I use to have this friend before we had problem. While we were still friends he introduced me to his girl friend and i knew very well about their relationship. But presentely they are not together (according to his girl friend) like wise me and the guy we dont seem to do things together anymore too. And right now the said girl friend comes around to see me and she is fallin for me. My fello NLanders please i need your help cos i'am confused on what to do.

A friend WITH needs, is a friend indeed!

My friend, be very caution in this kinda issues cuz 80 percent of such cases back-fires! In most cases, relationship started through this means don't last long due to the history originated from. First-The most important question is: do you love her and want to be with her? If you do then i suggest you make it a little hard for her for a month or so through avoiding her calls most times, not replying her sms most times (even if u like her), this way it'll make her value this relationship and not walk away like previous one. Thank you.

@OP,
I see you are a teenager. May be you should wait and grow a little more to understand that dating or having any affair with your current or past friend's current or past ex is a no no.

Inked_Nerd: Confused on what? Since you don't know whether or not she's actually telling the truth, you might wanna ask your friend just to confirm things--doesn't mean that you need to tell him that the girlfriend has taken an interest in you. Just casually talk to him and in the process, ask him about his relationship.

Right now me and the said friend we dont talk
on phone anymore so i dont tink i can get a chance to talk with him let more talk about his relationship

@OP
As you dey see me so, I dey do babes but not any that had any relationship with any known person.
It is a deadly affair. A word is enoff for the wise.

@OP...Would you wana go ahead and date a girl you know quite well your friend used to date? Would have suggested you go ask your friend to clear the air and hear his thoughts on the issue, buh since u said u guys have problems now, dat myt be pretty difficult to carry out. Still, you ought to know the truth before to make any other decision. Goodluck!

OP follow your heart,but as for me,i wont do such thing

It would have been better if you still talk with your friend, that way you can clear things out with him. My cousin once dated my ex, I see no biggie in it. Life goes on.