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Some women tend to lose their sense of fashion and tidiness after having kids. They tend to become relaxed by not doing the things that dey used to do before having kids e.g hair-do, dressing, make-ups etc. Some even tend to focus on their motherly-roles whilst neglecting their wifely-duties. These are more are some of the reasons why men lose intertest in their wives after having kids.

afinic001: Some women tend to lose their sense of fashion and tidiness after having kids. They tend to become relaxed by not doing the things that dey used to do before having kids e.g hair-do, dressing, make-ups etc. Some even tend to focus on their motherly-roles whilst neglecting their wifely-duties. These are more are some of the reasons why men lose intertest in their wives after having kids.

true some do but some others are left alone with the kids and and the entire house and on top of them have to earn money as well. they take care of the kids, have sleepless nights, are there when their children are sick, again have sleepless nights but wake up eary in the morning to be there for their kids. clean, cook, work. have little support from their husbands but are expected to look like a star who has a cleaning lady, a nanny and a personal trainer.

there is a weak man behind each unhappy woman ...

kambili190:

true some do but some others are left alone with the kids and and the entire house and on top of them have to earn money as well. they take care of the kids, have sleepless nights, are there when their children are sick, again have sleepless nights but wake up eary in the morning to be there for their kids. clean, cook, work. have little support from their husbands but are expected to look like a star who has a cleaning lady, a nanny and a personal trainer.

there is a weak man behind each unhappy woman ...

Thank you. Hate is such a strong word and if that is the case then the husband's existence is a crime. Husbands should realise that after marriage reality sets in, from the way you think to physical appearance especially after having children. Wives work alot harder trying to balance the home and still be a loving wife, tis not easy and men should be more appreciative. Saying that, women need to make an effort in how they look, I have noticed this situation in the past and I made a mental note never to let myself go.

Ur English sef go make ur bf hate u b4 marriage

kambili190:

true some do but some others are left alone with the kids and and the entire house and on top of them have to earn money as well. they take care of the kids, have sleepless nights, are there when their children are sick, again have sleepless nights but wake up eary in the morning to be there for their kids. clean, cook, work. have little support from their husbands but are expected to look like a star who has a cleaning lady, a nanny and a personal trainer.

there is a weak man behind each unhappy woman ...

Real Men, I hope you are listening.

Come and take your daily dose of indoctrination.

What's with the lengthy posts? I'm outta here.

I think for women - Marriage+Kids is the end of their life's ambitions and when they hit that spot. they tend to relax and get fat and lazy. but that is just a false generalization now is that not? The common mistake people make in life is to think that LOVE is everlasting and it will continue to grow with the passage of time. welcome to the real world. people tire of each other when they are together 24/7/365. remember the adage - absence makes the heart grow fonder? It is all about understanding that there is no magic to marriage and you (both) have to work together to spark new life when the fire is dying

lagerwhenindoubt: I think for women - Marriage+Kids is the end of their life's ambitions and when they hit that spot. they tend to relax and get fat and lazy. but that is just a false generalization now is that not? The common mistake people make in life is to think that LOVE is everlasting and it will continue to grow with the passage of time. welcome to the real world. people tire of each other when they are together 24/7/365. remember the adage - absence makes the heart grow fonder? It is all about understanding that there is no magic to marriage and you (both) have to work together to spark new life when the fire is dying

Well-fcking said.

The sad reality is that if you made this logical statement to a potential spouse, they would get upset saying you are not romantic.

Most women love to live in luluworld.

Sagamite:

Well-fcking said.

The sad reality is that if you made this logical statement to a potential spouse, they would get upset saying you are not romantic.

Most women love to live in luluworld.

Your correct. . .
And majority of these women living in luluworld are those who go into marriages for unclear misguided 'lulu' reasons that fades away in 3yrs

1.They married for the wrong reasons.
2.Wife's attention moves to the kids and man is neglected.
3.Added resposibilities according the man less time to hang out with friends etc. They feel tied down by responsibilities.
4.Change in overall physique. Some women believe a child is a ticket to becoming obese.
5.Some men feel free doing al manner of stuff with other females but not with their wives because some wives are too rigid, not flexible and it becomes a turn off in the long run
6. A belief that sex will never be the same again with the woman who has bore them child.This is out of ignorance.

feel free to add.Those are just mine

pendo89: 1.They married for the wrong reasons.
2.Wife's attention moves to the kids and man is neglected.
3.Added resposibilities according the man less time to hang out with friends etc. They feel tied down by responsibilities.
4.Change in overall physique. Some women believe a child is a ticket to becoming obese.
5.Some men feel free doing al manner of stuff with other females but not with their wives because some wives are too rigid, not flexible and it becomes a turn off in the long run
6. A belief that sex will never be the same again with the woman who has bore them child.This is out of ignorance.

feel free to add.Those are just mine

Talk about hitting the nail on the head.