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He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Monike: 8:04am On Apr 26, 2012 |
My relationship is 3 months old now n dis guy neva allow each day 2 pass witout seein me, but he just turn 2 a stranger over nite he won't call but wen i do he doesn't pick if he tries 2 pick he will said he is busy not untill last week wen he travelled he didn't even burder 2 inform me he has reach his destination since den wen i call wit my number he won't pick unless wit d number he is not familiar wit. Just yesterday i called him wit unknown number he picked n wen i asked wot was wrong he said notin dat i won't understand wen i try 2 make him explain he shouted @ me, later in d nite i text his friend who told me dat he (my friend) lost his mother. So pls my people does dat show tru friend n love. Ur advise please |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Killz3(m): 8:12am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Monike: My relationship is 3 months old now n dis neva allow any day 2 pass witout seein me, but he just turn 2 a stranger over nite he won't call but wen i do he doesn't pick if he tries 2 pick he will said he busy not untill last week wen he travelled he didn't even burder 2 inform me he has reach his destination since den wen i call wit my number he won't pick unless wit d number he is not familiar wit. Just yesterday i called him wit unknown number he picked n wen i asked wot was wrong he said notin dat i won't understand wen i try 2 make him explain he stouted @ me, later in d nite i text his friend who told me dat he (my friend) lost his mother. So pls my people does dat show tru friend n love. Ur advise pleaseIt's just 3 months, move on and forget about him within the next 3 months. . . Hope you haven't h[i]a[/i]d sex with him yet, else he'd have gotten what he wanted. |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by nefertitiram: 8:55am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Monike: My relationship is 3 months old now n dis guy neva allow each day 2 pass witout seein me, but he just turn 2 a stranger over nite he won't call but wen i do he doesn't pick if he tries 2 pick he will said he is busy not untill last week wen he travelled he didn't even burder 2 inform me he has reach his destination since den wen i call wit my number he won't pick unless wit d number he is not familiar wit. Just yesterday i called him wit unknown number he picked n wen i asked wot was wrong he said notin dat i won't understand wen i try 2 make him explain he shouted @ me, later in d nite i text his friend who told me dat he (my friend) lost his mother. So pls my people does dat show tru friend n love. Ur advise please Move on jare, when he is ready he will come back to his senses, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish! |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Jaideyone(m): 10:10am On Apr 26, 2012 |
he's probably tired of shinning your congo. That was what he wanted. Sorry... Move on |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Mavor: 10:12am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Has he tapped that a$$? If so, too bad. Suggest you move on. He's obviously not into you anymore. |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Onegai(f): 10:21am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Babe, I know this hurts, but they're right. Move on. Men do this a lot: everything's going well, but inside they go crazy. Then run away from the lady. His mum might have died, but he didn't call you to tell you, whom he has coming daily to see. So give him space. Stop calling so much, send a message once in a while (like 3 or 5 days). If he likes you, he'll come back. If not, let him be. If he comes back, take it slow, let him chase you. He may be over you or he may have left because most likely, you were not meant to be serious runz and he developed feelings for you and got confused. So he ran. Men look for sex and find love, women look for love and find sex. Just distract yourself, he'll be back if you were a nice girl. And don't beat yourself up if you did sleep with him. All this goats saying "he's shined your congo and is tired" will be the same to insult you if you had not slept with him. 2 Likes |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Idowuogbo(f): 10:45am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Emmmmh..... Monike oo!!! I was shouting o,babe d guy no send U.I no it hurts, but madam u berra reboot ur system d dude would only come bck to u cus he nos ur vulnerable. In other words, if he suddenly shows up wiv d saying"baby am really sorry" dis dat, na lie!!!!! He wants to samba clean mouth ni o. So engage ur brain or else dem go dupe u. |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Beync(f): 10:58am On Apr 26, 2012 |
My dear, he lost his mother, that's sad but not the reason why he is treatin you like this. u should have been the first person he'd share his joys and pains with but it seem he got what he wanted and moved on already. He is a player. pele |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by ijebabe: 11:13am On Apr 26, 2012 |
You have received good advices already. I am just surprised at the sudden change and wonder what cud have happened. I know its hard not to call and tell him what you know but pls let him wrap up his business and get in touch with you. Talk to him calmly and get tot the root of the problem. If he's still elusive then leave him, at least you tried. 1 Like |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by kpolli(m): 11:29am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Hit and run scenario |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Saraha1(f): 12:35pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
@poster be honest with urself if this guy had seen ur nakeless within this 3month ,then am sure his through with you(hope you got my point?) |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Dondav(m): 1:42pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
This is BAD.... Only 3 months? Are you new in this relationship thing? ... If it's ur first relationship, No problem.... You'll be fine as time goes on!! Just be careful next time sweetie! |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by omega25red(m): 1:58pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Monike: My relationship is 3 months old now n dis guy neva allow each day 2 pass witout seein me, but he just turn 2 a stranger over nite he won't call but wen i do he doesn't pick if he tries 2 pick he will said he is busy not untill last week wen he travelled he didn't even burder 2 inform me he has reach his destination since den wen i call wit my number he won't pick unless wit d number he is not familiar wit. Just yesterday i called him wit unknown number he picked n wen i asked wot was wrong he said notin dat i won't understand wen i try 2 make him explain he shouted @ me, later in d nite i text his friend who told me dat he (my friend) lost his mother. So pls my people does dat show tru friend n love. Ur advise pleaseposter if i were dating a girl for 3 months and my mother dies i wont bring that girl around to my family. It is wrong for him to not inform you that he has family issues or even that he had a death in the family, but 3 months and you are this needy? Now that you know what's hurting him, send a message to him showing remorse for his lose and then give him space. 1 Like |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Basildon1(m): 3:10pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Just say "Sorry about your loss" and put on your running shoes!! If he doesnt care enough to share such news with you, it shows he's not bothered. He will share this with his real girl! |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Skii(m): 6:17pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
FOR FREAKS SAKE, CUT THE GUY SOME SLACK, HE LOST HIS MOTHER!!!! HE HAS ONLY JUST STOPPED CALLING SINCE LAST WEEK NA, HABA, NAIRALAND!! TO EARLY TO JUMP INTO CONCLUSION!! 1 Like |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by cindyrella(f): 10:52pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Onegai: Babe, I know this hurts, but they're right. Move on. Men do this a lot: everything's going well, but inside they go crazy. Then run away from the lady. His mum might have died, but he didn't call you to tell you, whom he has coming daily to see. So give him space. Stop calling so much, send a message once in a while (like 3 or 5 days). If he likes you, he'll come back. If not, let him be. If he comes back, take it slow, let him chase you. He may be over you or he may have left because most likely, you were not meant to be serious runz and he developed feelings for you and got confused. So he ran. Men look for sex and find love, women look for love and find sex. Just distract yourself, he'll be back if you were a nice girl. +100 |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by cowgurl: 11:37pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Monike: My relationship is 3 months old now n dis guy neva allow each day 2 pass witout seein me, but he just turn 2 a stranger over nite he won't call but wen i do he doesn't pick if he tries 2 pick he will said he is busy not untill last week wen he travelled he didn't even burder 2 inform me he has reach his destination since den wen i call wit my number he won't pick unless wit d number he is not familiar wit. Just yesterday i called him wit unknown number he picked n wen i asked wot was wrong he said notin dat i won't understand wen i try 2 make him explain he shouted @ me, later in d nite i text his friend who told me dat he (my friend) lost his mother. So pls my people does dat show true friend n love. Ur advise pleaseNO lady, it tells u, IT'S O... VER. So pls quit d incessant calls n MOVE ON. NB: Once u'v made dat mind up, DO NOT LOOK BACK. |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by lolaluv1(f): 1:16am On Apr 27, 2012 |
Take what is left of your dignity and stop calling him. Leave him be and take it as one of those things...If you keep running after him, he'll continue running away from you. 1 Like |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by 190: 1:26am On Apr 27, 2012 |
Thank God - A nigerian dude has opened his eyes and saved his money from the exceses of these Nigerian women |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by AmakaG29(f): 1:33am On Apr 27, 2012 |
He is acting strange but jumping to conclusions will not help the situation. Give it a rest and let him seek you out. He may be dealing with something bigger than romance right now. If he doesn't seek you out then it's over, but don't assume that he's a player or evil. Things happen in life. Just give him his space and don't treat him badly if he does come around to talk. Listen and make sound judgment from there. If you want no part of being patient, then let him know it's over politely and move on. Best of luck. Don't blame yourself for his shortcomings. 1 Like |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Lexusgs430: 6:21am On Apr 27, 2012 |
He has touched down, and now wants out. The writing is all over the walls in BOLD LETTERS !!! |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Onegai(f): 7:56pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
WHERE ARE 190, SEXKILLZ AND ALL THOSE OTHER MUGUS? WHY ARE THEY NOT CONDEMNING THIS IDIOT?? If this thread was titled "All Nigerian gurls are useless", they would be falling over themselves to comment and tell their own story. Now, here's a girl whom all she wanted was a relationship, not a bank account. Silence. I'm bookmarking this thread, next time I see any thread complaining about Naija girls, I'll past this. Nice girls exist, your brothers are too busy making sure they deal with them and turn them into golddiggers and selfish women. My dear, if he has chopped and cleaned mouth, relax. Karma will catch him. I'm not lying, you won't see the revenge, that's just the painful thing, but I have a lot of male friends. The useless ones have lousy marriages. You can see the smiling pics on fb and hear the gist later. |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by KevinII(m): 8:13pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
Onegai: WHERE ARE 190, SEXKILLZ AND ALL THOSE OTHER MUGUS? WHY ARE THEY NOT CONDEMNING THIS IDIOT??what is wrong with chopping, huh? mschew. is it meant to be gazed at like a museum art? is it not meant for chopping? 1 Like |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
Onegai: WHERE ARE 190, SEXKILLZ AND ALL THOSE OTHER MUGUS? WHY ARE THEY NOT CONDEMNING THIS IDIOT??Why are you calling your father a mugu? In which of my posts have i ever generalized against or told a story against Nigerian girls? Just post it here and i'll apologize. If at all, the reverse is always the case! How come you are this myopic, in short, why are you so dumb? |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by tellwisdom: 8:49pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
Hahaha! he yanshed u and left you. Good for you |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Nobody: 8:50pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
ijebabe:I mentioned it to skii yesterday, did i not? It's less than 24 hrs, now this. |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Idowuogbo(f): 8:57pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
ijebabe:Ijebunian how far? U don salute mama 2day? |
Re: He Nolonger Pick My Calls by Nobody: 9:00pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Is she my sister? ijebabe: |
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