whitelexi:
Been together for 3yrs and still going stronger by the minute. When we get married, i'll throw a mini party for NLanders because we met right here!

@Whitelexi, that's cool.
I'll really like to know how many couples met on Nairaland lol.

18years now and still strong like we just meant and now we look like twins

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klassyguy:


Come to think of it, i realised that she's the only girl i've really cared alot about ever since i stopped playing with toys and discovered girls(she could be stubborn atimes(as all ladies are), but what can i do?)

Not all ladies are stubborn.

@topic
2years and i'm loving everybit of it.

I'm very sure out of all des replies, der mite be sum white lies der, bout been wit ma sugar lips for 200yrs blah blah blah, no hatin ooo, jus bein realistic coz im sure d ppl wey dey post reply here wil do d same in anoda thread claimin dat dey ain't got girlfriend/boyfriend.

Phew!i've been with my sweetie,sweetiepie,sweetiecakes, for 2years now.it's not been easy at all,so many times it seemed as though the relationship wasnt going to work.it's even a miracle we're still together.this has been my longest relationship, and i've learnt a whole lot.

right now, the very idea of a relationship just gives me creeps. been with my girl for 8yrs, then she went to nigeria to take part in NYSC and that was the shitty end of our relationship as far as i am concerned. she met a guy there who busted her head in 3weeks and our relationship became a mess. she is back now, making claims that she didnt know what came over her, and that she was lonely,and asking for forgiveness, but i still cant get the pics of wat happened out of my head or my nightmares. august this year, i stopped counting, and even though we still are together, its a mirage to me. When i see the girl who will be my wife, then i guess my spirit will key into her!

i don't have a one and only not at my age, too young for such boring stuff i swim in women.

Interesting!some people have been together for 18yrs, 9yrs etc. I hope you guys are married and not dating for that long. If you date someone for that long and you do not get married!! i just wonder. Where would you go from there? by then you would be like an old car (scrab) 3rd hand car, no one will want to buy you.

Good luck to you guys anyway.

About to be four months now and am seriously mad cuz of her guys

wow!
That's the last loveliest 3yrs of my life! i can't wish for more.
Life is truelly beautiful when u spend it with someone u love and cherish.

HI. May I know YA?

Have been with my babie for 3 years now and the love is still growin stronger.

dot2002:

i don't have a one and only not at my age, too young for such boring stuff i swim in women.

How old are you wey you dey talk sey u too young.

For those of you that have celebrated 5yrs and above,hmmn,kudos to you guyz.I can't wait till my relationship reaches that age.

One and only ke?

6yrs and counting

*married*

Na who come wake this dead topic now?

This May 2010 would be 6 years together

^^^ Put a ring on it fast. Too long courtship isn't that healthy.

^^^ Wish we could bro but its not that easy. It really is not that easy. Now u know why I dont like being Asian

Because your Asian your marriage is being delayed or what?

Nope. Its because before an Asian girl gets married, she has to bring her husband to be to her parents and than to the rest of her family and they have to make sure of the following:-

1) What is his education level?
2) What does he do for a living?
3) If we get married, where are we going to stay (they hate it if I have to migrate to another country)
4) Where will the wedding be? (They always want very very expensive wedding in the country itself to show off to their friends and family. They will invite like thousands of people and yet the bride and groom has to pay for it)
5) How many properties does he have and how much of those overall properties which he would like to give to them?
6) And than theres the Virginity Issue. . . . If I lost my Virginity to him, he has to pay a certain amount but if not, they will discuss with him on how much to pay.

Basically for Chinese customs (the typical traditional ones), its all about the money, the status, the property. . .
Thats why its very hard. . .

That is what I call a gold digging culture

3 years 4 months. We got married in April

TheSeeker:

That is what I call a gold digging culture

No mind them old folks. Thats what I think so too but to them, they think like this:- u need to be sure that you could take care of my daughter because u are taking her away from us, therefore you need to pay

march 2010 would make us 3 years, though we sometimes have issues, I wouldn't trade my spouse 4 anoda.

7yrs nw & we're still happily 2geda!!!

One and Only? Wud that be two people?

4hrs, 26mins & 6secs ago!