Congrats @ Herbie may God perfect your joy as we await the full gist. I wish everyone of us still waiting a very fruitful 2014. Baby dust

Thanks so much dear sisters for all the advise, I appreciate. @ Zaramum,your writeup really jacked up my faith from almost zero level to high up thanks so much.@ Blendy 77 really can't wait for 3 more years to raise the money before trying again so I'll go ahead and take the loan but if must use surrogate, I dont want us to meet and know each other to avoid future scandal so how will I ascertain if she has given birth b4.

@ MyZone,God knows best. it is well with you my sis.

Best in all our endeavours.

@safe06 thanks so much for the prayers and d advise. I appreciate.

Very Big Congrats@ MyZone o, God is really faithful. I envy you o though positively, I wish you a itch free 9 months course and pray God will bring to perfection that which He has started. Congrats again.

pls dearest sisters,I'm so sorry for always coming with one proplem or the other,pls the fear of age catching up with me is slowly killing me. I'm 38 and I tried my first ivf at 38 which came out neg. it took 3 years to save up for it and the money just went like that. there's no money to try again immediately so at my next attempt I would have been about 40,I read that its not advisable for age 40 up to try,according to findings my two tupes are completely damaged so natural conception is ruled out for me except by special miracle. pls by next year I intend taking a loan to go for my 2nd attempt that's why I cannot afford to gamble with it.knowing what to do inorder to maximize my chances cuz I can't afford to fail again is what is almost getting me insane with thoughts,worries, restlessness and confusion, dont know whether to just throw it to fate again or to just go for surrogacy.pls can any one help advise on what to do that will get me sure results cuz I can't afford to fail again cuz if it fails again at what age will I finish repairing the loan and start saving up again for another attempt. Baby dust to all .

@ Blendy wow!!!! what a mighty God! I key into this testimony and I receive mine by faith IJN. I'm really encouraged. May that same God show up for every one of us still waiting IJN. Amen. Baby dust!

@ All pls my sisters does ivf really works cuz all the ppl and friends I know seems to be having negative all through. I think the hospital I used is rather too careless cuz there where some basic questions I expected them to ask me b4 the procedure but they dint,the Dr just started me off without a comprehensive probe into my history and even after the transfer they were still placing me on one useless drug like that that is written on the pack 'not to be taken by pregnant women' and when I asked them they said it doesn't matter. I had to volunteer most info and ask to find out some things,they dint even tell me the quality of my eggs and after I had bleeded/ bfn they dint even advice me on what next or what happened or dint happen, in fact the last I saw the Dr was on my ET day after that till today,whatever happens after ET is not his concern. I dont want to keep waisting money that 's why I'm asking whether it really works and pls one last thing my menses dint start deteroriating after the failed ivf it started ever before that and I don't really know the cause so pls any useful tip will be really appreciated and pls is true that from 40 should not try ivf again?

@ mamaleri pls my sister I understand how u feel,its normal to feel the way you do but pls don't stay long in it cuz its dangerous,snap out of it and get back to life. I have come to understand one thing about God-He does His things the way He wants and at the time He wants if u like pray thunder or cry blood or even fast the hell out if it's not His time it won't move Him one bit but when once His time is come if u like do the ivf and then go and sleep and not even say a word of prayer,it will work like magic without any effort,we can only hope and pray for His mercy. personally I have even stopped asking God for children all I do now is worship Him,praise Him,give Him thanks and serve Him and the rest is up to Him. when I had a bfn I asked so many questions like is there a God at all and does He still answer prayers cuz there's no prayer style / faith that I dint apply but in my heart of hearts I know there' s God in heaven. so mydear please let your faith in Him not be conditioned by what He has done for you cuz I feel sometimes when we run to him or start fasting and praying fire and thunder only when we need Him to do something for us He will merely just watch us .Soon and soonest you will laugh and your joy will know no bounds.

@ no gen,zessy and fruitful mum,thanks so much. I used st. Ives in Lagos and was not told the cause of the bfn. pls what can I do to improve my periods?the date is regular but the quantity is getting worse by the day,I' it s reducing from 4days to 2days and from 2 to a day and very scanty at that. pls help for its getting me very worried.

Greetings to u all lovely sisters. just had a failed cycle,feeling down and dissapointed but I know I'll pick up again. Congratulations to every one that has got their bfp and congratulations in advance to those that are yet to.
@ peace5050 pls dear is there any other way I can contact this turkey people because I have filled the Inquiry form and trying to submit it refuse to go cuz I could not get those marks on the code and I don't know how to do it,they have not included any contact email in their site and I called the number which actually went but could not pick any words. My monthly period has become very scanty in quantity and I don't know what to do about it please can any one help? Baby dust to us all.

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@Blendy 77,just when I decided to use Emeka and had even already contacted him,I got very discouraged by your post about his recent Bfn's,I've prayed for the leading but can't seem to get headway,really really confused about where to use.
@ Peac5050 on the a second taught I think its not really about Dr Emeka but time and chance(Eccl 9v11) the mercies of God I think that 's what we need. God help Us.

@HoneyB Congrats o!May God who started this miracle go with you all the way and bring it to a perfect delivery IJN.Congrats again,I tap into the blessing as I will be comencing my first cycle next week.
@Pikin mama pls what are the dos and donts and food to eat as I'm starting my first cycle next week.

Hello Nairalanders,pls has anyone in this forum used Nordica before,are they good,how's their suiccess rate like? Pls help with info. Thanks

@ nne81. Pls I want more info on this felopio,does it work when there is serious adhesion in the tubes?my email cyfoltz@yahoo.com

@ Pmo5337 Congrats! O Wish u a safe and stress free 9months course lol May God keep and see her through.

@ All gud morning Destined Mums,pls I asked @ Gracefull to help me shed more light on this Nnewi Hospital and so far I've not had any reply from her.Pls I really need to know much about this clinic especially their success rate,pls if there's any one that can help me on this from experience ill be very gratefull.

@ Inwanagbo I can imagine d joy of that day allready,pls send me the IV cuz I really want to be there and tap into that blessing.Congrats again and May God perfect ALL that concerns U IJN.my e-mail cyfoltz@yahoo.com

@ Blendy tho I never fit see the boyz,a very big giantic congratulations to U and your dh and a sh-o-u-t of praise to the king of kings and Lord of lords for His faithfulness.May this precious gifts grow in xellent wisdom,knowledge and understanding.God Bless them real good.I tap into this blessing IJN.Congrats mydear

@inwangobio Congrats for ur twins! May the Lord who did for u do for us all IJN.I tap into ur testimony o.Congrats!

@Gracefull pls dear sis can u help tell me more about this clinic at Nnewi cuz a friend told me about but since I've not heared so much about them I dint consider it. Pls I want to know their success rate,prices and mode of operation.thanks and God perfect that which He has started in you IJN.

@Ticha wow u are really working! God will crown all your efforts with success in IJN

@Tanidabi I also advice that U take to natural supplements and immune boosters a lot cuz I learnt all things being equal in IVF ur immune system has a very great impact on the success.U can take pregnacare conception,it really helps and this immune booster 'Jobelyn'its very effective,I've been on them for about 8months now IVF or no IVF, I'm also looking for this supplement 'Baby and Me' wholefood supplement but don't know where to get it, I learnt I have to order online.pls while trying make sure u are religiously on fertility supplements,they help! Let's try our best while God is helping us.Baby dust!

@ Tanidabi God is still on the throne and will never take leave so rest urself for u will surely mother and breastfeed.I like the way u are taking it -there's answer in the' word'.Tanks for the info,we will continue to pray and trust God for one another until He makes us a praise. Cheers!

@lissylaw nd phewme thanks so much for the reply. Will try the online order. May answer all all IJN.

@Tanidabi Praising God already for you,@ evryone of us still Ttcing,God in his mercy will cause evry1 of us to shout for joy IJN.but pls beloved let's not forget to return all thanks to Him when its done and most importantly to make heaven our goal.God help us.

Pls beloveth I still need your advice as I've never had the IVF experience.I was preparing to go in for my first atempt when dey discovered fibriod and I was asked to have it removed first which I just did by open surgery (myomectomy).initially I was told to wait 3months b4 starting the IVF but now I'm hearing that if I try after 3months that I may likely miscarry bc the womb will not be strong enof that I should wait for six months.pls has any1 had this xperience b4, how long will it take the womb to heal well and is there any special drug I can take to enhance and fasten the internal healing? Thank you and God bless evry1.

Jst got to know about this groub and I must confess,you ppl are doing great by sharing your xperiences and encouraging outhers.pls I've been ttcing for 6yrs and just learnt about this product 'Baby and Me' whole food supplements but don't really where to get it.I've tried a few pharmacy but can't get it,pls does anyone know about it and where to get it? Wishing evryone a fruitful 2013.

@Safe06 thanks much sis,will try those places and compare their prices.Wishing evry1 of us a fruitful 2013 IJN.

@Tanidabi thank God for the journey so far.Jst discard every feeling weda negative or positive and focus on the author and finisher of your faith,He is the only one that can turn negative signs to positive results.make sure you remain positive mindwise and stress yourself less,looking forward to rejoicing with you come saturday.Congrats in advance!

Hello wonderful mothers in the house,so good to belong to a groub like this.I pray that evry one of us still trying will have cause to shout for joy this year IJN.And for those that have already got their testimony,may the Lord perfect your joy IJN,Congrats!
I just had the fibriod removed so I'm going to wait for 3months before I can start my first cycle but havnt still decided where best to go and have it in Abuja.I will appreciate if anyone can help.

@ abibyy Tanz dear sister,ill go and have it removed right away.

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Blendy77: Inwan, I haven't seen ur mail o, except its hidden in spam folder. Will chec it from the office 2moro.

Wonyi, Olikili is already a testimony na, which other testimony pass triplets?

Udemm where are u na? Was at the clinic yesterday for ANC since tuesday was pub hols. Thought I'll see you though Dr Emeka didn't come till I left so want to assume most of his patients were also not around. Have you done your first scan? If yes how many babies should be dancing for? Congrats once more.
@ All, I wish all of us still in God's waiting room a better 2013 filled with his goodness and mercy represented in twins and triplets. God will perfect that which concerns you and meet every women at the point of their need.
If you need the book God's waiting room 1&2 and you live or work on the island, send me an email and I'll have mine sent to you provided you will read and return in good condition. Also you must be a regular poster here to qualify. You can also find it to buy in Fountain of life book shop at Ilupeju. It used to be N800 or so when I bought mine 4-5yrs ago. Just want to encourage someone through testimonies from Nigerians on different ways of having a baby in the book and let you know you're not alone on this and the same God who did mine will settle yours too in Jesus Name.

Pls Sisters enof of the word battle! I need very serious and urgent help here! I was about starting my IVF treatment this week(first atempt) but I've just been told that my enemy has fibroid,3 in number, 2 measuring 4cm and 1 measuring 1cm,I'm told I have to go and remove the fibroid first before going for the IVF. Pls can I go ahead and have the IVF with fibroid as some ppl get pregnant with fibroid or I must remove it first and if that how long will it take for me to recover and start the IVF treatment.Pls has any1 been through this before? Would really really appreciate if U share the experience. Thanks evry1 and God bless and answer us all IJN.

Pls Help, I was about starting my IVF this month only to be told I have fibroid that I have to go remove the fibroid first.the fibroid are three, 2 measuring 4cm and 1 measuring 2cm.my fears are how soon can start my IVF treatment after removing the fibroid or can I go ahead with the IVF with fibroid? Pls any1 had IVF after fibroid surgery? PLS HELP!!!