My aunty is presently married with a kid now, but back in the days when she was still single she used to date this guy who even all of us get to know loves her so much.

But then the guy was aspiring to travel to Switzerland for greener pastures, when he finally left, it was'nt up to 12 months and my aunt got married to another guy.
Now to our greatest surprised, last month, his then boyfriend came back from Switzerland and before you know it he got auntys mobile no and started calling her,
told her he was back but aunty refused to go and see him instead invited him over for a dinner with her Family including the husband ,
after the dinner, he never stops disturbing her till date, he said he has come back to take what rightfully belongs to him.

He has even gone to her parents to tell them his intention , he is really desperate to have her back,

My aunt when asked if he proposed to marry her before he traveled , said no but they were only saying, if its God wish they will get married, she also said that the guy have always said it when they were dating, that even if she was married when he comes back(from Switzerland) that he will come for her,
Now he has finally done as he said, the lady is turn apart, she has gone on holiday to stay with her parents for some time to get over this,

Can any one here tell me what you feel about this whole thing, its crazy in deed

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if your aunt is happy in her present relationship, she shouldnt bulge an inch, she's was even courageous to have invited her for dinner at her matrimonial home, i love that.

Make the guy go find another woman abeg, what the lord has joined together, let no man wey just come from switzerland put asunder.

The ex-boyfriend should go to hell. He's just distracting your aunt. All she needs is a new phone number.

well she is married n he needs to respect that, obviously they r not made 4 each other n if he never proposed marriage in the 1st place then thats his problem, n wat in the world was he doing when he left for switzerland, if he wanted to marry ur aunt he would have kept in touch visited n start planning marriage.

wat is ur auntie's hubby doing about it, he can't tell the man to back off n defend his family. this guy needs to respect the fact that "what God has joined together no man should put assunder"n move on, i wouldn't advice ur aunt to abandon her marriage 4 another guy because she might be putting a curse on her head n there is no guarantee  that she would be as happy with her ex.

Is your aunt still in love, crazy or what? How can she invite her Ex who, BTW, informed her that he will come after her even if she's married, to dinner with her husband? She better make up her mind who she wants before this gets real ugly.

Let d dude fry in hot oil. Like how she invited him over @ least she will clear every ambiguity surrounding er r/ship wit d former dude in front of er husby.
But how is ur family in shambles if i may ask? Jst kick d dude out

4yrs now;is he still asking her to dump her husband& marry him?Must b one frustrated dude

That guy really needs to get a life. Na so women scarce?