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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:57pm On Sep 04, 2021
Clickguy44:
Nairaland grin... Seun suppose change the name of this forum.
To lielieland!
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Neddyogu(m): 1:58pm On Sep 04, 2021
U know the answer to ur question bro.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Goldbw122(m): 1:58pm On Sep 04, 2021
Let me rent place here
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by favour32(m): 1:58pm On Sep 04, 2021
Oga rush marry her...nor ask us wetin you want do already as na you be her endpoint.

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by kabanayol9(m): 1:58pm On Sep 04, 2021
Jashub:
My brother, if you're looking for a soulmate without a dark past then I'm sorry to say that you'll never find that person (at least not in this generation of evildoers ). And as it stands now, that young lady loves you and for her to tell you about her past means she's willing to build a trusting future with you. What if she didn't tell you...wouldn't you have still continued? Guy, forget about her past and try and build a future with her. After all, you don't know if God wants to bless you through this woman

Peace
You have spoken well my brother, just tell her too about your past and marry her, it is hard to see one to tell you the plain truth about their past

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by ilebaye2017(m): 1:59pm On Sep 04, 2021
Don't you think that she might have fabricated the story to test your depth of commitment to her? Moreover, who doesn't have a past? Even brothel prostitutes do turn a new leaf with a wonderful family life at last.
If you know her past would not be used against her by you then, go ahead and wife her

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Kingsleystunner(m): 2:03pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?



Run ooo �

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 2:08pm On Sep 04, 2021
Humanoid01:

The past is past oga. Some bad decisions most people make are a result of ignorance. Unfortunately, not everyone lives to learn the lessons from there.

You can't say you haven't made any bad decision since you became fully conscious of yourself.

Don't completely judge people by their pasts, every single person is prone to change and it is usually a process, not something that happens at once.
No it is not ignorance. She was fully aware of what she did in her past.

It was a matter of CHOICE! Any person in higher institution is not a kid.

Let her go and look for and marry her yahooman and his groupies.

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Lightorder: 2:08pm On Sep 04, 2021
Jashub:
My brother, if you're looking for a soulmate without a dark past then I'm sorry to say that you'll never find that person (at least not in this generation of evildoers ). And as it stands now, that young lady loves you and for her to tell you about her past means she's willing to build a trusting future with you. What if she didn't tell you...wouldn't you have still continued? Guy, forget about her past and try and build a future with her. After all, you don't know if God wants to bless you through this woman

Peace
just let her be o. No be tomorrow, you go con dey do rubbish. She had enough already, don’t add to it , please.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Humanoid01(m): 2:10pm On Sep 04, 2021
VeeVeeMyLuv:
No it is not ignorance

It is CHOICE! Let her go and look for and marry her yahooman and his groupies.
“Choice” is determined by several factors, ignorance being one of them.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by GABRIEL6036: 2:11pm On Sep 04, 2021
Very simple, Let the Glory of God shine through your path, ask God's interventions. Hear from God and proceed according to his word concerning the situation.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Teejay13(m): 2:11pm On Sep 04, 2021
Do what you think is right for you.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by jaxxy(m): 2:13pm On Sep 04, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
that girl was a hoe and sold herself to yahoo boys for money/comfort... is that the kind of woman you want as the future mother of your children and/or future wife? she has no moral and was willing to be shared for money.

People change and she might be a changed person. The only saint is the one who never let's u know or uncover their sins.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Kayceenaz(m): 2:13pm On Sep 04, 2021
Jashub:
My brother, if you're looking for a soulmate without a dark past then I'm sorry to say that you'll never find that person (at least not in this generation of evildoers ). And as it stands now, that young lady loves you and for her to tell you about her past means she's willing to build a trusting future with you. What if she didn't tell you...wouldn't you have still continued? Guy, forget about her past and try and build a future with her. After all, you don't know if God wants to bless you through this woman

Peace
I beg to differ. There are still marriageable ladies out there, although very few, without a "dark past." A good number of this handful of women are even virgins, no exaggeration. It takes God's grace for a man to find them and have a mutual affection outcome.

OP, based on the information you've provided about the lady, I advise you don't marry her. The past matters! A generally disciplined, although imperfect, lady is best had as a wife. Look out for your self and future. Lean on reason, not emotions!

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by ACKayleb: 2:14pm On Sep 04, 2021
No joy
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by neyoohhh: 2:16pm On Sep 04, 2021
The redpill way.

Be non judgemental when probing a woman's past.

Pretend to be open minded and let her reveal .

Once you have a glimpse into her gloomy past, depart like a gentleman .

You can't fix damaged women, a woman who has had group sex for fun or money is not fit for marriage .

Stay woke woke.

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by almarthins(m): 2:16pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?


Run!!!

Well I said run innitially but come to think of it.
Every one deserves a second chance. Make God forgive me for my abrupt conclusion.

Oga u need to go and pray ernestly, so that God will guide you right.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by winner37(m): 2:19pm On Sep 04, 2021
What happened earlier could repent itself in the future,if truly she was a God fearing and be contented with what she has she would have not left you for Yahoo boy...

Girls are all over , chose another one and leave her for Yahoo boys ooo

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by lonelydora: 2:19pm On Sep 04, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
How do they Harvest destiny

You dey fear?
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by TheGift: 2:20pm On Sep 04, 2021
She probably told you about it (true or not) because She wants to know how deep your love Her is.
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by chris81964(m): 2:20pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?
The decision is yours to make. She came clean when she did not have to. If you don't want her there are so many more that do.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by TheGift: 2:21pm On Sep 04, 2021
Did you read the article at all? Please, where did He say She left Him for Yahoo boys?
winner37:
What happened earlier could repent itself in the future,if truly she was a God fearing and be contented with what she has she would have not left you for Yahoo boy...

Girls are all over , chose another one and leave her for Yahoo boys ooo
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by yemi1504: 2:21pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

They waste their lives in their young age and then return to church to catch unsuspecting fo0ls in their old age after becoming a carca55. Just a question, do you love left0vers even if it is beautiful on the outside? Stop enabling w0men's stupid behavior in their young age bro. My 2 cents.

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Loverboy3333: 2:23pm On Sep 04, 2021
Thermodynamics:
Tales by moon light.
Some of una go just seat down de imagine rubbish.
This is the height of idleness.

First thin that came to my mind
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by seunmsg(m): 2:26pm On Sep 04, 2021
Almost every girl fvcks around before marriage so there is no big deal in her case. As regards one yahoo boy somewhere using her destiny, forget it, it’s all ruse. Nobody can use anybody’s destiny spiritually.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Goldbw122(m): 2:28pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?
I don't believe in people using other people destiny for their own personal richness, well go ahead and marry her because it is not all girls that will Reveal their past to you to be honest, she really likes you for real, and she is definitely waiting for reaction..
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by EgunMogaji2: 2:28pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

Story story.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by BornRicch(m): 2:28pm On Sep 04, 2021
Jashub:
My brother, if you're looking for a soulmate without a dark past then I'm sorry to say that you'll never find that person (at least not in this generation of evildoers ). And as it stands now, that young lady loves you and for her to tell you about her past means she's willing to build a trusting future with you. What if she didn't tell you...wouldn't you have still continued? Guy, forget about her past and try and build a future with her. After all, you don't know if God wants to bless you through this woman

Peace
You're blessed broda. Most of Nairalandians are kids and they're very slow. Sometimes I get upset when I heard them call people simps. I don't get it even mugu go come online dey call people simp. If you want to marry a virgin, good luck to you. Everyone has their past life for christ’s sake. A lot of these kids on Nairaland sleep with the so call olosho every weekend yet they come online and call women names.

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by DigitB: 2:30pm On Sep 04, 2021
Assuming this your story is not fake, I would suggest you don't marry her.

You wanna spend the rest of your union fixing a broken woman?

Did she also tell you how many abortions she did for the guy?

I would marry such a girl only if I didn't know her past.



I think your mind is already made up. Why disturbing our peace with this story?

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Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by rickyboss333: 2:31pm On Sep 04, 2021
tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

1. As a person with a conscience, what she has done is d more reason why u should marry her. For anyone to let u into such past, down to even giving u details of group sex and all means she really does want a genuine fresh life of faithfulness and trust with u.
2. But as a person with sense...guy just do the necessary blood test to a certain she's clean and put a seed in her to a certain she can give u babies. That is to say, to be sure u don't get to suffer for d deeds of her past, especially when u where actually told.
Put this two together n u hv ur answer. If point 2 works fine, then I have a very good feeling that u have a great lady as a wife.
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by yemi1504: 2:31pm On Sep 04, 2021
Fvckyouall:

Always blaming guys for all your problems, who asked you to have ugly pasts, like it was not as a result of your foolish decisions

Exactly! Their other chaste ladies are seen as not woke enough, love poverty SMH and hate "fun".
Re: Should I Still Marry Her After Yahoo Boys Have Used Her Destiny? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:31pm On Sep 04, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
that girl was a hoe and sold herself to yahoo boys for money/comfort... is that the kind of woman you want as the future mother of your children and/or future wife? she has no moral and was willing to be shared for money.
Ogaa pity her Na

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