December 23rd 2011 our relationship was a year old. He proposed 2 me dat 9t. Our wedding plans are in order which by God's grace wil be takin place october. When we meet he told me he graduated 4rm UNIJOS wit degree in computer science but lately i was at his place doing cleanup when i saw his credentials and wat i saw was diploma in computer science. I didn't see anything like degree. when he came back i said to him "u didn't tell me u did diploma" he said dont mind me o i did. I also asked him of his degree result because i didn't see it there,he said it was there. I allowed it died down. Yesterday i came across his CV and didn't see the degree among his qualification only the diploma. We both love each other he didn't hv 2 lie. Pls i don't know wat to do. Pls i need help

Wilybabe, what exactly do you want us to do for you?

You are already in the relationship and you guys are already making plans for a legal union. Do you want someone to tell you to leave the relationship at this 9th hour?

All i can advice is this: if he's a nice chap (you already said that you love each other), then forget that flaw, but if you can not easily get it off your mind then talk it over with him and honestly move on. Ofcourse, he may have lied cause he thought you'd look down at him. You know, this paper qualification thing that does not measure with some peoples abilities and capabilities so he wants to belong.

Its all your call, dear!

I was not even aware that a degree and diploma are different things.

ekt_bear: I was not even aware that a degree and diploma are different things.

Diploma = burger flipping

Degree = Professional career


One is free, one is expensive.

but both handed out by unijos?

cray

I don't think the poster knows what she's talking about or maybe it's only in Nigeria that Unis hand out diplomas

Diploma is diffrnt frm a degree_in nig diploma is a pre degree certificatn.SHE KNWS WAT SHES SAYIN

Diploma in computer science?

Wouldn't pre-degree (diploma) be handed out on completion of high school (or grade school)?

Ileke-IdI:


Diploma = burger flipping

Degree = Professional career


One is free, one is expensive.

Ond is given by polytechnic/monotechnic

degree(bsc) is given by university


Poster, if you know u have never lied to him, carry a stone and throw at him.

Ileke-IdI:


Diploma = burger flipping

Degree = Professional career


One is free, one is expensive.

When did diploma become free?

honeric01:

When did diploma become free?

Public schools, that is.


Oh sorry, that's meant exclusively for ekt_bear's region.

Ileke-IdI:


Public schools, that is.


Oh sorry, that's meant exclusively for ekt_bear's region.

You get diploma from the university (Equivalent to OND in the polytechnic.)

honeric01:

You get diploma from the university (Equivalent to OND in the polytechnic.)

Ha! Ok, different system.

Ileke-IdI:


Ha! Ok, different system.

Hehehe,BTW, why does jujuman call you old mama?

honeric01:

Hehehe,BTW, why does jujuman call you old mama?

LOL! Because he loves me old nau.

Ileke-IdI:


LOL! Because he loves me old nau.

Hehehehe, good to know you have someone self-servicing using your pix

Aren't you too?

Ileke-IdI:
Aren't you too?

Not when i have a young slim damsel around.

honeric01:

Not when i have a young slim damsel around.

I guess I'm supposed to be the opposite lol.

Ileke-IdI:


I guess I'm supposed to be the opposite lol.

Hehehe, not really..

babe if he doesnt lie abt other things,pls accept him and move on just maake sure u tell him calmy that u understand everything bt that it doesnt take the love u ve for him away.

wilybabe: ...We both love each other he didn't hv 2 lie...

If he didn't, u'll probably not hv given him a chance. Btw, don't be in a hurry, more lies to be unveiled

ok sorry

For someone who's getting ready to marry you, he should've sat you down and explain everything to you.