My boyfriend and I broke up two weeks ago. Before the break-up, his best friend has been the one mediating between us for close to a month, making efforts to ensure that the bond between us isn't broken but his efforts proved abortive, we eventually had to dissolve the affair.  A week after the relationship crumbled, my ex boyfriend's friend asked me out! I was amazed and confused, that how can the guy helping to mend our affair suddenly become interested in me?? He said he had conceived emotional feelings for me long ago but he couldn't confess because I was already dating his friend. So he took solace in the fact that he cannot marry me. But now that we decided to end the affair, he couldn't help but bring back his feelings and confess them before I hook up with someone else. I told him I am not comfortable with it cos he is my ex's best friend, so my ex will feel kind of betrayed if he finds out and that I don't want to be the subject of a break in their friendship tide. But he insists that my ex would even be happier to find out that I'm with him (in safe hands cos he's no stranger to me). So I asked him to discuss it with my ex, so as to know his position. He did that, and told me that my ex is indifferent about it, that my ex said he(my ex's friend) can ask me out if he wants to. I thought I will be relieved after hearing this, but I'm more confused instead. Please advice me on what to do.

i think there are probabilities but you just have to know you are putting up a big fight between your ex and his friend

but how are you sure the guys aren't playing with you, guys can be awkward sometimes, it looks that way if his friend agrees a go ahead

~Planned work~ ur ex is simply bored wit u and don't u no more. Don't be surprise ur ex's friend will also get his own share and dump ur arse & you'll end up been the jest of the day. GirlzWithChickenBrain.com™

I don't which is more pathetic - tthe fact that you will be degraded or your stupidity. Two weeks and you are already considering dating that says a lot about your just ended relationship, and to even think of dating his -wait for this- BEST FRIEND, babes you no dey try at all. Now two scenarios:
1. Your boo never really was into you and permitting his friend to continue his legacy should make you shudder.
2. Both dudes only saw you as a sex object from day one, your boo is tired and it's his friends turn to f.u.ck you to his fill, of course before dumping your daft arse. Forget about his friend saying he had feelings from day one-that one na format.
In conclusion, dupe lowo ori e, the fact that you're on here means that the stars are aligned in your favour. Omoge carry waka, you mission for dat area don expire. A word is enuff, however, if your lust for his friend is overwhelming by all means straff away.

fresh_dude:

I don't which is more pathetic - tthe fact that you will be degraded or your stupidity. Two weeks and you are already considering dating that says a lot about your just ended relationship, and to even think of dating his -wait for this- BEST FRIEND, babes you no dey try at all. Now two scenarios:
1. Your boo never really was into you and permitting his friend to continue his legacy should make you shudder.
[size=13pt]2. Both dudes only saw you as a sex object from day one, your boo is tired and it's his friends turn to f.u.ck you to his fill, of course before dumping your daft arse. Forget about his friend saying he had feelings from day one-that one na format. [/size]
   In conclusion, dupe lowo ori e, the fact that you're on here means that the stars are aligned in your favour. Omoge carry waka, you mission for dat area don expire. A word is enuff, however, if your lust for his friend is overwhelming by all means straff away.

Exactly. I dont understand why some babes have nothing upstairs. Many of them are like the Op. That is d reason u see 3 brother fo,orkin a girl.

Hmm wonders wont cease. Just have it @ d back of ur mind dat if u carry out ur plan u will be an object of mockery, discussion material and a sex tool. He will neva take u serious.
Afterall ur ex's bestfnd blivs dat wat is good for goose is gud for him too

The best friend is one sneaky bastard!!!! I  bet he couldn't wait for the relationship to be over before moving in. Haba one week?!?!?!?!

Just an advice to you OP,
You just ended one relationship and you are already considering another one? It doesn't matter that the guy is your ex's bff. It's always a sign of dependency and emotional instability when one jumps from relationship to relationship. Have you taken the time to heal from your just concluded relationship? What hv you learnt from it?
What would you do if your ex decides to come back and work things out with you? What would you expect the ex to do? Give you off and start a life time feud with his former bff?

If you decide to date this friend, how do you think he would view you? How must respect do you think he will have for you? How do you think he would feel if you both are hving problems and another friend mediates? Or any of other friends say just hello to you?

Woman, there is a thin line btw what women are considered respectable and those tht they consider slutty.
The writing is on the wall. Good luck

deniyor:

The best friend is one sneaky bastard!!!! I bet he couldn't wait for the relationship to be over before moving in. Haba one week?!?!?!?!

Just an advice to you OP,
You just ended one relationship and you are already considering another one? It doesn't matter that the guy is your ex's bff. It's always a sign of dependency and emotional instability when one jumps from relationship to relationship. Have you taken the time to heal from your just concluded relationship? What hv you learnt from it?
What would you do if your ex decides to come back and work things out with you? What would you expect the ex to do? Give you off and start a life time feud with his former bff?

If you decide to date this friend, how do you think he would view you? How must respect do you think he will have for you? How do you think he would feel if you both are hving problems and another friend mediates? Or any of other friends say just hello to you?

Woman, there is a thin line btw what women consider respectable and tht they consider slutty.
The writing is on the wall. Good luck

abeg u 2 korrect

fresh_dude:

I don't know which is more pathetic - the fact that you will be degraded or your stupidity. Two weeks and you are already considering dating that says a lot about your just ended relationship, and to even think of dating his -wait for this- BEST FRIEND, babes you no dey try at all. Now two scenarios:
1. Your boo never really was into you and permitting his friend to continue his legacy should make you shudder.
2. Both dudes only saw you as a sex object from day one, your boo is tired and it's his friends turn to f.u.ck you to his fill, of course before dumping your daft arse. Forget about his friend saying he had feelings from day one-that one na format.
In conclusion, dupe lowo ori e, the fact that you're on here means that the stars are aligned in your favour. Omoge carry waka, you mission for dat area don expire. A word is enuff, however, if your lust for his friend is overwhelming by all means straff away.

seconded,thirded,e.t.c. U pple have said it all,abi chic u wan confirm? Dat will b at ur own risk. Are u sure dat guy is not responsible 4 ur break up with ur ex?

fresh_dude:

I don't which is more pathetic - tthe fact that you will be degraded or your stupidity. Two weeks and you are already considering dating that says a lot about your just ended relationship, and to even think of dating his -wait for this- BEST FRIEND, babes you no dey try at all. Now two scenarios:
1. Your boo never really was into you and permitting his friend to continue his legacy should make you shudder.
2. Both dudes only saw you as a sex object from day one, your boo is tired and it's his friends turn to f.u.ck you to his fill, of course before dumping your daft arse. Forget about his friend saying he had feelings from day one-that one na format.
In conclusion, dupe lowo ori e, the fact that you're on here means that the stars are aligned in your favour. Omoge carry waka, you mission for dat area don expire. A word is enuff, however, if your lust for his friend is overwhelming by all means straff away.

lol. This is as blunt as it can get

baby i understand you need a sharp replacement do what you like. who knows, the guy might have a pure heart of love i av seen it happen several times. all you need to do, is just to keep going out with him but don't Zap. him. that is if you can keep it long. nobody will tell him to run if his in tension is just to come and sample.

Sex object, chop make a chop

poster

it's a setup don't i repeat[b] DONT[/b] do it. you will be known as a LovePeddler trust me. Why the heck would you even consider dating someone who was so close to the two of you and for that matter it's only been two weeks. Are you that insecure that you can't be by yourself even for a month?

Anyway dont do it tell that fool to go away

fresh_dude:

I don't which is more pathetic - tthe fact that you will be degraded or your stupidity. Two weeks and you are already considering dating that says a lot about your just ended relationship, and to even think of dating his -wait for this- BEST FRIEND, babes you no dey try at all. Now two scenarios:
1. Your boo never really was into you and permitting his friend to continue his legacy should make you shudder.
2. Both dudes only saw you as a sex object from day one, your boo is tired and it's his friends turn to f.u.ck you to his fill, of course before dumping your daft arse. Forget about his friend saying he had feelings from day one-that one na format.
In conclusion, dupe lowo ori e, the fact that you're on here means that the stars are aligned in your favour. Omoge carry waka, you mission for dat area don expire. A word is enuff, however, if your lust for his friend is overwhelming by all means straff away.

dude i didnt see this before i responded. Poster here it is the answer you seek

I missed the part where the ex is okay with her dating the friend

definitely a case of passing her around - definitely.

It ain't no funnnnnnn

If the homies can't havvvvvvvvve none.

It ain't no funnnnnnn

If the homies can't havvvvvvvvve none.

SAFO:

It ain't no funnnnnnn

If the homies can't havvvvvvvvve none.

It ain't no funnnnnnn

If the homies can't havvvvvvvvve none.

Everybody isn't your friend and it is easy to say I am your friend then to actually be your friend these days. 

Empty wagons make the most noise.

@all, u ppl are just shouting its too early, two weeks, and she is thinking abt dating again? Let me ask u guys , just because one had a car accident doesn't mean, he/she will not enter a car again, in fact its a vehicle that will get him/her to a hospital! Una just dey here seriouisly they advice the daft OP. Oh girl ride on, since them born u as slowpoke, wey u no knw say na chop I chop them wan do u. ODE!

Ping pong is always an interesting sport

Mynd_44:

Ping pong is always an interesting sport

Until people start transferring AIDS/HIV.

Get strapped na.
As weed smokers say puff puff pass. This is nyansh nyansh pass

^^^ Falls off empty Wagon.

Hope you did not break your neck?

Almost though but you guys are killing me. This poor girl will have nightmares. She will never date again.

OP clap for your self because you are ASHAWO

Guy stop it. It is an insult to all ASHES. Atleast, they get paid. She will be used like a 12/13 spanner and then when she becomes a squeezed out orange, dumped like last when's meat loaf

SAFO:

It ain't no funnnnnnn

If the homies can't havvvvvvvvve none.

It ain't no funnnnnnn

If the homies can't havvvvvvvvve none.

guess whos back in the mofo house with a fat dic for your mofo mouth thats ma joint

Nice

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bandiejay: OP clap for your self because you are ASHAWO

Stop talking like a kid!