jamola87: hav he promise 2 marry u and u knw he is very serious,4 me i will advice go ahead if he want 2 marry u,but if no dat u guyz ar just having fun i bet u u will pay 4 ur action

Daadaaa: Dunno whr to start frm,but pls dnt hate me,dnt insult me.just need honest advice frm u guys cos I see dis forum as a family.here's my story: being with dis guy for 3years steady,hvnt being wit anyone else but him nd dis is d truth,it's hard to believe but I'm mur of a one man one woman person.i'll be 35yrs in July.we r both fond of eachoda,we r mur like friends than lovers.my rship ain't affecting his home in anyway cos I play my cards well,I stay away frm his homefront,we do d same kinda business together,we r into real estate,so we work hand in hand.but d problem now's dat 3ce I hv told him its over dat I want to stay away cos I'm gtng too attached to him,it's hard to see sum1 else or gv a chance out dere cos I dnt knw how to two-time,but every time I try to go,he keeps pulling me back.im very emotional,I see myself going back all d time.our rship ain't based on material things cos I'm not one who's gud at asking men for anything,I refuse to be insulted or being told NO.i luv dis guy so much,he rocks my world.for d records,lemme tell u guys dis,I'm not keen on marriage,it's not even on my priority list now,I'd rather hv a friend nd maybe just hv a child but not now.money chasing is mur on my list than marriage.pls u guys advice me,I knw some of u will insult me,but pls if u hv to,dnt use harsh words cos I'm quick to cry.only a true friend will tell u d truth nd rebuke u.so u guys be true to me.thx

Daadaaa:

I feel u strongly on dis kills,I'm guilty of all but d attention he gives me r too strong.everyday we grow stronger.atimes,I wish I neva him.i swear I really wanna pullout but it's tough.

~Killz~:
[size=28pt]How long do you wanna remain close friends to a married man? How long? A quick fact is that he is cheating on his wife with you, in the amount of time he spends with you. A married man shouldn't rock your world sis, think about it. What if you were in his wife's shoes and you get to find out that your husband rocks the world of another woman? If you can answer those truthfully, then you know what to do.[/size]

omobadan: OP, I'm not gonna condemn you. You and the guy are matured people. What I'll say is carry on with the relationship until you're strong enough to pull away. Since you're not ready to settle down now, I see no reason why you shouldn't enjoy a loving relationship with the married man. What some people failed to realise is that the guy enjoys the relationship as well. These things happen all the time. You just need to handle it well (which you're doing) and be prepared (emotionally), for when it ends. Good luck.

Mrs.Chima:


Why would you encourage her to chase another woman's used dick? \

She is entitled to fresh and unused up dick.

A-ZeD:

This is the only sensible poster. To all of you blaming the lady, you are all idiots(sorry to say but its the truth.)

1)Marriage is NOT for everybody.
2)The Lady is not married so she is NOT cheating(besides she is not forcing the man.)
3)The lady says she is not ready to settle down and some mofos say she should go and marry(W.T.F)

OP if you are not ready to settle down, continue with the dude except you meet a single guy who is also not ready to settle down.

Guitarlife: How old are you? Cos you should have deduced from most of the responses that what the OP is doing is not something to be proud of ir why do you think she herself is trying to stop it? The question from her is not whether to stop it but how to. This should have made you realise that she herself know's she is wrong so stop showing us how hard working your parent's were in raising you but maybe your father too was busy frolicking with people like the poster when he was supposed to have instilled some moral's into your head, Just maybe and that could best explain the reason for your demented reasoning.

A-ZeD:


Just maybe and that could best explain the reason for your demented reasoning
Reason's below.

How old are you? Cos you should have deduced from most of the responses that what the OP is doing is not something to be proud of

1st Age has nothing to do with wisdom
2nd I guess its in your village that most responses == right answer

why do you think she herself is trying to stop it?

Cos she is getting attached to him. If you had a functioning brain you would have seen that on line 5.

This should have made you realise that she herself know's she is wrong

She never said she was wrong in her post. Stop assumming, only ediots like you do that.
The concept of right/wrong is relative but i know you dumb a55 ediot so are not expected to know that.

stop showing us how hard working your parent's were in raising you

At least you know my parents are hardworking.
It aint my fault two drunkards conspired to conceive you so stop hating.


but maybe your father too was busy frolicking with people like the poster when he was supposed to have instilled some moral's into your head

My father might have been frolicking but he was smart enough to tell me son "life is not in black and white until you are in a person's shoe, don't judge"

He also told me stay away from hypocrites they are the lowest form of scumbags to ever roam the earth.

bizgirl: at times hipocrisy in us we not allow us to rest.if a man who is legally married to a woman decided in his hearth to me a lover to an innocent lady like her, what stops her frm receiving the love? [b] everybody knows that life does not come with a manual, hence we would all have probably been affected by the same factors. The man came to her, she accepted him, the headache of the home break shd be of the man and not hers. but when u see a lady with a married man u will shout her down as if it is a taboo.
meanwhile no woman including myself prays to have a rival but when d man bends on having it, can a woman stop him? all of u shouting on her here, are u ready to amrry her at 35? or she should because of your own opinoin chase away the man dat loves her.

@op, it is your life, if it pleases you to go ahead pls do. but be careful about it so that u dont come here again to say the man used and dumped you. but as for ppl shouting and ranting here leave them to their own opinion.

who knows how many heartbreak she has suffered frm the so called young-good-for-nothing, time-wasting guys?

Guitarlife: Yeah! You are actually shaking just the way you shook your a*rse that made a man that made a cow before man and God to loose his senses. You don't sound like you actually understand the gravity of what you are doing and I so much understand why? You think karma will not find you since you yourself have long closed your mind on marriage. Well, no problem but think about the woman whom you are depriving of the joy and attentio of her husband . Think about the young little children that you are stealing their dad away from them. The time the f00lish man should have spent on his children he is busy pounding yam on your lap's. Think about the number of time's that man would have slapped and assaulted his wife all because she dare accuse her husband of having an affair . Now go look at the mirror what do you see? The reason for a whole family's sorrow, the reason why some children are wiping their mother's eye's and petting her to stop crying because of a thorough beating from her husband. I hope you are still shaking are you?

Guitarlife: Eheheheee ROTFLMBBOWMJTNVIABMBHLBLO. . . . . Now fasten your seat belt for the meaning #rollingOnTheFloorLaughingMyBlackButtOffWithMyJohnThomasNoddingVigorouslyInAgreementBcosMyBoxersHaveLongBeenLaughedOff.
Now I advice you stop reading because I already lost my hence of humour after that. And i can see how NLDers are petting you. Do you know what your name is?
A f00l and I'll prove it.
You are 35 fccking years old and you are not a 2nd wife o, you are worse than that a mistress with no drop of shame speading terror, unhappiness , hatred, venom into happy home's. You started long ago and you have so much perfected this evil act that your conscience is now smeared dead with a hot iron. You are so evil and drop so much sadness in your trail yet you do not want NLders to tell you the truh so that you will not cry? Now you should be competing in the crying competition at the olympic's not only because you earned it but because you do ot see anything wrong in the fact that your whole life is wasting away right now and all you can come up with is that you want to make money? Please answer this question's truthfully and maybe we will take it from there
1. Have you ever beem molested as a child or even in your adulthood.
2, why does your concience not prick you at this great evil you are doing?
3. Was any of your parent's a victim of spousal violence?
4. After making the whole money in the world whom do you want to spend it with?
5. Have you ever come across the world RESPONSIBLE in your dictionary.
6. Why have you decided to turm yourself into a source of sorrow for mankind?
There are still more to come. I hope i didn't make you cry.

ITbomb:
You just made me backspace everything I intended to rain on you.
At your age u need a mature minded friend and u have found it in this 'MARRIED MAN'.
Dunno wat to say