You will be blessed greatly for doing this and guys all over the world will follow your example (at least the hediot and dumb ones)

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The basic aspect about this issue is that the OP is wugly & inferior complex is killing him thats why he couldn't get any other girl over 4yrs.

^^^ 

abeg na, u dream about me 

i'm not ugly nor have inferior complex!

like i said, i just kept my cool and lived one day at a time.

i saw ur profile pix, maybe i'm not as hans as you, but my mama like me like this

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Follow your instincts then, it's fairly obvious you are strong-willed. I fancy @TV's advice, sounds like he's been around.

^^^ tnks.

TV's advice was great!

I'm just imagining any of those girls I rily worked hard for and didn't gree for me, I'll f.cu.k the living day light out of her, I'll tell her b4 hand she's on probation, and then I'll dump her sorry arse, Or we might just fall in love and get married, but her kitten is mission 1, When u dey hustle she no remember u, Na now wey things don dey rosey she rem u abi, Her punny must suffer for this

otooro:

^^^ 

abeg na, u dream about me 

i'm not ugly nor have inferior complex!

like i said, i just kept my cool and lived one day at a time.

i saw ur profile pix, maybe i'm not as hans as you, but my mama like me like this

brotha Tosin is right, if you couldnt find any decent woman during all this time, yet you are quick to consider this woman who gladly dumped you like a bad rash, then you DEFINITELY must have A) very low self esteem B) difficulty to "access" good women or C look like king kong.

care to tell us all what is so "special" about being around THIS lady for a few months, that you couldnt find in any other for the past FOUR YEARS?! by the look of your original post, i am even DOUBTING that she was ever your gf.

dont marry somebody over what they will change to , peep dont change much in life and shes ready to leave you hanging anytime she wants , think, dont tolerare failure cos of affection , make she cry blood, d cry sef fit be rehearsal

she went on sabbatical 

Guy, wetin u see for her body? Abeg forget her. Beside, u were not waiting for her.

thanks guys, i've put everything about her on hold till further notice!

i'm not even thinking about her!

majority of advice i've gotten seem to itch towards letting her go, which is what i'm doing until i get any contrary direction prayerfully and medically!

tnks again guys!

I have been in this situation, although it did not take 4 years for her to come back, my advice is ---> DO NOT TAKE HER BACK! The issue is that she is lonely and she does not have anybody, so she remembered you! If you take her back she would always feel and think that you have no other option in your life! She would always see you as a loser who can not get a girl. My advice be pro active and start meeting girls. Go to every social occasion to meet more girls that you can f.u.ck, date and get a relationship that can lead to marriage.

MRbrownJAY:

brotha Tosin is right, if you couldnt find any decent woman during all this time, yet you are quick to consider this woman who gladly dumped you like a bad rash, then you DEFINITELY must have A) very low self esteem B) difficulty to "access" good women or C look like king kong.

care to tell us all what is so "special" about being around THIS lady for a few months, that you couldnt find in any other for the past FOUR YEARS?! by the look of your original post, i am even DOUBTING that she was ever your gf.

no mind the guy.

mynd44.

thanks guys, i've put everything about her on hold till further notice!

i'm not even thinking about her!

majority of advice i've gotten seem to itch towards letting her go, which is what i'm doing until i get any contrary direction prayerfully and medically!

tnks again guys!

Always