ITbomb: The best thing you should do now, is to introduce her to nairaland , then show her this post, and ask of her opinion , as in how she will feel if in that shoe.
Then tell her you are the OP.
But if you are a regular poster in Sexuality Board or friend with born2fuck, then don't try it

ITbomb: The best thing you should do now, is to introduce her to nairaland , then show her this post, and ask of her opinion , as in how she will feel if in that shoe.
Then tell her you are the OP.
But if you are a regular poster in Sexuality Board or friend with born2fuck, then don't try it

kuphid: If u choose 2 breakup with her,as a doctor she ll b sme smartass, she jst can't tke it likely,she may come across dis fake name issue n all hell will b let loose,she ll so enjoy bringing u down.
My opinion, u beta deal deal with her on dis issue as a lover dan as a dumped gf.

plantation:
As for her feelings, i jst remember her reiterating the 'Men are wicked thing.' when i asked her wat she could hav done if she were in the girl's shoes, she emphasised how 10yrs isn't 10days and how she can never get married to such deceitful fellow.

ITbomb:
That was your payday and you missed it. when she say that you could have answer and say that you are the deceitful fellow {on your knees}. and if she is listening explain in 60 sec why you did it, then leave her to her thoughts, dont overload her with explanations.
But be that as it may, instead of just breaking up for no reason ( that would be cowardly of you), take the risk, when next you are together, tell her " honey, you remember the story i told you last blah blah, i am the deceitful fellow, and I'm asking for forgiveness......
If she still prefer to breakup, then better. Goodluck Best of Luck

kuphid: I still don't c d big deal here...if she can put in a lot in ur relationship 4 10yrs I believe she ll 4give u,ladies can take a lot of things wen in love, unless dis fake name is wat u used 2 gain admission in d university, she ll come around,she mayb hurt,disappointed even threaten 2 quit buh I just feel she ll 4give u afterward.
If u choose 2 breakup with her,as a doctor she ll b sme smartass, she jst can't tke it likely,she may come across dis fake name issue n all hell will b let loose,she ll so enjoy bringing u down.
My opinion, u beta deal deal with her on dis issue as a lover dan as a dumped gf.

Mynd_44:
Too much is at stake here. He should break up with her and then go do a change of name so he won't have to go through the same thing in his next relationship

mikeywise: @poster,I don't know what ur saying about breakup,brace up to †ђξ challenge.Tell her †ђξ truth and expect †ђξ worse.if she loves u which am sure she does,she will stay. Just be postive about it and pls don't keep anything from her.I wish u all †ђξ best and expect to hear †ђξ gudnews in †ђξ coming days.

plantation: Hey Peeps, am at the club right now with my girl. Nomatter wat, dis is dat nite where it's all goin down. Tell her or not to tell her... Wait till morning to know how it's all gone.. Wish me luck.

ITbomb: So relieved
O'boi , I'm really happy to hear that
Meanwhile , if you get time , scan all the online forum , u might like see something like ' My bf of 10 yrs deceived me blah blah . .what should I do?'. Then she will make up her mind.

Mynd_44: Good to know you are still alive dude

plantation:
my broda i survived it o! Thanks bro

Mynd_44:
You are not outta the woods yet

Mynd_44:
You are not outta the woods yet

Konnektions146: truth is bitter but the ultimate.

i am happy for yu, but please try to buy her full confidence and yu can even go a extended way to explain anythin she may have doubts over in de future.
happy (stunt free) married life bro