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davidylan: it is not rocket science . . . do you reciprocate the calls and sms messages or do you like most Nigerian girls simply sit there lapping all the attention and forgeting that a relationship shldnt be one-sided?

Are you understanding enough to realise that 5 calls a day is not economically feasible?

and pls move this to the romance section.

wen he no longer sees those qualities he saw in u that made him chase u den tendency is he wud withdraw

also wen eeeerm too much of sex is invoved,it becomes less fun.

furthermore,if u get tired he gets tired.....my opinion

@david sorry i quoted yhu.....

was directing that to op

pearl~hapi:
@david sorry i quoted yhu.....

was directing that to op

Wetin do ur BBM?....U don change phone?

The guys who want to chase you just want sex, decent dudes do not want to chase you! Were did this dumb myth come from?

The only men who will follow you around like that are guys who have no other options or are thirsty. When u act like this it makes it more difficult for everyone involved.

Whn u in a relationship..two finks r strictly important.swallowin ur pride n forgoing ur Ego.

kalmebad: @Sweetemi

A very good observation u made there,u are right and i agree with u

@ Some repliers
is one question that no answer here on nairaland can justify, the question still remains a mystery to me,the truth is that even when a lady reciprocate in every way she should or even give in more than expected, sometimes is never d same as in the beginning, a guy declares an undying love from the inception of d toasting, exhibit every charms and whims and suddenly it becomes "the more u look at them, the less u c with them" guys make una try to dey straighten ways. anyway 4 me i have given up on them, their sing song doesn't catch my attention anymore, i rather tell them to take it to the next person. When d right person shows, i go kwn and don't go asking how, cus dat u wont be able to find out. And there wont be much with words but action.

how will u know the right one when divert him to next person..?

Because u haven't required him to. the busier and nice you are ,the more he persists.delay the cookie(sex)and make the game the interesting.he's the hunter and you are the prey.his intention is to get you.if you want it to last,be unavailable and nice.when he calls you,don't spend hours talking give polite excuse,when you go on a date,don't spend much time and politely excuse yourself.he will persists

^ what is the point

I think if you start a relationship as a chase.... it will end when the chase is over. Ladies please don't waste your time (and our time) like this.

I cant believe this is what u guys call 'relationship' in Nigeria, it sounds awefull!

Pleep why naaa? I thot this thread was dead and gone. Plss let's forget this thing ooo. Some girl will always bliv they should be chased. Why should I chase a girl when I can chase fame and success and watch them chase me? It's only a dumb,jobless guy that will spend his entire energy and resources chasing a woman.

Madam,how much for this red garri.

uchetobi: If he is not picking ur calls then he is not interested FINITE

Agreed! Bt d question here is 'Why is he NOT intrested?'