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Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by LongOne1(m): 12:42pm On Feb 22, 2012
Hmm…this is interesting and worrying at the same time.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by bknight: 2:02pm On Feb 22, 2012
There are many marriage-able men. But they belong to those worthy of their present (broke) state and will reap their future (accomplished) state together.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by snthesis(m): 2:21pm On Feb 22, 2012
Logic Mind:

Believe me you don't need an agency. Just get ouside and start speaking to ladies. You will be amazed. Before you know it, they will start fighting each other because of you.
walahi!!! i took ur advice and strolled outside, within 5mins see as howt chicss dey rush me grin grin cheesy, i had to run back inside with two of them wink

@shadrach777
thanx mate- less grease on ur palms grin grin grin
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by Nobody: 3:33pm On Feb 22, 2012
OP is partly right just because times are tough and guys are finding it harder to commit and the rich ones can pick and choose.

On the other hand, this is not new and a woman's life has different seasons. A girl is most attractive and wasted between 19 and 27. Anything after 28, their value reduces. Unfortunately, most naija girls are proud and love the attention they get. So when they are within the ripe ages (19 -27) they are proud and play hard to get, but they suddenly notice at age 29 that all the attention they used to get at 22 is all gone. Very few guys will look at them and most of the responsible guys will have been taken. So they are left with the very young ones whom they cannot date and the irresponsible ones. So they say there are few guys out there these days.

There is a season to everything, for the young girls (under 25) reading this, you should know that the attention you are getting now will not last for much longer. Try and find a guy to settle down with even if he is not 10/10. In another 5 years, you would be damaged goods or even obsolete.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by mamalola19: 5:36pm On Feb 22, 2012
this topic on nl na obonge my best
frontpage material abeg
mods make it possible
i have been lol since
esp that article the op released
tpia hope u r gud, u seem to be commenting on this thread so much
you sound distressed, ma'am whats up

a lot of nl men are marriagable dt what i have been made to believe
my advise cut ur coat according to ur size no look for 10 over 10
e beta make u marry 4 over 10 than to be desperate for man
na too much education career n class cause all dis katakata
everyone want desmon elliot ramsey noah no one want segun arinze
abi yemi blaq. person go dey talk i love you for man wey im never meet
but through online n fone. if 4 over 10 love you, pick am
if u dey wait online spouse, u r oyo.
if na 2 and d half over 10, take am if you don pass 30
na true talk anoda person no go tell u the koko

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Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by coogar: 5:43pm On Feb 22, 2012
mamalola19:


a lot of nl men are marriagable dt what i have been made to believe
my advise cut ur coat according to ur size no look for 10 over 10
e beta make u marry 4 over 10 than to be desperate for man
na too much education career n class cause all dis katakata
everyone want desmon elliot ramsey noah no one want segun arinze
abi yemi blaq. person go dey talk i love you for man wey im never meet
but through online n fone. if 4 over 10 love you, pick am
if u dey wait online spouse, u r oyo.
if na 2 and d half over 10, take am if you don pass 30

na true talk anoda person no go tell u the koko


mamalola, your advice leaves a bitter taste in the mouth.
so it's all about who loves the chics and not who they love?
so if your meiguard loves you 9/10, that criterion alone makes him a hot candidate?

no wonder naija babes are confused.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by mamalola19: 8:01pm On Feb 22, 2012
coogar:

mamalola, your advice leaves a bitter taste in the mouth.
so it's all about who loves the chics and not who they love?
so if your meiguard loves you 9/10, that criterion alone makes him a hot candidate?

no wonder naija babes are confused.

sisi always go for who dem love even if d man does nt love dem back
sisi always go for money instead of who loves them
sis go for shine shine bobo even if he hates them
siss go for class
so let women go for love me, i love you God no go vex
when u r not willing to compromise, you will end up with failed promise
its 2012 sisi better shine your eyes. come r u a single sisi too
e be like i hit a nerve on u. no worry man go come for u
ok i recal u, na u come attack me for my thread. till now u nvr see nl man to marrytongue
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by Killz3(m): 8:07pm On Feb 22, 2012
mamalola19:

sisi always go for who dem love even if d man does nt love dem back
sisi always go for money instead of who loves them
sis go for shine shine bobo even if he hates them
siss go for class
so let women go for love me, i love you God no go vex
when u r not willing to compromise, you will end up with failed promise
its 2012 sisi better shine your eyes. come r u a single sisi too
e be like i hit a nerve on u. no worry man go come for u
ok i recal u, na u come attack me for my thread. till now u nvr see nl man to marrytongue

You are always in a hurry to be faster than your shadow. . . Coogar is MALE! Dum Dum19.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by mamalola19: 8:12pm On Feb 22, 2012
~Killz~:

You are always in a hurry to be faster than your shadow. . . Coogar is MALE! Dum Dum19.

let me see road abeg
u think i bother about people for here
me and u r totally diff
i come write and fu ck off
u come write erase draw and fu ck in
i no dey sign roll call
i knw ur name na no1 noise maker for here
how do u knw he is a man
na u dey friend am?
aproko asko ntoi
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by Killz3(m): 8:20pm On Feb 22, 2012
^^^
Ode! You no bother for people for here. Na in you dey crush on top pesin? You be proper hypocritical cow! You smoke mess? Na me you dey para give abi? make i no enter you dis night make you for no regret why you login. . . Small pikin! i don dey believe say you be man and you be gay. nonsense!
How do i know you are a girl? Make thunder fire that your kpekere finger dia! angry
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by mamalola19: 8:29pm On Feb 22, 2012
~Killz~:

^^^
Ode! You no bother for people for here. Na in you dey crush on top pesin? You be proper hypocritical cow! You smoke mess? Na me you dey para give abi? make i no enter you dis night make you for no regret why you login. . . Small pikin! i don dey believe say you be man and you be gay. nonsense!
How do i know you are a girl? Make thunder fire that your kpekere finger dia! angry


ha! no deny ur love for coogar

see as u handle ur crush as a grown man
killz dey in love
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by Killz3(m): 8:45pm On Feb 22, 2012
Person go dey house dey find im goat, im no go no say the goat dey cybercafe dey browse NL as mumu19. St[i]u[/i]pid boy! Instead of you to accept that you mistakenly alluded to coogar as a female while trying to make a pointless point, you are here aggravating your stupidity! Carry your mumu waka far abeg. I no get time for you now. Make i ignore your yansh small! wink
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by tpia5: 9:27pm On Feb 22, 2012
tpia hope u r gud, u seem to be commenting on this thread so much
you sound distressed, ma'am whats up

i'm distressed by the shortage of marriageable men in nigeria- as pointed out in the thread title.

hence my problem.

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Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by MrsChima1(f): 10:23pm On Feb 22, 2012
There are a huge shortage of intelligent people with functioning brains.  lipsrsealed
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by afinic001(m): 10:50pm On Feb 22, 2012
The gurls are the cause of this ugly situation. They demand too much and yet sex is as cheap as pure water. So guys are not ready to marry.

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Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by bknight: 11:33pm On Feb 22, 2012
Don't u think marriage-able women r scarcer? Are those looking for marriage-able men marriage-able themselves?
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by tpia5: 3:31am On Feb 23, 2012
bknight:

Don't u think marriage-able women r scarcer?

Who knows





Are those looking for marriage-able men marriage-able themselves?



its easier to mold an unmarriageable woman into a marriageable one, than to mold an unmarriageable man into marriage material, dont you think.

you know for women, they can be all sorts of things but become serious when marriage/relationship is involved.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by mamalola19: 5:23am On Feb 23, 2012
tpia@:

i'm distressed by the shortage of marriageable men in nigeria- as pointed out in the thread title.

hence my problem.

there is notin u can do to change dt
shortage dey for man and woman
na for person to soji him or herself
na too much requirement dey cause am
if worse come to it, woman buy man and do oath with am
if u leave me, ur pen is and wealth goes
i no be mumu, if i were to buy man,
i go carry am go ifa if im waka im no go make am again
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by bknight: 7:47am On Feb 23, 2012
True tpia. I guess u gave it more thots dan I did. But its except d "molding" means "permanently changed" else women keep their true behaviors in their fingertips till after wedding, d 'molding' can be a mere well articulated deceit.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by tpia1: 6:27pm On Aug 29, 2014
shadrach77: i've heard and i believe that the days of ladies playing ;hard-to-get' is gone in nigeria - a lot of ladies have lamented about how Nigerian men are unwilling to tie the knot and finding a responsible man is becoming more and more difficult. Recently i read a story about a guy who registered with a dating agency and within a short period, he had been introduced to over 8 ladies. Within weeks, he had slept with five of them. I'm amazed too at the ease at which i make friends and collect numbers of 9ja girls on facebook - it's the ladies who even make the move nowadays. The suitors are not coming and the ladies are becoming increasingly desperate and would do anything to hook a man

so guys, what's the reason for this trend? your thoughts  cheesy wink wink


Sleeping with five women within weeks?

What exactly is he looking for, that's a sex addiction which in turn contributes to man shortage.
Re: is There A Shortage Of Marriage-able Men In Nigeria? Girls Becoming Desperate by tpia1: 6:29pm On Aug 29, 2014








its easier to mold an unmarriageable woman into a marriageable one, than to mold an unmarriageable man into marriage material, dont you think.



Not necessarily impossible though, and having said that, some women really do prefer remaining single after marriage, just like some men.

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