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| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by cinammon(f): 7:14am On Apr 04, 2012 |
Honeric is just an argumentative person hu doesn't listen until wen faced with consequences...u hav jus bin twistin evrythin up..u sed u want ur children 2b christ like not christians,lol wen dey r christ like aren't dey christians?? Mind u,wen I say christian am not referrin 2 jus any religious person I min practisin d real faith nd pleasin jesus christ not man..now if u hav a muslim wife,jus tell me how ur kids wud b christ like wen she dosnt knw wot it take2 b christ like  ? Abi ur own children wud b born adults nihahah...u hav 4gotn d@ dey wud need 2 b trained in d way of d lord?or mayb u r just one atheist tryin 2 speak up...my dear love is not blind,love is not evrythin...wen daddy nd mummy r not of d same faith it is not possible 2 hav ur children focused in one..plus d fact d@ I dnt support mixed marriage dosnt min am restricted,u dnt always hav 2b in it b4 u knw wot it is...ur fiancee's case is exceptional dosnt min wot hapund 2 ha dosnt hapun 2 ppl..I sed d@ cos she got converted as an adult and I don't see any reasonable adult parent forcin dier children..adulthood is independence..we r talkin abt d little kids hu are born innocent..another thing is u are not worthy of even defending cos u are nt dating a muslim.. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by Romeo3(m): 7:45am On Apr 04, 2012 |
Op, you made the right choice. Love is not blind to pending catastrophic influences like Religion. . . |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 9:19am On Apr 04, 2012 |
cinammon: Honeric is just an argumentative person hu doesn't listen until wen faced with consequences...u hav jus bin twistin evrythin up..u sed u want ur children 2b christ like not christians,lol wen dey r christ like aren't dey christians?? Mind u,wen I say christian am not referrin 2 jus any religious person I min practisin d real faith nd pleasin jesus christ not man..now if u hav a muslim wife,jus tell me how ur kids wud b christ like wen she dosnt knw wot it take2 b christ like What makes you think i am not worthy of defending those who chose to date muslims? and you think you are worth of criticizing those who chose to date muslims? sucks...  Summary: Do not force anyone to believe in your own view about life, rather convince them with facts and figures, because you cant stand or tolerate something does not mean others can't stand or tolerate it. Conclusively, lets stop all these religious rubbish, lets face God and work out our own salvation personally and not expect others to do it for us. THE ONLY TRUE WAY TO PROVE YOUR CHRISTIANITY IS BY YOUR FRUITS + GRACE AND NOTHING ELSE, NOT BY HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN GOING TO CHURCH, BEEN A CHRISTIAN BY ASSOCIATION, BY BIRTH, LOCATION, PEER PRESSURE or anything else. (may God help and strengthens us in Jesus's name) |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by cinammon(f): 9:46am On Apr 04, 2012 |
U c? Nobody was forcing anybody HONERIC...dis whole thread started wif som1 tellin ha experience,u wer d 1 hu started d criticism by condemnin ha actions...all along ppl hav bin tryin 2 tell u dier opinion..evrybody is entitled 2 1..u hav ur reasons y not nd we all hav our reasons y...its u hu sucks because all along u were d person hu started wif d whole argument thing...because u don't see a wrong in somthin dosnt min any other person can't..christ,u r such a character..lol |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by Killz1(m): 10:29am On Apr 04, 2012 |
^^^ Abeg leave that discombobulated boy jare. . . He's neither here nor there. Ask him to go to Borno state and marry from there, and you'll see him making lame excuses. . . NEXT! |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 10:50am On Apr 04, 2012 |
cinammon: U c? Nobody was forcing anybody HONERIC...dis whole thread started wif som1 tellin ha experience,u wer d 1 hu started d criticism by condemnin ha actions...all along ppl hav bin tryin 2 tell u dier opinion..evrybody is entitled 2 1..u hav ur reasons y not nd we all hav our reasons y...its u hu sucks because all along u were d person hu started wif d whole argument thing...because u don't see a wrong in somthin dosnt min any other person can't..christ,u r such a character..lol You are missing the point here, no one started anything, i only posted when everyone kept tolling the same line like "dont marry from a different faith" as if that's the only thing that makes marriage crash. we are not here to compete so remove the "competition tone" from your comment. i was only stating that it does not neccesarily mean a relationship or marriage won't work because one party belongs to another faith. Lastly, what works for you is likely never going to work for me, so we should QUIT painting all relationships WITH one BRUSH. ^^^ When kids talk, pigs laugh. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by cinammon(f): 12:12pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
When kids talk pigs laff??wow am not suprised only u knws d@..nawa o competition on a nairaland thread again U r rili funi..wot if evrybody was supportin an obvious fact,is d@ a reason 2 take it personal wen u ur self is marryin 4rm d same faith I laff..wonder y ppl stopped takin u serios afta u mentioned d@ ur fiancee is of d same faith as u Lol..u r rili funny..if its so much achin u d@ bad d@ evrybody was supportin 1 motion u d activist in u is soo pissed y don't u giv it up nd go marry a muslim den com bac nd kip postin..lol |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by jaybee3(m): 1:21pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
@kills & annonymous For f.ck sake, what's wrong with you two? Why don't you guys just give it a rest? I don't wanna have to clean any of your e-fight posts again ya heard? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by Killz1(m): 1:24pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
jay bee: @kills & annonymousAre you ok? Who starts it all the time? Do you think i have time for anonymous or anyone else for that matter? Pls don't deliberately get on my nerves now, pls! |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by jaybee3(m): 1:29pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
Killz.:Dude, I'm perfectly OK and I'd appreciate if you address me in a respectful manner. Neither of you is allowed to break NL's rules so I'm warning you guys for the last time. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by Killz1(m): 1:35pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
jay bee:I've heard you. . . Sir! I hope you take into cognizance that anonymous or whatever his name is breaks the rules first. If you want to warn anyone for the last time, let him be the one you'll warn sir. I won't tolerate his nonsense if he starts it sir. And i don't care the consequences, as long as i did not start it. . . sir! |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by anonymus111(m): 1:35pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
jay bee: @kills & annonymous alright i have heard u.its past my lunch break so i will take my leave.in d meantime am i ever getting my former id back? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by jaybee3(m): 1:37pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
Thanks both of you for your cooperation |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by Nobody: 1:41pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
op, if u ask me, i will say dere is no love in ur affair, u guys dnt want it to work, cos i have seen numerous families and the husband and wife are from different religious yet they still live together |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 2:51pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
cinammon: When kids talk pigs laff??wow am not suprised only u knws d@..nawa o competition on a nairaland thread again That statement was not directed at you, if you looked well, you should have seen the ^^^^ icon which was referring to someone that posted below you. Now, to your assertion about if people take me serious or not, let me ask you something, who cares if anyone takes an online ID serious or not? i only come online to air my views and that's all, you can decide to read or ignore, you owe no one, so please stop taking this personal, we are not competing. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 2:58pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
Floxyluv: op, if u ask me, i will say dere is no love in ur affair, u guys dnt want it to work, cos i have seen numerous families and the husband and wife are from different religious yet they still live together Thanks. People just love giving excuses for everything, they claim it won't work if you are from different faith, but if you give them instances, they claim these instances are rare cases, i just laugh.. Because it didn't work for one does not mean it won't work for the other, my message has been "do not paint every relationship with one brush" it's not civilize. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by cinammon(f): 4:57pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
So then wots wrong wit inter tribal marriages?? Wot is wrong wit an AS inter marriage??dey cud all work out,we r just lukin @ d consequences which ofcus doesn't accrue 2 evrybody involved..u can't say der is no love in their relationship cos dey chose a decision on a matter they knew wud cause further trouble for other loved ones..nobody is saying such marriages don't work buh u shud know d@ its not 4 evrybody...nobody is condemnin it,ppl r only statin dier reasons y it can't work out 4 dem..d@s wot honeric needs 2 realise...4 instance am not against inter tribal marriage buh som1 else might be,wit gud reasons 2...its not enof 4 u 2 jus stand and declare d@ som1 isn't in luv cos dey tuk a decision collectively.. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by neyostica: 7:01pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
@honeric, go and marry a proper muslim woman, n not a christian from muslim background, then we can debate |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 7:43pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
neyostica: @honeric, go and marry a proper muslim woman, n not a christian from muslim background, then we can debate Are you married to a Muslim woman or a christian from a Muslim home? if NO is your answer, then you are not QUALIFIED to even talk about this issue. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 7:43pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
cinammon: So then wots wrong wit inter tribal marriages?? Wot is wrong wit an AS inter marriage??dey cud all work out,we r just lukin @ d consequences which ofcus doesn't accrue 2 evrybody involved..u can't say der is no love in their relationship cos dey chose a decision on a matter they knew wud cause further trouble for other loved ones..nobody is saying such marriages don't work buh u shud know d@ its not 4 evrybody...nobody is condemnin it,ppl r only statin dier reasons y it can't work out 4 dem..d@s wot honeric needs 2 realise...4 instance am not against inter tribal marriage buh som1 else might be,wit gud reasons 2...its not enof 4 u 2 jus stand and declare d@ som1 isn't in luv cos dey tuk a decision collectively.. Sorry but who said anything was wrong with all you listed? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by shadshadyz: 10:13pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
my dear,3yrs is not painful,what of my own self that spent 7yrs in a relatnshp,which is now over. As far as its over,take it that its over.Move on wit ur life. For me,avoid any relationship that has religious or ethnic issues,for we all knw dat nigerians are very religious biased& tribalistic. i went 2 a school owned by a muslim,long ago,though d school beared an english name.D owner of the school askd d xtians 2leave d school,all in d name of religion. muslims are the most biased and judgemental pple i hv ever met.Even if the guy agrees,wat of his family,ur children,ur family,wat about the future. B4 going into a relatnshp its wise 2knw d religion & some other tins concerning each party 2 avoid future complications. Please 4get that guy,move on wit ur life.Do not go back 2beg him.Though its a personal desicion,its unwise 2 marry somebody wit a different religious standing.Others may hv done it,it worked! BRAVO! Dont do tins becos others are doing it,THINK AHEAD,THINK RIGHT.Forget about this guy,DO IT NOW,IT MAYBE TOO LATE, LATER. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by shadshadyz: 10:32pm On Apr 04, 2012 |
Floxyluv: op, if u ask me, i will say dere is no love in ur affair, u guys dnt want it to work, cos i have seen numerous families and the husband and wife are from different religious yet they still live together good! U've 'seen' numerous families that the husband and wife are frm different religion,yet they live together. My Questn; hv u ever lived wit this families? Do u knw their personal lives? Are u close friends wit their children? Hv u ever discussed wit their children 2find out their views of such union&if it affected them in any way? babe,stop giving wrong advise.If others did it& it worked,wat makes u so sure it will work 4 her? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 1:11am On Apr 05, 2012 |
shadshadyz: my dear,3yrs is not painful,what of my own self that spent 7yrs in a relatnshp,which is now over. But who decides which relationship is going to work? you the outsider or who exactly? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 1:11am On Apr 05, 2012 |
shadshadyz: my dear,3yrs is not painful,what of my own self that spent 7yrs in a relatnshp,which is now over. But who decides which relationship is going to work? you the outsider or who exactly? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by honeric01(m): 1:11am On Apr 05, 2012 |
shadshadyz: my dear,3yrs is not painful,what of my own self that spent 7yrs in a relatnshp,which is now over. But who decides which relationship is going to work? you the outsider or who exactly? |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by shadshadyz: 9:25am On Apr 05, 2012 |
it appears some pple do nt knw how 2 read,but can only argue. If u read my comment well, u would see a place i said 'though its a personal decision,it is unwise....' pls learn 2 read b4 arguing.i am nt cinnamon. |
| Re: We Agreed To End A 3 Years Relationship Due To Religious Differences. by peziz(f): 2:56pm On Apr 05, 2012 |
Following this thread, the arguments, e-fights and misunderstanding of other fellow Nl comments, i now declare this thread officially closed. Haba!!! Honeric you no try at all ooh! U just took over my thread. Lol! Nice coments though, but in all your opinion cannot be forced down on other people view of such relationship. Good to know ur relationship with your girl is stable. For those who think that wasn't love or what we had couldn't conquer d so called barrier we had, mehn! That's so your opinion and you are entitled to your own way of thinking. Still would welcome a lesson or two on how to love or rather be in love when a relationship. Thank you cinammon, killz, honeric and others who gave me new insights on inter religious relationships. Y'all are greatly appreciated. |
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