This suldnt bother me as some may think, but it does and that's y am seeking ur kandid advice.
I have a close frnd that is in a mess ryt nw she is PREGNANT but the troubling ish is that she doesn't really knw who is responsible 4 d pregnancy, as she was drunk in a party taken in by an unknown guy in an hotel and slept with.
She claims she only can recognize his face but she doesn't knw his name or whereabout.
Now she is pregnant as a result of dat act but I am trying ma best to figure out hw to help her out with finding dis guy and am running out of ideas.
The celibrant of the party claims not able 2 assist in d search because she doesn't knw d guys name.
Pls advise n opinions are needed to safe a child from being fatherless.

Yes she's gonna have it but the p is can we still get d guy is it possible?
Tnks anyway 4 ur luv.@binigrl

Why on earth will a girl get herself drunk to the extent of getting laid by an unknown person
was she under any obligation to consumed that much or was it a drinking competition

@OP
SOMEONE invited that guy to the party, so if he is NOT a friend of the host, then this mystery guy is DEFINITELY a friend of a friend of the host. so if you guys sit down and explain the situation to the host, i am sure he will remember who invited the mystery guy.

as for saving a child being fatherless, i doubt this act will make the guy care any more for this lady (or possibly her child). dont get me wrong, but if the mystery guy didnt give this lady his digits, then it says A LOT about what he think of their night of passion. so i suggest you prepare this gal into being a single mother.

She should prepare for being a single mum, as he probably left her in the hotel without a number or anything, so he isn't expecting her to call him ever. That said, for health reasons (you wanna know at least the bloodtype+any hereditary illness) she should ask the host to tell everyone to send as many pics of the party. He was there, someone might have a phone pic to identify him, so start urging for phone pics. Also the host should start informing everyone "there's this guy who went to so-and-so hotel on the night of my party (the girl should at least know the name of the hotel) and he forgot something important, do you know him?"
No mention bele, because his friends will hide him.

Onegai: She should prepare for being a single mum, as he probably left her in the hotel without a number or anything, so he isn't expecting her to call him ever. That said, for health reasons (you wanna know at least the bloodtype+any hereditary illness) she should ask the host to tell everyone to send as many pics of the party. He was there, someone might have a phone pic to identify him, so start urging for phone pics. Also the host should start informing everyone "there's this guy who went to so-and-so hotel on the night of my party (the girl should at least know the name of the hotel) and he forgot something important, do you know him?"
No mention bele, because his friends will hide him.

Tnks pal u r on point

Since she can "only can recognize his face," she should do her best to explain his features to the host/"celibrant" of the party and perhaps that could help jog the celibrant's memory. Hopefully, he/she would co-operate and be more keen with helping her find this man. But she needs to understand that this unknown individual, if found, might not want anything to do with her and the baby, so she should be prepared for whatever outcome the search would bring forth. You're a good friend for wanting to help, OP.

Wait she was drunk when the deed was done and she still says she recognises his face? That girl must be joking. I doubt she will know the girl if he was her next door neighbour for all you know, she might have been seeing RMD's face while the thing was going on

tellwisdom: Sh!tt happens

And this is the ultimate shit

Foolish girl, she is lucky she should have contacted HIV or AIDS. Na mumu she bi!

Foolish girl, she is lucky she should have contacted HIV or AIDS. Na mumu she bi no suffer Ur self.

But the girl is really dumb ooo

@op, that girl is wayward, she has to carry her cross. You didn't tell us how recent this happened, secondly, the celebrant couldn't have taken note of everyone/everything happening. She drank herself to stupor and got laid by a stranger who took advantage of her irresponsibilty and waywardness. Am sorry if i sound cold, but she may never find the guy, so let her start preparing for life as a single parent, serves her right!

well i dont pity such.
She was sober at one point and she chose to play silly. That's a cross to carry now.
wish her well in her life as a single mum.

So u guys don't worry abou such a heartless guy dat culd take advantage of a young helplss grl

Secondly u guys sould also think dat d celibrant n frnds could delibrately drug d drinks to make d grls go hub nut crazy.

I knw d grl she's not wat u think about her she was intoxicated nd helpless n it worries me dat a guy could be so loosed 2 sleeping wif a guy without protection but it struck 2 me dat he could have judged her innocense dats y.

She looks guilty but try 2 view it 4rm anoda angle.

am sure some pics were taken at d party, she cud look through 1st,list of invited guests too cud help

So some guys still @ this present age and time av 1 nite stands witot condoms

dvdon: So u guys don't worry abou such a heartless guy dat culd take advantage of a young helplss grl

Secondly u guys sould also think dat d celibrant n frnds could delibrately drug d drinks to make d grls go hub nut crazy.

I knw d grl she's not wat u think about her she was intoxicated nd helpless n it worries me dat a guy could be so loosed 2 sleeping wif a guy without protection but it struck 2 me dat he could have judged her innocense dats y.

She looks guilty but try 2 view it 4rm anoda angle.

and yet this girl is "searching" for this criminal to give him the good news, INSTEAD OF GOING TO THE POLICE TO PRESS CHARGES AGAINST HIM?! you make no damn sense , bro!

- if the gal was drunk, and taken advantages of, then she should blame HER silly self for drinking alcohol when she shouldnt.
- if the gal´s drink was spiked then she should blame HER silly self for going to parties ALONE and talking to strangers.

pls dont get me wrong, i dont advocate for any crime whatsoever, but we need to put the blame on stoopid people out there (who are not sheep)

All I can do now is to SMH for the girl in question cos I can't fathom why she was so dumb to allow such incident to happen. Well, there is no campaign after Election. Is her cross so let her carry it.

Searchin 4 him is lik searchn a soluble substaece in d water so quit sachn, bt as 4 d gal, been prgnt is nt d prblm but her medicl repot if she'v nt contatd any deasiz of any kind so let ha visit ha doctor 4 medicl chekup b4 tokin of weda 2 kip d baby or not.
As 4 me let ha kip d baby cos he/she may b d leader of 2moro.