md4real: hey guys, just want to know how its done. it really kind of look like a very strong thing to walk up to a lady in the midst of her friends and start blabbing...i need some concept please.

fxtimi: Hello ladies,My name is so and so(zeros in on da chic of interest and ask for her name and work it from there) Always works like a charm for me.

amiebeauty: [color=#770077][/color]even if she would have agreed, her friends' presence won't let her 'cause she won't wanna feel so cheap. it will even give her 276% more confidence to belittle your swag to hell. Thats True

ubong560: It all depends. A situatn wher u pack ur range rover and blow ur horn, even if ther are 100, u wil c how confused they would b graving 4 u. Bt if u b bako pikin, omo respect urself and cut ur okrika accrdng 2 ur size.

ypzilanti: It can be done. But do not attempt this if you have not mastered the art of flirting and conversing in an 'I like you manner' with women.

Women respond to certain vibes and manner of approach. If you are not very good with women, you really need to take time to observe what the guys who are successful with women do.

Generally, women respond to a confident and funny guy. 'Confident' does not mean 'cocky' and 'funny' does not mean you have to be a clown. If you are not confident and funny, you cannot achieve anything positive from this adventure of getting a girl in the midst of her friends.

What a confident and funny guy should do is to engage all the women in conversation first. If you succeed at that, watch the terrain and decide what to do from there. You may be surprised that after conversation, you might like another of the girls better than the initial girl you sighted. It's the girl you make a connection with, that you should toast,oh. If you cannot connect with the one you sighted, and you gree die say na that one you want, still take the number of the one you connected with...as a link to the other girl. I have been there before.

pinky21: nope, jst trying to say wots ril. Ask any girl

IRAPADA: very easy.Just walk up to her and tell her in presence of hr frds baby i love u and i wil like to take u to bed

Okija_juju: So this is just too easy yet not foolproof. . .

First of all, you need confidence.

When you approach them, treat them like wild animals, expect them to scratch and claw you, but be firm. Dont go and just start talking to your target, enter their midst, introduce yourself, depending on where you are, find something to shatter the ice, and dont stay for too long. . When you have them a little relaxed, apologize to the rest and tell them that "so-so lady" caught your eyes and thats why you came up to them. Make it look like you are taking their permission without asking. And then turn to the "target babe", in 30 secs make your killer speech and leave her with a business card and plead with her to call you. Also, give her friends one (preferably the second finest in the pack). If its at a bar, leave them with drinks, if its a restaurant, pay their bill or buy them a bottle of wine or something.

beylinko: I don't advice you do the toasting in front of her friends. If you can walk up 2 them and engage them in general discusions n if u know 1 of them b4 then its beta (depends on ur swag then confidence 2).the nxt tyme u see d particular girl, ur work will be easier

beylinko: I don't advice you do the toasting in front of her friends. If you can walk up 2 them and engage them in general discusions n if u know 1 of them b4 then its beta (depends on ur swag then confidence 2).the nxt tyme u see d particular girl, ur work will be easier

md4real:

that is the point especially typical Nigerian babe

IRAPADA: very easy.Just walk up to her and tell her in presence of hr frds baby i love u and i wil like to take u to bed

slimyem: its no biggie as long as you appear smart and confident.
like someone said already,engage them all in some sorta general discussion,dedicate special attention to her during the convo.
she'll get the sign and you can take it from there.

Idowuogbo:
Dude u get some guys dat are cocky with dia approach.

Wen i say i cocky i mean d overconfident ones dat come up feeling all special and egotistical.

md4real: hey guys, just want to know how its done. it really kind of look like a very strong thing to walk up to a lady in the midst of her friends and start blabbing...i need some concept please.