Egba girl: A couple of my guy friends asked me this Q the other day and I have to say that it's quite tricky though. For them though, it wasnt a big deal and didnt see any reason why girls like to wait for the guys to make the first move and ask the girl out. I mean I just think it's tricky though. I wouldn't want to feel like I threw myself at the guy but then again, it really depends on the guy though. It depends on how the girl does it and depends on the guy in question and the kind of mentality that he has.

Ayorh4you: I often ask myself this question, 'must it be guys that should ask girls out'? I've seen girls die with there feelin for guys all because they felt it is abnormal for them to ask a guy out. They think walking up to a guy n making there feelings know is so wrong and abnormal. My fellow Nlders, where is it quoted that it must be a guy but not a gal to make first move? I'm just confused[color=#770077][/color][b][/b]

Mynd_44: There is noting bad in being blunt and telling a guy you like him and you would want to be friends with him.
Seriously, if you like a guy tell him else you will just be there looking out as he might not even notice you

cindyrella: ^^ really?

cindyrella: ^^ really?

Dyt:

or u v an eye on ^^^

Mynd_44:

Is that question for me? Cos you already know my answer

Vikin: Let me teach you how to ask a guy out indirectly.

First you should have a high self esteem, confidence and irresistable

Approach him and engage him in an interesting conversation...it can be anything..football, his shoes, his hair, color, race etc. Even if you dont know much about the topic, make him do the explanation part and you do the asking while maintaining a good posture and good level of self confident.

If he is interested in you, he will ask for your number and voila..you go from there.

You can also ask for it, there is no harm in that.

If he is not, just let him be and target another person that will respond to you.


This is a two way thing, be you woman or man, it works...trust me


So my dear, depend on the style used, it not wrong to ask a guy out!

joeydozzy:

that conscience is eating you up

Mynd_44:
Mind your business jorh

Mynd_44:
yeah she did. See if you want something, go for it and stop the crap about being shy

Dyt:

or u v an eye on ^^^

Dyt: sm1 is lookin 4 trouble