Goldieluks: The girl in question is kidding herself seriously. Who knows she may or may not be hiding something from him, concerning her hair. Fact is, the guy in question has every right to see her real hair,especially since he's planning to wed her.

Idowuogbo: Actually deres sense in dis nonsense.NOT!!! So he is holding bck on proposal cus he hasn't seen her real hair? Silly dude!

Princek12:

You may consider him silly, but I think that he is smart. At least there would be no surprises about her hair on wedding night. What if she is hiding her baldness and the weave falls off on the wedding night, revealing her "gorimapa."

Princek12: My wonderful and intelligent people of Nairaland, my friend has been dated his girlfriend for about six months and said he wants to marry her. Anyway, the koko of the story is that he claims that she always wears a weave, that he has not gotten a chance to see what her real hair actually looks like, and that she has shunned his repeated requests to see her real hair.

While he claims he has no problem with her wearing a weave, he said that he would like to know what her real hair looks like before he pops the question. He asked her to take out the weave so that he can at least know what the natural hair of the lady that may be his wife looks like. She has, however, vehemently refused to reveal her real hair to her boyfriend, claiming that he should accept her the way she is and that she was wearing a weave when he met her.

He argues, however, that he loves her and appreciates her the way she is, but that it is important for him to know the condition or status of the hair of the lady who may one day be his wife, and that her failure to reveal her real hair implies she has something to hide and does not constitute full disclosure and forthrightness, which are prerequisites of a good relationship. In addition, he claims his mother has warned him never to marry a lady without knowing the condition of her real hair.

Nairalanders, what do you think?

Goldieluks: I wonder why some people feel or think that the hair thingy is not an issue. What if the chick is hiding some worms up there,or maybe she used her hair for some ritual or something, you never know. Hiding her hair from her guy speaks volume. People should be careful with the type of humans they mingle with. Yes really.

TisaBone: well he should already know the state of her hair. if all she wears is weaves then its a safe conjecture to make that her hair is jacked up.

Idowuogbo: Actually deres sense in dis nonsense.NOT!!! So he is holding bck on proposal cus he hasn't seen her real hair? Silly dude!

Adaeze003: Lol! When did hair become a criteria for marriage? But the gal no try sha.

pendo89: It shouldn't have anything to do with marriage.I don't even see the connection.It's about being comfortable with your hair,body colour and having your partner appreciating all that before the knot is tied.Th hair wont cook or care for him we may say but it's part of a womans beauty,the natural beauty he needs to appreciate every day he wakes up.

Let him see the flaws even if its kinky, so what? he's gonna be your husband after all.
Natural may even look sexier on her than those weaves which make some of us [b]women look like apes.[/b]Well not all.

Mrs.Chima:


Why you made me spit out my juice?!!!

pendo89:

wipe ur screen.

luckgames:

Nigeria with Ritual
God help us

Goldieluks: The girl in question is kidding herself seriously. Who knows she may or may not be hiding something from him, concerning her hair. Fact is, the guy in question has every right to see her real hair,especially since he's planning to wed her.