Then there's me who's just gonna say "I am Diogo Joya"

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Odin13:
Ask first.. before you mark her test script..

People like me.. if you don’t ask.. mind fit no reach say you need am..

As long as she still loves you and cares as your woman..

We’re all wired differently

Whats the prove of the love and care if she can't ask how her fiance is coping with life after not being paid for 2 months.

Love is characterized by how much we're willing to give and sacrifice, and sadly, in this part of the world, we've taken the giving part to be only the man's responsibility.

Each day I hear women talk about how much they want intentional men lol. Here's an opportunity to be one but she's waiting to be told.

I found myself in a similar situation during covid-19 when they stopped paying me because we couldn't work. This girl I had been giving money never for once asked how I was coping. The girl is a nurse and was still working and getting paid during the heat of covid-19, but she never thought of send 500 naira airtime.

Many times I'd intentionally tell her I didn't have airtime to call just to see her reaction but nothing came out of it.

My submission is that the fiancee has shown signs of selfishness which is common amongst most ladies. "Jis money is our money, but my money is my money" mentality might be playing out here.

I'd personally not date anyone who wouldn't be excited about helping me when she's got the means. Both men and women deserve care and intentional partners.

dfvdf

Instead of calling parents, students and school authority, why not send an undercover reporter to the University to see things themselves? Very lazy reporting.

fyzaila:
Which rich lady or single mother will stoop so low and marry a lazy baggage of a man? In your widest dream maybe.

Well, unless you're as fine as prophet yusuf (A.s)

Lol
The same tactics many women play daily.
Staying lazy, but being beautiful. Then some unfortunate man will marry them thinking they've married wives.

EreluRoz:
It's too small for marriage, you can't get anything reasonable with that amount.

It's the guy who doesn't have sense sha.

Once I hear any unreasonable thing from anybody, I'll simply call everything off.

Let them have their daughter.

Juliearth:







E get why I talk so. If the person wey get this tori set up business for him woman and e flop, she no fit gather liver ask for money again and even if she does, he won't be bounded to bail her.

So, what business can a 400k monthly salary earner open for someone who isn't satisfied with 100k monthly free money? Its quite clear she isn't a good manager of money, neither can she be patient enough to run a profitable business.

LOL

TheOldGods:
I'm tired of it. Recently I met one, I don send am almost 100k in a space of two weeks. Which kind thing be that one. Students are no go area, if I mistakenly hear, I am a student, Omo, I delete the number immediately

My rent is due
We want to do seminar
My project
Gas and foodstuff has finished
Etc

I met one recently and it's probably my most regrettable experience this year. I never dated a student while I was one, do I'd blame myself for approaching her in the first place. This particular one is even entitled, telling me she likes money whether and she doesn't care if it's hers or someone else's own. I just allowed her fool herself well sha... I've stopped picking her calls, the small money I was sending don sweet her mouth.

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You see how very few ladies have commented so far?

Lovemeharder:
Just ask a girl out, the next thing is "my rent will expire next week" my airtime has finished " I have not eaten since morning etc!
This gender!!!

One called me yesterday to borrow her money to pay rent. I dunno what gives them that audacity. Always looking for who to fleece on.

emkz:


Let it go. She apologized.

Let it go? Should he goan format his brain?
Unfortunately, that was the first thing I remembered when I saw her picture.

It's normal that people will remember and bring it up at some point. And sadly, people will still present it as "receipt" if she doesn't agree with them.

Valid grounds for a divorce

1TrippleCee:
Was it really necessary for the husband to tell her? Just thinking out loud

Its actually necessary

There are people who may be in similar situations today, and this might be the inspiration for them to be courageous with their choices.
Secondly, those people are terrible humans, there is no point shielding wicked people.

Exactly what I'm experiencing with a babe now. Fumbled alot about being independent but wouldn't stop talking about her needs.

Once you call her, there's no end to how badly she needs money.

The last one that broke me was her telling me that her mum requested money from her to buy a refrigerator. You're a student for God's sake!!

Quality20:
OK that's good but just keep up d relationship n be good couple

Good couple?

She's just a friend, not girlfriend

Quality20:
u shd have spoken to her about it.. Anyway how are u now treating her?

Well, she's an adult and it's up to her how she wants to live. We still talked yesterday, and I've never made her feel like I'm aware of such a thing.

I can't forget seeing one of my female friends on codedruns. She later deleted her profile, and I've never spoken to her about it

Haveyoueatentod:
Gone are those days we dey dominate every African female team dem done wake up o. I remember those days we dey win African teams 4 nil 5 nil those days are gone

Our female football is not progressing. You can quantify that by how much we perform in international competitions. It will not be shocking when these smaller teams finally catch up and we will be declaring a state of emergency for female football.

You can't even fault or blame the woman

One stays in my compound.

She can't stand one minute without scratching somewhere on her body. I wonder how her clients dey cope.

Lol

This one is a joke please.

The gift of the working of miracles is given by God through the Holy Spirit, and I'm sure these guys don't believe in the Holy Spirit. So this one no enter abeg.

PoliteActivist:


You still exhibit that fundamental flaw in human reasoning - you assume she perceives the world same way you do. You can say what's best for YOU. You can't say what's best for her!
I said it's better to be alone than be with someone you can barely tolerate. I never said that's what SHE should do

Reaching compromise to sustain relationships, friendships, family, job, business etc isn't a ME thing, it's a WORLD thing.

I don't know how else someone who desires to be in a relationship should perceive the world if they're never willing to compromise.

But I get you sha, every single person should make whatever choices they want and bare the consequences. Nice 🙂

PoliteActivist:


Good write-up, however it still exhibits the one fundamental flaw in human reasoning - the tendency to assume that everyone else experiences life/reality exactly the same way we do. Infact it seems impossible to us that everyone else does not experience life the way we do.

You've simply just summarized what I pointed out as the mistake or character flaw of the OP. The same character I have admitted to be a victim of and trying to overcome.

She was judging everyone in the light of her very religious upbringing.

And that was why I mentioned that with a willing partner, adjustments and a rewarding compromise can be made by both parties.

From her story...

Did some of the men fumble? Yes
Were they ready to adjust? Yes
Did she give them a second or even third chance? No
When she saw her equally very religious person, she still ran due to stinginess.

Remember I quoted you because you said she's better off being single than being with someone she couldn't stand. But if you read her story again through the lens of what you just wrote, it'll be clearer that she made many mistakes.

Every thriving marriage is so because both parties have chosen to keep unlearning and relearning.

PoliteActivist:


Better than being with someone you can barely stand

Something I've learnt recently is that no man or woman marries a perfect partner.

In fact, when you realize that you're not perfect as a person, you'll learn how to give others second, third, fourth and fifth chance.

Even if Jesus had asked this OP out, she would have broken up with him if she caught him talking to another woman.

No second chance, no forgiveness! Please, how do you even want to have a good marriage with such character?

I'm pretty sure all those people she accused of cheating later got married and are still married. So, did they change? Did they stop cheating? Or they happened to find someone who understands that we're all humans who are capable of making mistakes.

I'm 30 and I've not been in a relationship in about 12 years, so I was very well like the OP. I use to lose interest in ladies over little character I don't like, but how long will I keep doing that when I can simply teach a lady the right things to do.

These are things I've learnt recently and putting to practice. So, as long as a man or woman are willing to learn and change, why not give them the opportunity to change? At least give enough chance until they've proven that they've changed.

I hope many younger ladies and guys learn early to avoid cases like this.

Jewessgratitud3

Akfrenzy:
he wants to open his own church where all the money will come directly to him and not waiting for approval from papa or any other person 😜😜


Business continues

Some of you don't have brain cells. You say business continues.

Do you think the father is gonna will some of his members to the son's new church?

Do you know how much it takes to leave a church of millions of followers to go start from scratch?

Do you know how many decades it'll take him to remotely get to where winners has gotten?

Do you know how much favour and privilege he's about to sacrifice?

Make una dey try think small before una talk.

Fugazy2023:


We like to lie to ourselves. All Christians are in support of Israel and that's just the obvious fact Pastor adeboye is saying. Even if no one says it, it is what it is

There's wisdom in keeping quiet at times like this. I was happy he didn't come out to support a candidate during election, even though I know he's most likely pro tinubu.
It's clear now that he doesn't have an issue with speaking up against vices, he just does it when it's convenient.

I see no reason why a soup should last 6 months o!

Yyy

Wawelexy:



Oga, both jersey and system, they can't match Nigerian military in anyway....

If left alone, any war between these two won't last 48hrs. However, just like bokoharam, what if those guys get foreign backing.