Its so sad that my friend impregnated a married woman? how will he get out of this shame

what can i say, ? ur friend??

talk to the real husband of the woman and he might forgive you or the worst thing he'll do is send the woman out of his house(not much big deal is it?)or your friend can talk to the woman about abortion and keep it within yourselves that way. good luck in whatever happens. your friend is a darn fool

I reckon, he's still in the country and the woman is almost due according to an old school mate that informed me yesterday he's still in the country and in a same locality

i don't understand what does words mean

Retribution simply put, means the act, art or process of revenge.
Karma is a Sanskrit word and is usually used in reference to the "law of karma" which simply states that every thing we do in life has a consequence, sort of saying every cause has an effect. If we sow goodness, we will reap goodness; if we sow evil, we will reap evil.

I think this topic is unreal.

Yes. A married woman? i bet she already got kids. the woman can hide it, pretend its for her husband. Pple do it all the time these days, so what's the "shame" there? She's already stupid enuff to be hanging out with a young (unmarried) fellow.

i dont believe this Poo

@Blackbuddy:

I like your way of thinking love the pic in your profile

Blackbuddy:

Reallly shameful and despicable. I hope he has moved across the country!

word!!!

_{damn, that pic is hilarious}

baby girl you should check our Gridlock's profile I'm still laughing my bum off

Your friend or you?

Anyways, wat can u do? Take care of teh baby and her mama. Talk to her husband if you can.

IT HAPPENS EVERYDAY
IS NOT A NEWS,

;Dhahahahahha I go die o! Walks away in peace.

ur frd 4kup how he take agree say na him get the belle well since he don foolishly agree then he go bear the consequences of agreeing

@Gridlock:

Yes, your profile photo is amusing, but your suggestion is somewhat confusing.  In other words, the husband of the woman should be responsible for this other fellow's actions?  The guy who impregnated the woman should simply "go forth and sin no more?" 

What, then, will he have learned?  That it's OK to sleep with married women?  What about disease?  He could have infected the woman with something, and she could have passed it to her husband and/or the baby. 

True, the woman is at fault, too.  She knows that the child will be part of her life.  Does the philandering man not have the same right?  Should he not know his child?  Should he not be responsible for it?  Suppose that he is passing on genes that will result in illness or debilitation at a later time.  Does the child not have the right to know about such things which could affect his/her life? 

This is not a simple expedient of keeping quiet and hoping it goes unnoticed.  It is unfair to the husband to make an expenditure of his time, effort and monies to unknowingly (and that's the key word--unknowingly) bring this child up as if it were his own.  The fact that it's done frequently doesn't make it the right thing to do.  Politicians are frequently corrupt, but that doesn't mean it's proper or even advantageous behavior.

My main question, however, is how, indeed, is the "friend" certain that he--and not the woman's husband--is the father?

huh

@Nobledanie
How would he get out of the shame? The same way he put his thing inside her Toto. He should have known that having sex without condoms is bad, even worse to do it to a married woman. How would he get out? By the woman's husband shooting him in the @$$, that's how he would get out. Olosi !

Allow me to add:

The man shouldn't feel shame at this point.  He should have felt shame when he began sleeping with a married woman.  He knew what he was doing then could very well lead to what he has done now.

Let's suppose something:  Let's suppose that the mother has the baby.  The baby is nurtured by the mother and her husband (not the baby's biological father).  The baby thrives and grows up to be a real dreg of society.  A thief, rapist, murderer, adulterer, drug dealer--whatever.  Now the mother's husband has had a blot on his family heritage.  And, he's not even the "father."

Likewise, let's assume that the baby grows up and becomes a pillar of society.  A prominent person--teacher, scientist, politician, artist or whatever.  Or, say the baby grows up just to be a wonderful person--good to the family and community, high moral standards, etc.  Now, the man who planted that seed will never be able to enjoy the pride of "his" child's achievements, because he has never recognized "his" child as "his" child.

Clearly, in such a case, somebody always gets short-changed.  That's why such behaviors are abominable.  Of all the people in the world, this guy just had to have sex with a married woman.  And this woman just had to have sex with somebody other than her husband.  Clearly, neither is responsible enough to be parents.  I agree with the previous posters who have said that such behavior is, indeed, disgusting.

before we begin to pass judgement,let us look at it like this


^{that your friend}

_{get him special case}

for God hand

wetin carry am go meet married woman sef?

life is funny because we have many ojukokoro's'

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