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Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by bold4: 10:11am On Jul 14, 2012 |
greatgod2012: good points here, txs a lot,but somehow difficult to practisemost pple av said so but i dont share dr sentiments, i think if u value urself & ur purpose in life above all things then, it might not just be difficult. U just remove everyfin dt does not line up wit ur destiny includin pple 1 Like |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by kristofa09(m): 10:25am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Alfoasegh: Great post but mostly applicable to boyfriend-girlfriend relationships (not marriages) as rightly pointed out by someone earlier.my broda,dnt u eva make d mistake of getin in2 tht kind of rlatnshp again..like u ritely said, u no b ha father.guys fail to undstnd tht u cn nt run a rltnshp like tht..she wil end up lovin ur money n not u... |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Sike(m): 10:26am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Hmmmm |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Emylexray(m): 10:45am On Jul 14, 2012 |
shymmex: Different idealistic theories everyday, but how practical are these theories?why are you always critical? Though sometimes constructive and most times destructive. No offence intended please...just an observation. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Wizkhalifa2(m): 11:03am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Evrybody z sayng nyc note.. so @op 9ce note even tho i dint read it.. Tis way 2lng man! |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Santi222(m): 11:17am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Nice thread. Thought provoking. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
[quote author=akinmusi]Holding on is being brave, but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier. Here are ten signs it’s time to let go: Someone expects you to be someone you’re not. – Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not. Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to piece together a shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space inside yourself where YOU used to be. A person’s actions don’t match their words. – Everybody deserves somebody who helps them look forward to tomorrow. If someone has the opposite effect on you, because they are consistently inconsistent and their actions don’t match up with their words, it’s time to let them go. It’s always better to be alone than to be in bad company. True friendship is a promise made in the heart – silent, unwritten, unbreakable by distance, and unchangeable by time. Don’t listen to what people say; watch what they do. Your true friends will slowly reveal themselves over time. You catch yourself forcing someone to love you. – Let us keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us. We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about – freedom. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they love you. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait. An intimate relationship is based strictly on physical attraction. – Being beautiful is more than how many people you can get to look at you, or how others perceive you at a single glance. It’s about what you live for. It’s about what defines you. It’s about the depth of your heart, and what makes you unique. It’s about being who you are and living out your life honestly. It’s about those little quirks that make you, you. People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you. Someone continuously breaks your trust. – Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get one of two results – a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either way there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do. In the end you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you. And trust me, some people will totally surprise you. Someone continuously overlooks your worth. – Know your worth! When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there.. . . . NICE PIECE. Taught me to let go b4 it'll be too late nd cause regrets. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by subzero2(m): 2:55pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
Its very possible if u play by d rules. Lyk som1 said up thr; "alwyz b incharge of ur emotions." A luvly article. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by shizzle11(m): 5:00pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
Op, good thinking! even if not all, there's defo something to take away from this |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
[quote author=koruji]I see the advice below all the time when people talk about relationships. In my view it is rather unfortunate. It is very difficult for two fully grown people, even if they have the same background, to live peacefully without one or both being willing to compromise. Thus, this advice should be changed to reciprocate your partners willingness to compromise, if possible. If he/she cannot compromise or accept your best efforts then you must check whether there are other crucial reasons for you to want the relationship to still succeed. If not, you should leave without delay. Your heart will always be left broken if you always get into a relationship to insist "you can't change for someone else" or "you are never wrong" or "you are perfect", and other such nonsense. If that is the case, all you really want is a relationship with yourself only. [/quot You just spoke my mind |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by cama: 8:15pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
what if you r already married how do u apply dis rules |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
Great points. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Elucivestone: 11:24pm On Jul 14, 2012 |
slimyem: good points!I wish it was that easy oh... I wish. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Heymus(m): 7:39am On Jul 15, 2012 |
Bitter truth. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 15, 2012 |
True talk I guess dis was specially made 4 me |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by agbalaiti: 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2012 |
it is easier to say it than to practice.my bro if u are face the realiaty of life,the only solution is to seek God help in anything you do in life. About risk it better to take calculated risk than just risk or else it is constant failure.once again i pray to Almight Allah to help us in all our endeavour. to me you made some nice and powerful point on 10 signs its time to let go.more power to your elbow |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by kpolli(m): 9:09am On Jul 16, 2012 |
Brilliant post |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by Nobody: 1:45am On Sep 20, 2012 |
slimyem: good points! especially when you feel like there is some unfinished business. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by dodua(f): 11:23pm On Jan 14, 2013 |
DAMN! This makes so much sense....with a sense of deja vu, I so understand why some unanswered prayers are truly blessings in disguise! Life?.....hmmm |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by LadyTC: 11:52am On Jan 15, 2013 |
Wislet: ALL THESE PEOPLE CLAIMING IT'S EASIER SAID THAN DONE.... Nawa oo. I agree with you completely i don't understand some people. |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by DanielNoble(m): 7:01pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
shymmex: Different idealistic theories everyday, but how practical are these theories?bad belle |
Re: 10 Signs It’s Time To Let Go by akinmusi(m): 3:30pm On Sep 01, 2014 |
Lolz. Dirty mind. Nor mind me. You are the only one I replied after such a long time of posting this. #Phew. It took me that whole time typing this. I don't know the next time I will reply ur next response. bittyend: I want the OP to share some of the ish he smoked before writing this long and boring essay. |
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