My people, abeg I'm emotionally lost!
I really love this girl, but I found out she's been having sexual intimacies with her Uncle. Her dad eloped with another woman when she was tender leaving her mum with four daughters. Her "Cousin Uncle" picked her up in the guise of training her through school which he is doing but he is now using her as his sex thing. I Gently confronted her on this and she opened up to me. My problem is, even as much as I have told her to stop this relationship by any means, it is still going on to a point that she even gets uncontrollably jealous when she finds her so called uncle getting involved with other ladies. OMG! she's just 20 n this man is about 60 yr old. Her mum- back at d villa knows nothing bout this and the man's wife cant do anything bout it either. WTH should I do?

tomnmenace: My people, abeg I'm emotionally lost!
I really love this girl, but I found out she's been having sexual intimacies with her Uncle. Her dad eloped with another woman when she was tender leaving her mum with four daughters. Her "Cousin Uncle" picked her up in the guise of training her through school which he is doing but he is now using her as his sex thing. I Gently confronted her on this and she opened up to me. My problem is, even as much as I have told her to stop this relationship by any means, it is still going on to a point that she even gets uncontrollably jealous when she finds her so called uncle getting involved with other ladies. OMG! she's just 20 n this man is about 60 yr old. Her mum- back at d villa knows nothing bout this and the man's wife cant do anything bout it either. WTH should I do?

Be a warrior for her. Or run away like a little girl.

@OP
no matter how you feel for this lady, you MUST find the strength within you to leave this babe and RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!! we can clearly understand that she hasnt got it all working perfectly in the brain department, and with views like hers, i doubt she will make a great mother for you future kids.
i mean, her actions are an abomination.......whether close or remote family.......and no matter how fine this 60yr old dude may be.

the fact that you still want to be with this lady says a lot about your desperation love for this animal!!!!

MRbrownJAY: @OP
no matter how you feel for this lady, you MUST find the strength within you to leave this babe and RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!! we can clearly understand that she hasnt got it all working perfectly in the brain department, and with views like hers, i doubt she will make a great mother for you future kids.
i mean, her actions are an abomination.......whether close or remote family.......and no matter how fine this 60yr old dude may be.

the fact that you still want to be with this lady says a lot about your desperation love for this animal!!!!

but she had no choice. .her uncle is paying her fees

tomnmenace: My people, abeg I'm emotionally lost!
I really love this girl, but I found out she's been having sexual intimacies with her Uncle. Her dad eloped with another woman when she was tender leaving her mum with four daughters. Her "Cousin Uncle" picked her up in the guise of training her through school which he is doing but he is now using her as his sex thing. I Gently confronted her on this and she opened up to me. My problem is, even as much as I have told her to stop this relationship by any means, it is still going on to a point that she even gets uncontrollably jealous when she finds her so called uncle getting involved with other ladies. OMG! she's just 20 n this man is about 60 yr old. Her mum- back at d villa knows nothing bout this and the man's wife cant do anything bout it either. WTH should I do?

There is no evidence that there is anything going on between uncle and niece. This is nothing but fiction.

Too bad

Free them

ur crazy.... no offence oooooo

I'm speaking frm experience yet again (Many pple will start wondering ow many experiences I have sef... A whole lot in my short life....ℓ☺ℓ) The best thing u cn do for this ur friend is inform her mum....God forbid if she gets pregnant for that 60 year old evil wicked man....The matter will become more complicated than it alredi is...A whole lot more complicated. Do the right thing and save ur friend. U're like her only hope right nw....Dnt let the worst happen. Do something.

mehn, dat girl na winch! I dey tells u. Berra take off b4 she go infect u with bad luck.

onila:

but she had no choice. .her uncle is paying her fees

U R DEFFINITELY a yaba left patient. I wonder how u got access to internet over there.

Those clowns/workers there must be fired!

Omo make una free th gal.. U knw if tht old man does it well(wining) than ths young guy complaining? Mtsss..

Ranoscky:
U R DEFFINITELY a yaba left patient. I wonder how u got access to internet over there.

Those clowns/workers there must be fired!

What can you do about this OP? The girl is not under aged, not complaining and from the looks of it, you can't replace her "uncle" when it comes to her bills

@op, d truth is just dat I simply believe u drew conclusion. If its true n she is not ready to stop then leave her alone now, na by force? U said d wife knws abeg abeg abeg ur story no gel

Mynd_44: What can you do about this OP? The girl is not under aged, not complaining and from the looks of it, you can't replace her "uncle" when it comes to her bills

@op,i think this's the most intelligent answer to ur post. Since u cannot replace her uncle when it comes to financial aspect, no amount of advises from u wi b relevant to her. Beside she's not underage, definitely she knew what she was doing is wrong but due to the fact that this so called uncle was the only person to pay for her bills, the only option left for her is either to stay or leave.

Pls dont mind those says you should open up to her mother,if you mistakingly do such a thing, you will regret till the rest of your life. If you cant help her financially,why not run for your life.

onila: but she had no choice. .her uncle is paying her fees

sista Onila, the above statement is not only wrong in many ways, but also shows how you think. so in a way, what you are saying is that you are willing to fukc anyone just because they are fortunate to pay your school fees?!?!?!?!?!?!

she had many choices,but she chose to lower herself and do the UNTHINKABLE........there are many things she could have done, here is one: get a job and go back to school when she has the money(with your reputation and self respect INTACT), et voila!!!!

the OP's gal actions only show the level to which some of our 9ja sistas are willing to go. when gals are willing to open their legs to just about ANYBODY, for some immediate monetary gain, then we are clearly and obviously DOOMED!

Mr Poster, drop her like a hot potato! Unless you want to get burnt.

onila:

My appologies. But truth hurts.

talk to her again if she no stop free her