Adeniyi A.:
it depends on the definition u give to being 'nice'. some ladies are sooo 'nice' wt their 'thing' that after a guy has seen,tasted n explore all d explorables,he seeks new place to perch, abi variety is d spice of life they say,so if u want 2 b 'nice', u b appetizer b dt o. some ladies are too 'nice' by falling too cheapishly n ...
d truth is guys kno real wife material not some 'nice-material'

Adeniyi A.:
@merge dey vex o, pls help beg her o biko, seriously ar u talking from experience?
personally i believe it takes two to tango,i think both ladies n guys want it, so are both guilty.
some ladies lack self control such that they melt in d presence of a sweet talkin guy, in d end they are d worst hit n complain of heartbreak.
d problem stemmed from societal loss of values and lack of fear of God.
show me a girl who thinks she can use s.ex to pin a guy down n ¡ wil show one who is unprincipled n lacks moral...

shymmex: Nice girls died a long time ago; all these chics alive now are opportunists, they all fall in love for reasons to them, and they will be gone when the smoke clears.

Guys, when I da girl suddenly falls in love with for no damn reason, and she's screaming 'marriage' - please, run as fast as you can. Chics can NEVER be trusted; if you believe her bs love and reciprocate that bs; you're on your own because she's gonna mess your life up.

There are two rules to the game:

- NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A GIRL.
- NEVER TRUST GIRLS; GIRLS ARE THE BIGGEST LIARS SINCE LUCIFER.

I let my guard down once; got emotional and fell in love with this girl that's always telling me how much she loves me and how she would do anything for me. It was so crazy that if I tell his girl to jump, she would. She was everything you would describe as a "nice girl" - but two years down the line, when I finally decided to give her a chance, and reciprocate the love - then, she showed her true colours. Damn, she turned me into a stalker and almost messed my life up.

Phuck bytches for real, I'll never believe that love shyte. I prefer a girl that tolerates me; gives me the chance to do whatever the phuck I wanna do; and don't expect too much from me than that love bs.

Onegai: A lot of guys I know swear up and down that they're looking for nice girls. Yet she comes around and they don't like her, or she is too young, or one thing, or another weird excuse. I have 2 male friends, both dating what I would define as marriage-material sort of girls, both girls physically stunning and smart to boot. Well, One friend broke up with his chick. Granted, he was young, but what was his reason? "She wanted to marry me, and I didn't know why she just wanted to marry me. When I have nothing". HUH?? Now, a few years later, he's meeting girls who, once they realise he's poor and without a car, suddenly realise he's quite short, gosh how busy they are to meet him and how he's a "great friend" and no more. His ex, meanwhile, loved him short and car-less. The other, same thing. He's too busy suspecting his sweet new babe of trying to settle down with him. I've advised him to study her, but he keeps seeing imaginary stuff (he's stopped eating at her house because he's worried she will jaz him, meanwhile babe is upset her man no wan chop her soup. And she dey pray for him, helped him with a contract at her office, bought him a small val's day gift out of her small salary when he got her nothing and decided to sleep with him because he insisted, though she's been celibate for YEARS). Meanwhile, my mugu is seeing all her flaws magnified and can't wait to get rid of her. Funny thing: they have mutual friends, who can tell him all her exes would KILL to get back with her, she's so nice.
Guys, why do you not like good things?

ivorybabe88:

I ask myself that all the time, im a nice girl and i seem to always get the short end of the stick all the time......ive noticed that guys are more into women that dog them out, and show them more attention when they are treated like sh1t. The women that respect them are always taken advantage of or are said to show " too much love".....

carefreewannabe:

girl, you said you go after "bad boys" so why do you ask yourself this kind of questions? it's obvious why it happens to you that way. if you figure out how to appreciate good people you will not have to suffer no more and you will be appreciated in return.

merge:

Just admit that most Nigerian guys goal is to sleep with 100+ women before they marry. Its has nothing to do with women behavior. If most Nigerian guy found a good women at age 22, he will avoid her like a plaque and sleep around with the slutty women. Until he reach mid 30s, he will settle for what he can get and mostly not a good women. Good women are hard to find. If you take a look at most of their past, they had the chance to get with a good women. You will found out many did not pay them any attention.

Guys will found ways to blame women for their hoeish behavior. Just admit that is what you want. Men are equally cheap when they sleep around. Don't matter if society gives men a pass for this behavior. Its disgusting to me. Hope not to have a hoeish man around me.

However, in regards to women being "too nice." Have you ever thought she may have just loved the guy and the guy was dishonest. Its funny when guys thinks its ok to break so many women hearts and wonder why good women are scarce. You guys are making them scarce with your hoeish ways.You hoeish men complain when women play hard to get. The women that don't give it up marry in their late 20s or many go along and give it up. Many women are getting married this way. On the other hand, many women are being dumped and labeled as hoes. Many women start off as good women but end up bad. Guys are so stupid. Its not a game. You are destroying another man "potential wife." Keep breaking women hearts until there no good women around for you to marry and build a family with. When you end in a not so good marriage, then you complain. Most likely you broke alot of hearts so you got what you deserve. As you continue to treat women disrespectfully, there will be no decent women to marry around you. Don't complain when there are no longer decent women when you contributed to the problem. Any society is as good as how the men treat their women. Who will you marry when there no longer good ones around? An animal. When you really look into it, most men don't deserve good women. Many Nigerian men think they are entitled to good ones because they are men. Funny you men sit your ugly disgusting hoeish self and fold your hand to judge.

dipo1: Lemme try to answer this as honestly as I can.
I think its a matter of guys getting tired and bored after seeing it all with the lady. In our hearts we know exactly how nice our gals are and don't need people telling us but after so much sex, we guys want something new and come up with so lame excuses. Ladies when in love give so much that the guys feels in total control and more often than not misuses this control. Except the guy is ready to get married, there is a tendency of wanting to conquer new ground as a relationship grows.
My cents

ferhyntorlah:

Please tell your friend to STOP and I mean STOP calling/texting the guy. IMO, the guy does not value her. Why will a girl keep apologising and the guy keeps ignoring her? Is it not a sign that there is something not right somewhere. If she decides to marry him, he will continue this way and this will affect her self worth and mind rest.

Tell her to see this as a time for keep away from the guy and hang out with the one who has a crush on her. When she totally ignores her so called BF, his senses will come back.

Please tell her, never and I mean never to settle with a guy who does not respect and value her. Life is too short to disturb oneself for a man.

Rooneyboy: Nigerian girls are wicked bunch of bit.ches . If u are tired of life all u need do is to just get married to one of them .

Toeyean1507: . I won't blame u for dis assertion,bro cos I knw a lady must have caused it. I'm sure u knw individuals' got different personalities. One lady might be responsible for one's downfall,another might be an angel in disguise. Same goes for guys. I feel a book shouldn't be judged by its rough or smooth front page. Flip tru and u'll be surprised dat a basket though with many holes can actually hold waters.

Youngpo413:



EXCELLENT!

Youngpo413:



EXCELLENT!

dipo1:
Lemme try to answer this as honestly as I can.
I think its a matter of guys getting tired and bored after seeing it all with the lady. In our hearts we know exactly how nice our gals are and don't need people telling us but after so much sex, we guys want something new and come up with so lame excuses. Ladies when in love give so much that the guys feels in total control and more often than not misuses this control. Except the guy is ready to get married, theay re is a tendency of wanting to conquer new ground as a relationship grows.
My cents