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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Kayyus09(m): 5:46pm On Oct 04, 2021
Stay calm, you'll get over it. It is called infatuation fever. It fades away with age and experience.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Mydazz(m): 5:47pm On Oct 04, 2021
Should have been,

My Girlfriend has a Boyfriend and its not Me.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by BRATISLAVA: 5:47pm On Oct 04, 2021
Zaxbash1:
U see ... This thing called ego and emotional attachment U need to get eliminate it... Now imagine person way no get 5k for account they make U craze ... Bros U dey mad

According to you, it is permissible if she has a lot of money?

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by TemiATM(m): 5:49pm On Oct 04, 2021
My brother. Heed apostle paul advice on marriage if you're not ready for heartbreak. Women don't really knows what they want.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Gaddafih001(m): 5:49pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
You can never change a slut.
Imagine what has been going on behind your back.
Change or perish.
Women does not pity a simp.
She will still hit you hard when the time comes.
Remember,women marries who is ready but bleeps who she loves.
Don’t waist your time training other men’s offspring while you remain childless unknowingly.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by kapelvej: 5:49pm On Oct 04, 2021
Beloved3:
You read some thread topics and Nairaland and you laugh.

My girlfriend has another boyfriend. cheesy cheesy cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin grin laugh wan finish me here also
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Decryptor(m): 5:50pm On Oct 04, 2021
BigBashiru:


See every girl gets at least 50 messages from different guys on social media on a daily basis. It's not their fault. Its guys that are thirsty.

If you had 50 different girls messaging you every day won't you do the same?

Oga, stop justifying infidelity!

What happened to telling the 50 guys..."Sorry...I am in a serious relationship."
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Piptocoin: 5:51pm On Oct 04, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Tell her to call off her relationship with every other man, tell her you will give her time to do that. Then hold on, watch, with time you will know if you are the chosen one.

Would you watch your so-called boyfriend or fiance continue an affair with someone else while you hope you are the chosen one? Be real. This is not Nollywood.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by OfficialAPCNig: 5:52pm On Oct 04, 2021
Go make money dude
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by mybiz234: 5:52pm On Oct 04, 2021
ahnie:
Please forgive her,to hell is yuman,to forget is divine.please buy her lots of gift,show her extra love,if you're still scared of the other guy snatching her from you,pls make plans and move to the state she is.


What a dumb advice. Is that the value of your love for guys....more gifts? Why does she deseve more gifts for cheating? Because she has vagina?

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by rali123(f): 5:53pm On Oct 04, 2021
She's in another state.. grin grin
'Sorry', you are dating yourself... undecided undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by xtervaganza(m): 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
you can't eat or sleep because of a woman? If you'd said this in some families you'd be shot and your corpse burned
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
You didn't read my message properly. It is not it is not a bad thing for him to put an effort for his relationship to work out. It is not a bag thing for him to talk sense into her head. It is not a strange thing for an ex to suddenly appear to confuse a girl. A mature guy should give her time to sort out herself, if she refuses that's when he quits....he is free to listen to you redpillers who are in a haste to break relationships.



i agree he should put an effort to see the r/ship work buh talking sense into her, is that not influencing or interfering in her decision, tell her to pick him is not sense thats manipulation.
Any gurl old enough to be in a r/ship should know whats good for her, the fact that she is with a new man and still confused about an Ex means she is still very much in love with that ex ..... which is why i advised OP to give her terms & condition then give her space, after if she oblige that clarifies everything.

i can see all the yrs i've spent chasing you means nothing to you, how can you tag me redpillers undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by xtanlee(m): 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
Are you my girlfriends other boyfriend? Her name starts with a D right �
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by seyz91(m): 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
no dey stress yourself.

naija vagina people always have another boyfriend(s) its in their blood

love no dey in their dictionary

they only go for the higher to the highest bidder

you no know the number of guys naija girls dey meet on social.media daily, i dont even expect any sensible naija real niggas saying at this time age and time of the world especially in this current economic situation of naina that He is still dating a Girl

date my foot

no such thing as dating again

naija girls just roll with you for what they can benefit from you and once the benefits is exausted they japa and its their rolling with they term "catching cruise" its another word for prostituting
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by AvalonSpace(m): 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
The moment i read where you wrote "she stays in a different state from you..." That's where i knew you've packed your car at owner's risk. You no need prophet to tell you say you be deputy boo, i mean, back-up boyfriend.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by SOZINN: 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
Cc luminouz I can't laugh alone
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by aminusodiq(m): 5:54pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng- she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.


Dump her before she dumps you... That heartbreak fit kill person...!!!

PS - jobportng - pls i need a job... Based in lagos... Agricultural economics (second class upper) , lautech, Nysc - 2020
No be relationship matter dey do me abeg... Help me before depression end me abeg cry cry cry
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by bigtt76(f): 5:57pm On Oct 04, 2021
In order words you are co-boyfriend cheesy



jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by cardoso514: 6:02pm On Oct 04, 2021
ray501:
What is the opposite of side chick?
Frontbone!

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Ofadaman(m): 6:04pm On Oct 04, 2021
Death to all SIMPs
Shame to all SIMPs
Wow unto all SIMPs

You can either accept the fact that the guy who stays same state as her will be chopping her left ,right, toward and center, meanwhile , you can keep sending her money as you wish and maintaining her for him over there while he plunges to all depth and width of her ponmo..
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by BENRAZY(m): 6:05pm On Oct 04, 2021
Nairalanders always fastforwarding angry
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Ghoxt: 6:05pm On Oct 04, 2021
Hi
LilMissFavvy:
You do not know her, so don't conclude. She might not be having anything intimate with the other man. It's obvious she's still very young and just carried away with the attention men are giving her. Or you want the OP to leave her?

Don't mislead OP
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 04, 2021
If her name is Toyosi me sef been dey chuke head and I just recently cut ties with her.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by ahnie: 6:06pm On Oct 04, 2021
mybiz234:


What a dumb advice. Is that the value of your love for guys....more gifts? Why does she deseve more gifts for cheating? Because she has vagina?
I guess you're too dumb to notice the sacasm in my post.that I was only applauding his foolishness.
Take care... bye!

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Habib101: 6:08pm On Oct 04, 2021
Eeyyaa love don shak this one, well it's simple ask her why is she communicating with the guy but if she still has feelings for him then pack your bags and packages and gerrarou there and stop waisting time and resources,. No your position with her simple.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by mybiz234: 6:08pm On Oct 04, 2021
ahnie:

I guess you're too dumb to notice the sacasm in my post.that I was only applauding his foolishness.
Take care... bye!

Can you point to the sarcasm pointer in your commen. You are dumber than you think

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