jay bee: @Saga & @Queensmith
You guys really need to call a truce.

ronkebp:

they will end up dating!!!!!!

Museni:

i would gladly help u awt wiv nom 6

Sagamite: 1. Given your correct number/contact details out to a guy but refused to pick up the guy’s call or reply to messages.

2. Given a wrong number/contact details out to a guy.

3. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you don’t fancy him, not because he did something wrong.

4. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you wanted to use him to show off/shine in public, not because he did something wrong.

5. Ended a relationship with a guy by starting and/or consistently starting a fight to get him to break up with you or so you can break up with him by saying it is not working out.

6. Cheated on a guy.

7. Gone on a date with a guy (for which he is paying) despite the fact you know you are unlikely to date him, just to have a free day out and get out of the house to be pampered.

8. Lead a guy on despite not being interested just to boost your ego or test your worth in the market.

9. Cancelled a date on a guy at short notice without giving, or even having, a reasonable explanation to [give] him.

10. Already started taking applications (give your number out to guys you like) or lined up another suitor before breaking up with a guy.

11. Harass a guy that you want a type of relationship where you “tell each other everything and where there are no secrets” but yet you have secrets you refuse to share and hide from him after that agreement is made.

12. Break up with a guy (normally a long-term one), because you are not sure or you want the freedom to explore more, but you try and keep him as a friend just in case you need to go back to him.

Is there any woman that can claim she has never done any one of the above?

1. Given your correct number/contact details out to a guy but refused to pick up the guy’s call or reply to messages.

2. Given a wrong number/contact details out to a guy.

3. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you don’t fancy him, not because he did something wrong.

4. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you wanted to use him to show off/shine in public, not because he did something wrong.

5. Ended a relationship with a guy by starting and/or consistently starting a fight to get him to break up with you or so you can break up with him by saying it is not working out.

6. Cheated on a guy.

7. Gone on a date with a guy (for which he is paying) despite the fact you know you are unlikely to date him, just to have a free day out and get out of the house to be pampered.

8. Lead a guy on despite not being interested just to boost your ego or test your worth in the market.

9. Cancelled a date on a guy at short notice without giving, or even having, a reasonable explanation to [give] him.

10. Already started taking applications (give your number out to guys you like) or lined up another suitor before breaking up with a guy.

11. Harass a guy that you want a type of relationship where you “tell each other everything and where there are no secrets” but yet you have secrets you refuse to share and hide from him after that agreement is made.

12. Break up with a guy (normally a long-term one), because you are not sure or you want the freedom to explore more, but you try and keep him as a friend just in case you need to go back to him.

Adaeze003: [/color]not guilty of any[color=#006600]

Yorisb: How did I miss this thread, Sagamite?

jay bee: I know a girl that I can vouch she hasn't done any of the stuff on your list Sir

Tgirl4real: D closest I can say I'm kinda guilty of is no. 7 and it isn't exactly as OP put it. I don't see anything wrong in going on a date with a guy dat u don't intend to date as long as u aint leading him on in anyway. D date would most likely be d first and the last sha.

Sagamite:

If you want to play fair and apply the rules and ethics women demand for their own benefit, then you should tell him before the date that you don't think it is likely to lead to lead to anything. And then tell him to take some few days to think about it, so the embarassed type does not go through with setting the date, and decide if he still wants to go ahead with it.

If after that he is still keen, then you have done nothing wrong and you have been ethical and followed altruistic rules like women like to demand from men (as if we are mumus that shouldn't think of our own self-interest too).

Tgirl4real:

Lol.

U talk as if u don't know some guys don't like hearing the truth. Even when the signs are clear and u think u are on d same page, they will still pester you.

Tgirl4real:
That aside. Why should I jump ahead of myself if the guy hasn't shown any intentions towards dating? If he has, I would have been plain and clear with him from day one. If he hasn't, the date is a good time to let him know you aint interested (most prefer having such talk in person). Lol. That's why I said it will most likely be the first and last with the person as most guys don't like doing things if there is nothing in it for them.

And ermmm...it depends on the kind of date sha. Lol

kandiikane: The thing is, even if you tell majority of men you're not interested and want to be friends or nyashing buddy before a date or something, they will still be behind you. In fact, this makes it worst because they'll take it as a challenge and what man doesn't like a challenge.