I am in my mid 20's I met d most amazing guy during my service year and we have been dating for 2yrs and 3months. Btw when I say amazing he is respectful,kind,very helpful(even with housechores),intelligent,always ready to help even when u call him up at midnight, listens to everything I have to say, tolerates my madness and good looking but he's very messy and scattered. The problem is he is muslim and am catholic.His parents are in love with me and my mom loves him but he is having issues with having our kids baptized if we get married and that's a condition to fufil in d catholic church. I have fears that I can't place my fingers on. As much as I don't mind my future kids having muslim names I want them to know and understand my faith then decide when they become adults and above all this is d happiest I v been in a relationship but am aware that rship is different from marraige so pls I need ur candid advice

GO GET HEADACHE
BE REAL

Religion/Tribe/Nationality or wat so eva shldnt determine d happiness of couples

Dyt: Religion/Tribe/Nationality or wat so eva shldnt determine d happiness of couples

Agreed but you know your people

luckgames:

Agreed but you know your people

I m a muslim yh bt d man I wanna marry is a xtain
We r happy, he doesn't mind
So wat r we talkin
Its individuality

A frnd of mine married a jehova witness
She performs her salat and he goes 2 his church

Dyt:

I m a muslim yh bt d man I wanna marry is a xtain
We r happy, he doesn't mind
So wat r we talkin
Its individuality

A frnd of mine married a jehova witness
She performs her salat and he goes 2 his church

How is your family taking this relationship
It is little better if the woman is a muslim than the man

My mum is a xtain
Aside dat, all mum wants is me bein happy
No mata d tribe/nationality/religion

Using sentiments in answering this,my adivce would be: 4get d damn relatnshp and marry frm ur faith!
But using logic,i'l say,jus do wat u tink is best for U. And in sayin that,i'l xpect u 2 consider al the parties involved: Both of ur families,even down to the unborn babies u guys wld have 2 geda.
Gudluck..and i hope wateva u choose 2do eventually works out wel for u.

i once watched a nigerian home movie withh ds kinda scenario.....de love may just be dere no doubt but wen de kids start comin, things would start changing.

as we all know, kidss tend to cling more to de mothers at a tender age and de man may not just fathom and swallow dis so well and thats gonna be de genesis of de issues arising from dis.

are yu ready for de challenges dat may arise??

u cant eat ur cake n av it.......u guys shld agree n sacrifice.

i've seen people do it and have it work for them.
Infact i know of a female colleague who is a devoted celestial member while her husband is a staunch muslim!
They've been married two years with a kid and no qualms so far!
Its all lies in the understanding and maturity of both parties!
But religion is not something i'd take with a pinch when it bothers around marital issues.
Its remains your choice!
Yours alone!

slimyem: i've seen people do it and have it work for them.
Infact i know of a female colleague who is a devoted celestial member while her husband is a staunch muslim!
They've been married two years with a kid and no qualms so far!
Its all lies in the understanding and maturity of both parties!
But religion is not something i'd take with a pinch when it bothers around marital issues.
Its remains your choice!
Yours alone!

Nah. It works for mostly yorubas. They have high tolerance for choice in religion.
But as for Igbo people, that'll be the day!

cantell:
Nah. It works for mostly yorubas. They have high tolerance for choice in religion.
But as for Igbo people, that'll be the day!

probably!
Not sure!
Both partners in this case are yorubas though..

^^i thought as much.

The choice is yours and your bf's to make. The kids can be baptized when they grow up.