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^^^Caramba, this lady has said it all - go that way - it is the best, that way you dont ave regrets.

merge:

He will take her back.

Why have you not had interest in another woman? Four years

Puvguy:

Op I would have advised you to ignore her but the situation is to your advantage. Why? She has learned
albeit the hard way that the grass is not always greener at the other side. I will advised same if you were
my brother. She's more mature and will adore you. Cheers.

La Parisienne:

I think you should take her back if she's really sincere and repentant. I think she's been around, she now knows the difference between a good man and a coward. She knows your worth as a good man, that's why she came back to you.

Before you take her back, verify the motive behind her return. And find out if she's the girl you loved 4 years ago.

Tosinville:

Take her back? after 4yrs? OP, you're on a looooooong thing, some girls are good @ shedding crocodile tears & she'll still pend u to look for someone she's to love again, wondering must i be financially OK b4 my 4yrs old ex can come back to me? wat if if you're still d same 4yrs back then she won't even show up?

claremont:

@OP: If I were you, I will tell her to f-uck off. There are a whole lot of fresh meat everywhere, why would anyone want to still go for expired, used, and heavily knackered meat!

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How about, he accept, slam the living daylights out of her, and leave her again. I am very very materialistic when it comes to girls seriously.
Just like the girls consider lots of factors before dating a guy. I have a rather interesting checklist - if the girl is very beautiful and educated scores less than 10% of everything. I mean, there are more important factors to me. So it depends on the OPs method of assessing babes.

But he is very likely to take her back.

Adetayo100:

U can take her back if u still love her but what assurance do have to no that she won't break ur heart again if she meet her former boy friend or a new guy. She disapponted when u need her the most, u are just her second choice. So think twice before taking any action

Tosinville:

^^Sorry, u don't need that kind of girl in your life & cos she'll make u cry this time around, oto-oro ni mo so fun e, iwo naa le je ninu obo e fun 1month ko le weyree da nu.

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Sorry, i was just saying what i might do (or possible have done in the past who knows). Anyway, you are a nice guy, i hope you are not a virgin sha

Because you seem to have an aversion for "slaming the living daylights out of her". Me, i am gentle to an extent, but in this situation, i wont mind flogging her a bit sha with the you-know-what just to tell her i mean b'nes.

A gentler option might be, not to touch her for awhile, and act stand-ofish for awhile. Dont make her feel too important, that will throw in some insecurities and will allow you to solve her problems better.

(Me wey dey advise self don land for one small problem and am trying to figure a way out sef)
That is why i said he should slam her very very hard so that if he loses her he will not have regrets.

otooro:

tosin, that's a little too harsh for me to swallow 
[size=14pt]there's regret in slamming someone who's not ur wife! i've not done that before, i don't intend to  [/size]

sleekcm:

I'v bn in ur shoes before, but there was a lot of slamming, a lot! She left me 'cos i was fresh outa nysc and punk broke. Now she's softening,wantn back. It's fairly obvious u r still drawn to this babe,i say be d man: dnt let what u feel now cloud ur senses, there are a lot of gd ladies out there,u jst hv to open ur eyes n mk urself available. If u r gona gv her a chance,kp an open mind,dnt pin ur hopes on her or u'ld be sorry. Gd luck.

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*Falls from an iroko tree* into a well. . .

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*Falls from an iroko tree* into a well and hits his head on the pavement and p3nnis is cut and bleeding.

IZUKWU:

*Falls from an iroko tree* into a well and hits his head on the pavement and p3nnis is cut and bleeding.

otooro:

*thinking mode activated*

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sleekcm:

C'mon man,u want her,just take her back. At least she's not a virgin,but she's gonna screw ur brains out! U're lucky she's quite experienced,have u bn given a "head" before? She's gonna want to placate u with a bleep fest. Look at d bright side mate, u r abt to tap some a5ss. Good times!