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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by sslcrypt: 6:55pm On Jun 27, 2021
Well it's sad situation, I don't know what to say.

Just make sure she doesn't end up dead in your hands because there will be no place to run.

This is a gaurantee
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...


Please let the young lady leave with her child.

She is better off without you and I believe she will see someone better than you.

Let her go before you kill someone's daughter. You don't deserve her. Stay on your own since you can't control yourself after she has done in your life.

Let her go.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by gigabyte13: 6:56pm On Jun 27, 2021
You found love in her and you wan keeeee her ....?

The remnants of the coke wey u dey take never comot from your body, you had better watch it, before you keeeee , someone else pikin.


Sincerely, you need rehab, you need a professional coke adviser... I sincerely appreciate the fact that you cried out for help.

You did well man, you did well....
If person don know say e get problem, then the problem is half solved.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by LadyMedina25(f): 6:56pm On Jun 27, 2021
Maybe you should always drink cold water whenever you are angry

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Savedday: 6:56pm On Jun 27, 2021
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by espn(m): 6:58pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...
You are a very irresponsible guy...why beat a woman in d first place...you a nonsense boy...you have to grow up to keep a family...

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by 12345baba(m): 6:58pm On Jun 27, 2021
Start smoking loud jare u will be alright
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Crenzywilliams(m): 7:01pm On Jun 27, 2021
Ok, I didn't read what you even said, but I will say this, u be big fool.
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Opemiposii(f): 7:01pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:

Old relationship was worst bro
bro? Am a girl o abeg
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by stagger: 7:01pm On Jun 27, 2021
You are too coked up to maintain a relationship.

Better stop before you kill someone's daughter and you end up like this Ojukwu girl.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by InvertedHammer: 7:01pm On Jun 27, 2021
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She is using you for the comfort you provide.

You are just lusting after her.

Single mothers know how to tie a man with motherly instincts. Most of them are desperate users. As long as there is money, her love for you will exist.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by neyyoh: 7:02pm On Jun 27, 2021
I'll put this down to immaturity, if you've been dealt the wrath a woman before, you will never touch them physically.

Either way you won't win, the longer you beat her the more endangered your life.

Set up boundaries, if you can't meet each other half way.. dump.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Contekbbc: 7:02pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but [/b]most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


[b]Modified:


My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...
Does it mean that you're only loved when you have money?
If this is true then I reserve my comment!
SHALOM
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Ademab007(m): 7:03pm On Jun 27, 2021
Brother, all you need is Jesus.
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Opemiposii(f): 7:03pm On Jun 27, 2021
JONSYN7154:
I understand. OP only ask for advice ma.
he should goan pray
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Ohraybs(m): 7:05pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

You need to see the therapist for real counseling! Due to your past life with taking hard drugs and this new girl of yours successfully help you overcoming the obsession you have for it!
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Masterkernel1: 7:06pm On Jun 27, 2021
aanuoluwami14:
You need a good counseling or you need not to be deceiving yourself again! Act up like a matured man! Sit and talk one on one with her to know the areas where she could be of help. You know the solutions too. If you are smoking or drinking, you need to stop too. Best wishes


You sound mature, always remain objective.
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by sylve11: 7:07pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I , I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....




Mike Tyson, we dey hail o. sad cool
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by ChiefSosa(m): 7:09pm On Jun 27, 2021
Hello, Amotekun!

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by TheGreatOne90: 7:12pm On Jun 27, 2021
Is totally unfair to hit her, just because she said you talk to much. Am sure as hell, you wouldn't hit me, if i call you a talkative. On a serious note, if your tired of the relationship, please let her go.
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by fati2001(m): 7:14pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

u are running mad.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by BarrSly: 7:14pm On Jun 27, 2021
Lol you are just a pained 304. grin

Octopusssy:

See this one running his mouth like he actually knows what he is saying.
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

Hope you are not somebody I know, a short man with J as first letter of your name
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Toktee(m): 7:15pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...
Foolish boy.... When you wanted to hit her you never asked our opinion what made you think you need us now?

You are still a kid, men don't hit women..

At your age you have started going after single mothers, I pity your future.


You are even proud of confessing how hot tempered you are..... quite unfortunate.



You caught her texting a guy, is she your wife?

You abandoned your previous relationship for a single mother.... bro you have a serious problem maybe it's emanate from the hard drugs you have taken over the years.




At 27 you are after women older than you like prophet MHD, chaii.

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by omoadeleye(m): 7:15pm On Jun 27, 2021
RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)



Maybe when you finally use beating kill am, you go go and continue the rest of your life in kirikiri,sheybe something is wrong with your head ni.

Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Pears991: 7:15pm On Jun 27, 2021
Until she pulls a Chidimma Ojukwu on you---this here is gonna trend soon!
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by TheGreatOne90: 7:16pm On Jun 27, 2021
stagger:
You are too coked up to maintain a relationship.

Better stop before you kill someone's daughter and you end up like this Ojukwu girl.
Trust me, i will ensure the lady gets justice. He easily hits a lady because you know, she can't fight you. All those agbero weh dey insult you everyday, how many you don beat. I hate bullies

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Blacksavage: 7:17pm On Jun 27, 2021
Werey
You don turn kongful panda wey you go dey beat woman wey be like your mama sets wey get sense...
No be all this hoes wey dey outside..
My friend better use your head sad
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by EndRape2(f): 7:18pm On Jun 27, 2021
Ha,hope she is here reading this, she should run run run, no woman ,I repeat no woman should stay with a man hitting her, it can cause damage to her body, and if she die the man will move on, there is no reason to hit a woman, it is never a woman's fault that you are hiitng her, it is the man's fault, you need to see anger mamanegement expert, or visit a psychologist,
Do not let any body deceive you here, there is no reason for a woman to hit a man, and there is no reason for a man to hit a woman, you even damaged her eyes,

She is stupid if she stays back with you.

You need to go fix your self first before entering any relationship.
.
..
U will land in prison soon.














'

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Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Humorme2(f): 7:18pm On Jun 27, 2021
Guys that beat girls need some jail time angry
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by membranus: 7:19pm On Jun 27, 2021
Oluromantic:
Those crack and other hard drugs you were taking, this is the effect o. You took something for over 6 years, you think the addictive demons behind them go leave you go like that? Our people say e no dey finish for mad man brain, e go remain small sparks once once. You know say you agree to date am under the influence of crack. Now crack no dey your matter again, your eyes don dey open small small. Laslas, you go divorce her before wedding. No hit am o x you go go prison without being under the influence of crack and other drugs. A whistle is enough for the wise

"A whistle is enough for the wise"

This reminds of the Yoruba proverb:
"Aja to ma sonu kin gbo fere olode". Meaning "The dog that will be lost will never hear the whistle of the hunter"

Hope this man's case will not be so after so many counsels here.

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