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Would You Date A Broke Man? by hegokillme: 5:12am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Well i have not made a thread in a long time,and a few weeks ago i was having a conversation with my friend who told me it is not good to date a guy who is broke.I for one agree with them.Anyways i would give you the reason why that my friends gave me. when looking for a mate a women must look for love, security,and stability.Believe it or not you do need money in order to survive.Dating a broke man will bring you many baggage and will hold you back.Sooner or later you will be the women who is doing all the work, because he would not be a man ,and would want you to support him and take care of him just like his mother.You are the girlfriend not his mother, his job is too "impress" you and to show u he will be a good provider for your future family. while our job as women is to show we are good nurturers. Money is not everything but it does help aid love.Ladies, he will never buy you anything to show you how special you are to him,because he is broke. Broke men can't help but mooch off women and Be irresponsible with his money and your money.A real man would focus on fixing himself emotionally and financially before even thinking of dating,or looking for a wife to be.Also since they are having serious financial issues they wouldn't be as confident and would probably be insecure and more possessive towards you. At the end of the day u will not benefit anything from him but a good lesson of why you should not date a broke guy. I am open for opinions ,but i made my argument and i agree with it. Be happy to tell me what benefits a lady gets from dating a broke guy. and by dating i mean from the STARTing when u just met and the guy is struggling and broke, would you date him? |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Nobody: 5:15am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Depends why he is broke. |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by slimyem: 12:33pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Nope!! No need for long story! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
hegokillme: [s]Well i have not made a thread in a long time,and a few weeks ago i was having a conversation with my friend who told me it is not good to date a guy who is broke.I for one agree with them.Anyways i would give you the reason why that my friends gave me.Blah blah discombobulated blah!. . . But you would expect a man to date a beautiful broke lady, right? You would also expect a man to date you in your pathetic state of broke arsedness? Unadulterated Nonsense! 6 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by bonnez(m): 1:00pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
(Reads post a̶̲̥̅̊ Ω̶̣̣̥̇̊ ┏̲D̶̲̅┓̲ laughs) Only poor broke girls look for a man with money. Comfortable a̶̲̥̅̊ Ω̶̣̣̥̇̊ ┏̲D̶̲̅┓̲ disciplined girls look for guys with prospects. Don't always approach a relationship based on how much a guy can spend on you. I A̶̲̥̅♏ not disputing the fact that a man has responsibilities towards his woman, all I A̶̲̥̅♏ saying is that no man likes a woman who is a pest instead of a lover. How a man cherishes you depends on the value you add †̥ him a̶̲̥̅̊ Ω̶̣̣̥̇̊ ┏̲D̶̲̅┓̲ the relationship. Believe М̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ I know what I A̶̲̥̅♏ saying, I A̶̲̥̅♏ a man. A word is enough for the wise. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by nnana4top: 1:15pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
What do u mean by being broke? A man without cash today with a vision of a great tomoro especially if educated cannot be said to be broke becos in due time it shall speak. Never judge a man by his present state cos years later u find out dat a change will come. How i wish we can see the future most guys u call broke today success yrs later. My advice for ladies seek a guy dat had the fear of God and a vision of a great tomoro! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by tobechi20(m): 2:22pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
If a man can marry an ugly løoking girl if a man can marry a HIV patient if a man can marry a poverty struken girl from the village if a man can marry an illiterate, all in the name of LOVE. Why cant a girl do the same? Is love meant for only guys 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by firstlady4(f): 2:29pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
@poster, u are on d right track. most of our guz are very lazy and stupid. Alwaz talking about the future which never comes. As for me, i cant spend my "kobo" ON any guy, i dont even ask him to give me money cos am SELF MADE So, I cant waste my time with a broke guy 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by no1madman(m): 2:46pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
hegokillme: Well i have not made a thread in a long time,and a few weeks ago i was having a conversation with my friend who told me it is not good to date a guy who is broke.I for one agree with them.Anyways i would give you the reason why that my friends gave me. first_lady: @poster, u are on d right track.I am a fuckin broke assssss nigga!i love being broke! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
I wouldn't turn a guy down just because he doesn't have money. BUT, whether I would give someone (in a situation like this) a chance would depend on what he's doing to help himself. If he's ambitious and trying to make things better for himself, even if he has to start from a job beneath his skill level until he finds a better one - just to make ends meet for himself, I would respect that and would give him a chance. How could I turn down someone who is at least trying? He may not have much today, but tomorrow's still yet to come. On the other hand, if he just wants to sit idle or thinks he's too proud to work any job that comes his way, then No. I would admire someone who doesn't let his circumstances get the best of him, hasn't lost his determination to go after his goals and is trying to make things better. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Mynd44: 3:28pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
sexkillz:i couldn't have said it better |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Tyche(m): 3:42pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Op, what do you mean by "broke". |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by betterbest: 3:55pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Yield: I wouldn't turn a guy down just because he doesn't have money. BUT, whether I would give someone (in a situation like this) a chance would depend on what he's doing to help himself. If he's ambitious and trying to make things better for himself, even if he has to start from a job beneath his skill level until he finds a better one - just to make ends meet for himself, I would respect that and would give him a chance. How could I turn down someone who is at least trying? He may not have much today, but tomorrow's still yet to come. On the other hand, if he just wants to sit idle or thinks he's too proud to work any job that comes his way, then No. I would admire someone who doesn't let his circumstances get the best of him, hasn't lost his determination to go after his goals and is [i]trying [/i]to make things better. I love you.....your brain is working 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by JojoArmani(m): 4:22pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
@op money is not everytin. U might be wit de guy dat has money yet u wont be happy maybe he cheats, do all sorts of bad tins. Or havent u heard dat some girls are blessing to a guy? Yes he is broke but wit u God might bless him cos God doesnt want u to suffer. just play to God for ur own man. |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Funkadict(m): 5:19pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
krnl:Sorry! You'll find it funny later that your rich guy that you are logging onto today, may become as poor as a church rat later. Mind you, this is vice-versa. |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Booty4me: 5:23pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
betterbest: |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
bonnez: (Reads post a̶̲̥̅̊Bros I taya. Broke 'bottom' babes trying to form picky, women a beggar has no choice, respect yourselves. Nonsense. |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by horny4u(f): 10:34pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
A broke man with a map= yes A working man with no map= no Working as a KFC food server as a means to pay for medical school or professional exams can make a man broke but he has a map...He is going somewhere. Working as a KFC food server for more than 5 years , no school, no nothing nothing is a poor man in the making and a big NO NO! 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by IZUKWU(m): 11:00pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
horny4u: A broke man with a map= yesyou have a good head on your shoulder 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Nobody: 12:10am On Jul 07, 2012 |
Broke = Complaints! and i don't like complaints! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Mynd44: 12:56am On Jul 07, 2012 |
michelin89: Broke = Complaints!Not always |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by angiemartinez(f): 4:15pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
i dnt know y some ladies place emphasis on money. So u wil prefare a jobles man who is controlin hs brodas money, 2 a guy who probably has graduatd but not goten a job. Wen d owner of d money comes u wil fal bak 2 d scratch. There is no point eating ur 2moro 2day. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by richy5(m): 4:31pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
yes coz am sure he is gonna regain it resources |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Nadoson: 4:52pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
Wot of if u rily luv him(mr A) wit all ur heart & reject him 4 anoda man(mr B) u tink dat is beta of him finacialy 2day & 2moro he(mr A) bcoms RICH, & d man(mr B) bcom bankdrupt, wud u lik 2 go bak 2 (mr A) 2 apologiz cos he is no longa broke? |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Mynd44: 5:17pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
^^ That is the most confusing post I have seen on NL |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by no1madman(m): 5:35pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
horny4u: A broke man with a map= yesIt still boils down 2 d same fuckin shittttttttt. .fuckin papers!fuckin papers!fuckin papers! |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Skii(m): 5:48pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
Nadoson: Wot of if u rily luv him(mr A) wit all ur heart & reject him 4 anoda man(mr B) u tink dat is beta of him finacialy 2day & 2moro he(mr A) bcoms RICH, & d man(mr B) bcom bankdrupt, wud u lik 2 go bak 2 (mr A) 2 apologiz cos he is no longa broke? Mynd_44: ^^ No disrespect,but the logic behind the post is similar to "if A has N5 and takes out N2, how much does A have left?? |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Idowuogbo(f): 5:50pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
horny4u: A broke man with a map= yesSame applies! |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by richy5(m): 5:52pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
Skii:Shey nah iya ganku secondary schoool U attended? |
Re: Would You Date A Broke Man? by Gabrielsylar(m): 6:41pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
True lyfe story......ma brautiful igbo princess cheated on me with a rich yoruba dude 3yrs ago cos ma a.sz was broke and I was living wif ma mamma...but then I hammered...big tyme..now she sent me her CV begging me to gerra a job ANYHOW I can...I am tryn to help me as much as I can cos I know women re like dat...bur norring aside help cos am done wif her.....pls ladies stop loving money |
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