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Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by dabrake(m): 7:41am On Apr 28, 2012 |
I hope my wife to be no go do all this nonsense 'cos i fit slam table, shout give am. Afterall, young girls wey dey 'chop belle full' no dey do all these ones. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Valprof: 7:48am On Apr 28, 2012 |
sunnshyn:MTCHEW!.Would she also feel left in the lurch if i provide her with house helps? I know if all this maternal care and blah blah were a test, I'd carry it over till year 202020.......,VALENTINE |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by achi4u(m): 7:48am On Apr 28, 2012 |
sunnshyn:how do blame him?a toddler,what did he know about marriage and pregnancy. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Valprof: 8:11am On Apr 28, 2012 |
Without mincing words, I cant do all these simply because she's pregnant.Maturity my nyash.If she cant carry d belle,na quits be dat.I have other fish to fry other than this maternity -induced servitude.Who told her to marry in the first place. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by achi4u(m): 8:12am On Apr 28, 2012 |
now my own little expireance...my wife got preg without she knowing it,we keep going from hospital to chemist shop until we went for utrasound befor they confirmed...that it is also a set of twins.this is how the business started and most annoying part is that she hadly takes her routine drugs and it becames a tog of war;i personly bought 'special bone' for her and alot of fruits...neally run bankruptcy.alot of water passed that bridge but am called PAPA EJIMA for my igbo family and friends and BABA MEJI for my yoruba friends only hausa remain and i need some one to tell me what they are called.thanks |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by tobezekiel(f): 11:10am On Apr 28, 2012 |
achi4u: now my own little expireance...my wife got preg without she knowing it,we keep going from hospital to chemist shop until we went for utrasound befor they confirmed...that it is also a set of twins.this is how the business started and most annoying part is that she hadly takes her routine drugs and it becames a tog of war;i personly bought 'special bone' for her and alot of fruits...neally run bankruptcy.alot of water passed that bridge but am called PAPA EJIMA for my igbo family and friends and BABA MEJI for my yoruba friends only hausa remain and i need some one to tell me what they are called.thanksull be called baba en'biyu in hausa. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by OperaMini1(m): 11:49am On Apr 28, 2012 |
Didn't really have much experience, though d babe took in immediately after wedding. I must confess I'd a strangely strong wife. I neva saw her vomit, was not sick 4 up to a week thro out d 9 months. She was only weak in d mornings, neva allowed me 2 cook 4 her, even d few times we went 2 d market 2geda was at my insistence. It was only much later in d pregnancy, did i start shaving her FCT, and dt was cos she could no longer do it. She told me she was pregnant just last night, n i look 4ward 2 a bigger role ds time, since we've a 2+ daughter in addition to cater for. 1 Like |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 12:17pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
hmmm. Nice nice nice. God bless ur families. know I'll meet someone great who'll gve me sth extra special to write too! Heheheeh. Show up fast o jare. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 12:18pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
Opera Mini: Didn't really have much experience, though d babe took in immediately after wedding. I must confess I'd a strangely strong wife. I neva saw her vomit, was not sick 4 up to a week thro out d 9 months. She was only weak in d mornings, neva allowed me 2 cook 4 her, even d few times we went 2 d market 2geda was at my insistence. It was only much later in d pregnancy, did i start shaving her FCT, and dt was cos she could no longer do it. She told me she was pregnant just last night, n i look 4ward 2 a bigger role ds time, since we've a 2+ daughter in addition to cater for.congratulopia... Season 2 has begun. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
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Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by HerRoyalSexy(f): 1:15pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
dayohope1: I enjoyed my wife when she was pregnant as I had no younger one to take care of. I learnt to do without those sumptuous meals she used to cook before getting pregnant. Sometimes, I soaked garri at night with suya especially in her third trimester but ensured she ate some good food.You are sooooo right bro! Hopefully when all these small boys spitting shit finally mature and av a family of theirs ,sey will start reasoning better |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by PrettyCindy(f): 1:33pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
I was quite unlucky that i ended up with a cruel human as husband (now ex). 3 months after marriage when i didn't take in, he threatened to impregnate another woman soon. Well i finally got pregnant 6 months after marriage and i saw hell. I have never told anyone about this experience cos am a bit ashamed of it. He wasn't that happy over the news cos he already has a son from his ex fiancee (she ran away due to constant battery and i got to know late). My pregnancy was quite tough in the first 2months with the vomiting and all. He never showed concern when i was throwing up, weak, coughing, sick etc. We were married and living together but i was alone, terribly lonely. I still did all the chores, i mean every single thing including working 8am to 6pm daily. At a time i had severe cough, catarrh, nausea, vomiting and fever, this man opened up his mouth one night i just finished throwing up and said that "God was punishing me for my sins", that i wasn't sick cos of pregnancy but it was all punishment from God. I told him the only reason i was sick was because i was pregnant meaning that the sin i committed was sleeping with him as my husband. A day later he told me i was the most unimportant person in his life! Anyway long story short we seperated when i was about two months pregnant. He told me to get rid of the pregnancy since we were seperating and he proved his point by refusing to give me money for ante natal and by trying to kill the baby in my womb when he battered me but he didn't succeed. With the help of God i was able to carry my baby perfectly fine and put to bed safely. He is about 5months old now and indeed a blessing to my life and i love him with my with my life. If i had stayed with that man, i would have either lost the pregnancy or committee suicide cos of frustration or would have been pushed to the wall to do the unthinkable. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
PrettyCindy: I was quite unlucky that i ended up with a cruel human as husband (now ex). 3 months after marriage when i didn't take in, he threatened to impregnate another woman soon. Well i finally got pregnant 6 months after marriage and i saw hell. I have never told anyone about this experience cos am a bit ashamed of it. He wasn't that happy over the news cos he already has a son from his ex fiancee (she ran away due to constant battery and i got to know late). My pregnancy was quite tough in the first 2months with the vomiting and all. He never showed concern when i was throwing up, weak, coughing, sick etc. We were married and living together but i was alone, terribly lonely. I still did all the chores, i mean every single thing including working 8am to 6pm daily. At a time i had severe cough, catarrh, nausea, vomiting and fever, this man opened up his mouth one night i just finished throwing up and said that "God was punishing me for my sins", that i wasn't sick cos of pregnancy but it was all punishment from God. I told him the only reason i was sick was because i was pregnant meaning that the sin i committed was sleeping with him as my husband. A day later he told me i was the most unimportant person in his life! Anyway long story short we seperated when i was about two months pregnant. He told me to get rid of the pregnancy since we were seperating and he proved his point by refusing to give me money for ante natal and by trying to kill the baby in my womb when he battered me but he didn't succeed. With the help of God i was able to carry my baby perfectly fine and put to bed safely. He is about 5months old now and indeed a blessing to my life and i love him with my with my life. If i had stayed with that man, i would have either lost the pregnancy or committee suicide cos of frustration or would have been pushed to the wall to do the unthinkable. Wow Cindy, what a horrible, disturbing story. Sounds like you fell into the hands of a mad man there. I thank God for you that you made it out with your life and for your new bundle of joy. May God heal you, protect and provide for you both and may your son bring you joy always. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by ferhyntorlah(f): 3:26pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
chaircover: Congratulations Opera. Wishing you both a happy 9 month ride and a beautiful bundle of joy at the end of it. Amen. Well said Chaircover. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by azubaby(f): 4:09pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
my hubby was d man wen i was pregnant. He always bought roasted corn (serious cravin) for me evry day. i nearly slaped him d day he bought boiled corn |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Curiouscity(m): 4:13pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
dabrake: I hope my wife to be no go do all this nonsense 'cos i fit slam table, shout give am. Afterall, young girls wey dey 'chop belle full' no dey do all these ones.I knew U were one of the "awaiting result"/jambites students floating NL. U better go n find what to do. Ur comment on my earlier post shows U lack any sense of humor!! U better leave family section of NL before ur mom/dad meets U here! |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by tpia5: 4:14pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
prettycindy your ex sounds like he has a screw loose somewhere. though we havent heard his own side, but still. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by nk(f): 4:33pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
My husband was very very supportive. Never allow me to do any house chores. Caring and loving, my weird craving then was iced fan youghurt, trust him to buy as much as i want for me. I am so bless to have him as my husband. Looking forward to another pregnancy and enjoyment! |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by tpia5: 4:35pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
^^take am easy o, lol. na every year u wan do am? but the actual chidlbirth and labor nko- na you go carry that one nah. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
@ prettycindy; The joy of the Lord is your strength through your baby. He‘s gonna make u proud sis. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by PrettyCindy(f): 5:28pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
tpia@: My sister/brother you don't have to believe if you don't want to.Even i find it difficult to believe that i still have my sanity after the cruel treatment i recieved during 7months of marriage to a man who married me. Even my mum didn't believe me initially when we first seperated until we discovered that he planned to destroy my life and from text messages he sent to me after i put to birth. The worse is that this man looks like an angel, that is he looks extremely innocent but totally dark inside. Infact am even glad that i have been able to let this out because i didn't include it in my personal thread. Its all history now and i give God thanks daily for sparing my life. I know that God will make things right for me because till date i still can't figure out what i did to him and i never forced him into marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by tpia5: 5:39pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
PrettyCindy: i went through your other posts and noticed you did indeed mention things of this nature before. well, I think your ex might have some mental issues, going by what you described here. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Tropilo(m): 7:18pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
Wislet: hmmm. Nice nice nice. God bless ur families. Had to click the "like" button for you cos i perceive ur sincerity. Dont worry he will surely come. In Jesus name. Amen! |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
Tropilo: Looks like you are already advertising.. At topic: Nice thread!! I cant wait |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by kaze4blues(m): 8:37pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
Thanks Op 4 d topic. Its realy an eye opener 4 we undergradu8 nd wuld-b-husbands. Thnks posterz 4 ur coments |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Chimezie198(m): 9:17pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
Wislet: hmmm. Nice nice nice. God bless ur families.Yess ooo! I don show baby i swaaar i go loff u wel wel, treat u wel wel, cook pass Mr biggs for u, Wash pass washing machine for u, Go antinetal pass u. Wotever u want just name it. . . . . 1 Like |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
prettycindy - so I wasn't the only one that went thru hell during my pregnancy. Its almost like we went thru the same thing - my ex even denied the pregnancy initially. man i saw hell, even when I had a threatened miscarriage at 7 weeks he spent 2 days outside the home with one of his many girlfriends and refused to bring money for hospital visits. he sent me abusive texts during the pregnancy and even after the baby was born - to date (and my daughter is almost 1 and a half) not one penny or call or text to ask if she is alive. High blood pressure almost killed me and my child while giving birth. but it is well o!! |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by PrettyCindy(f): 9:41pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
Wislet: hmmm. Nice nice nice. God bless ur families. Babygirl this is the time you should be praying seriously for God to direct a good man to you. While you are waiting for him to show up, please invest in prayers and ask God for the wisdom to choose the right man who will treat you like an angel. Goodluck. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 9:42pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
clown Chimezie198: Yess ooo! I don show Tropilo:amen my dear. Dnt mind vikin. Vikin:[quote author=Tropilo] don't embarrass that man biko. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 9:44pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
PrettyCindy:thanks sweetheart, dat's what we pray for. I pray God will put another testimony in ur mouth- this time for joy! It is well with u dear. |
Re: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Tropilo(m): 9:48pm On Apr 28, 2012 |
I tried in my time o! But there was this time wifey craved for moi-moi around 9pm (she was 5mths+). Where will i find that in this place (Hull, England) at that time of the day. I took my car keys and drove off pretending to go look for it. I drove a few blocks down the road and parked, as i sat in the car thinking of what to do, naim sleep carry me. I was woken by tappings on the windscreen. It was my wife and one oyinbo woman. Apparently, the woman saw my car and went to do "tatafo". My wife had the intension of coming to confront me and a "chic", only to find me sleeping. My intention was to past time a little so that by the i get back she would slept, but e no work. However, she called a sis' who's married to an oyinbo man and she gave us bean flour and creyfish. By the d moi-moi ready 12midnight don pass. She still chop am. That day i almost "brake cup" (translate in yoruba). 1 Like |
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