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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 8:13pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: You are right about needing help. In this case, the man should act with tact. A healthy couple would often disagree to agree. The wife could explain her reasons and they could still think about alternatives or scholarship for those children, because they will grow up to appreciate it. Maybe the man is someone that can sacrifice his last Kobo to someone but feels fulfilled that he has helped someone. All the same couples should be open to each other and take mutual decision with wisdom. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 8:17pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
kayperry: If what you do with your money is your business, then you shouldn't have gotten married. I believe a couple should be open with each other. I won't feel comfortable with a man I can't tell my income and the things I do with the money, likewise the man. 'How you lay your bed is how you sleep in it', well you're right, sir. But these rules fly out of the window when the right person comes along, you simply make the bed for the sake of pleasure, no rules, no boundaries. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by President2001(m): 8:18pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire:Don't let it pain you Bro, she's doing the right thing in a wrong way Just calm down and sit her down let her know what you want and what you don't want |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kayperry: 8:20pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
MYHUBBY: Now i can't even differentiate who is talking anymore, my or hubby, alway signify ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:23pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
gentlegenius: LOL. There's one thing I would want you to understand. It is that, I am a child at heart. You hardly know when I am serious or not. I play too much. And when it's business, it's purely business. ![]() Thanks for your notice. Song idem o. Asiere. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Obynolee(f): 8:26pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: You're a weaklings,why would you allow her to control how you spend your money?,except it's hers you are talking about. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:29pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
kingyakos: Look, I am tired of you people making baseless comparisons. If you want to quote quotes, I can give you a lot of them and they are very handy. A drowning man can not rescue another drowning man, lest they both drown together. Yes, we rise by lifting others, but it'll be silly to try to raise others when yourself isn't standing firm. People don't care about nice people. They are only with you as much as your convenience can offer. There's no award for nicety. Know this and know peace. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:30pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
SmartPolician: NO. I do not believe in that philosophy of life. It's all baloney. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by MYHUBBY: 8:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
kayperry: an idiot is an idiot, you're a kid with boring life. go get a life |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by aspabay(m): 8:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Hmmm i am in similar shoe. Na mu cross. Na to carry am and hope things change soon |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by deavicky(m): 8:54pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Check her very well she must have joined APC. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kayperry: 8:57pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Czarina21: something about your aura ![]() Beyond definition any one that have experience "pleasure" know its a short time feeling so what happens when that sensation fades out ...where ever two parties exist there will alway be boundaries, they might not just be conscious enough |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by deavicky(m): 9:02pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire:I honestly wonder why stuff like this should border you?. As a matter of fact u have a perfect marriage you are the one disturbing yourself. When u pray to God that he should bless you so can be a blessing to others, was your wife there?. Why putting her into it now?. Do you know if she prays in opposite direction. Just do ur stuff without telling her?. And if u must give to her people, give it to her if she like let her give it to them or not, it's her business. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by crackhouse(m): 9:12pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Your wife knows you are not financially stable and that's why she is not allowing you to help others. She knows you guys don't have letalone the one to give people. She didn't change, she's just been careful so that you guys don't give all you have and start begging later . |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:15pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Czarina21:....As for me I don't see anything wrong in helping someone if one have the means but bringing some other kids into their house is a no no. And as for couples being open,I won't agree to that a 100%. In this kind of situation,the man can render such help without her knowing. Ok,let's say is the woman that's in this situation. Won't she device a means to render such help without the knowledge of her husband especially if her relatives are involved? I'm talking where the husband has refused to understand or reason with her. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kayperry: 9:24pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 9:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: It'll depend on the husband's reasons. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by paix(m): 9:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Most women hide their real colors till they get married. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 9:40pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
kayperry: There are couples who tell each other EVERYTHING, from petty gimmicks to extra-marital affairs that almost happened. There are couples who have long term pleasure. As for boundaries, when you get into a relationship no matter how stable or superficial it may be, boundaries will be crossed. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 9:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
paix: Not always true, sir. If I come yelling profanities in reply to your comment, you'll treat me differently. If I'm polite and state my opinion politely, you'll treat me differently too. After marriage, a lot of couples 'settle down', the man becomes cranky probably due to the new responsibilities and wedding party debts. The woman still wants the courtship euphoria in an amplified version. So everyone starts reacting to the current situation, and that's what we call the 'real colors'. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kingyakos: 9:55pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:The world isn't a nice place anymore so nice people won't be acknowledge but those that are nice in nature will keep being nice cos it's a part of them. What does it takes to lift others, you think it's by giving them money, I've seen where a stick of cigarettes lifted somebody to a top managerial position in Mobil. Also heard of a food vendor in umahia that took a female Corp member to Governor's office and told the governor to give the Corp member a job and the governor did, he gave the Corp member a job in slok marine. I heard that the governor do eat at the woman's restaurant back then and this Corp member happens to be the woman's neighbor and a nice neighbor. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kingyakos: 9:59pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Nature is a rewarder of one's deed weather good or bad nature will reward you |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by paix(m): 10:05pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Czarina21:I am a ghetto guy, profanities are our national anthems. Change of environment is gradually teaching me how to behave differently. In any case, I appreciate your sense of maturity in your response. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kingyakos: 10:06pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
franchasng:..... Money is current, just let it flow through and don't be stingy with it cos the shock is worst than that of electric current 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Kennyprince: 10:09pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
My brother, women are naturally stingy. It takes the grace of God to see few that are generous. Continue Todo the right thing |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by OLRAYS(m): 10:10pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Listen to your wife bro....secure the future of your children to come...things are getting worse in the country.....if you choose to help do it moderately...... |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by VicM6: 10:44pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire:For me to belive that u are a cheerful giver, first send me sometin for my bank acct first, then from there i go tell u the advice my great grand pale yarn me....3102853510...firstbank. ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Digmygold: 10:46pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: You're obviously a divorcee and a very bitter, sadistic redpiller. Have you heard from his wife. Do you think he's a saint? |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by grandstar(m): 11:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire I have this in-law who used to tell me that he'd love to change the lives of people if he was rich. He would always crow about his good deeds to people and so on. There was also a time he was a driver for a private security company. He complained about how the supervisors, especially one, was ripping off the security guards under them through all forms of extortion and felt sorry for them. The director of the security company decided to give him a job as a supervisor (though untrained and uneducated). This guy did worse than what he complained about the other supervisors. He would sack any who refused to settle him regularly. He charged newcomers for forms that were free. He also got 2 female guards pregnant and was sexually harassing many. There was one he kept as his babe against her will. He once had sex with an operative and did not have the common sense to give her transport money. She had to beg passersby to get home. His misdeeds were exposed when the company lost a big contract that had many locations. Many of the guards fingered him as a very bad egg. He was fired. Rather than feel sorry for his atrocities, he blamed a witchhunt by the chairman of the company. Always remember this Bible verse below: Let someone else praise you, and not your own mouth; Others, and not your own lips. (Proverbs 27:2) Some people who sing their own praises usually do so to win the hearts of people who they perceive as kind-hearted and generous. You are married to your wife, so you have to make your marriage work, for better, for worse. If you want to assist then, do it in secret. God who looks on in secret will bless 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by aimmoney9: 12:04am On Mar 13, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:Once you have seen her real character that can't be changed, and doesn't augur well with you, it's best to jump ship early (divorce) now that you are not entangled with children..... ![]() ![]() And also save us the heartache of reading on nairaland one day that husband and wife fought over rendering financial assistance and one or both died, R.I.P's might not be fourthcoming... ![]() ![]() You may stay and condone it till maybe 10 to 20 years time depending on your endurance level and deprive yourself innate happiness, and one day we will here u say .... I have heard enough.....and it will be too late..... ![]() ![]() By this time you might finally decide to divorce her with the children between you two and the divorce will not be sweet as doing it now..... ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Coolgent(m): 12:24am On Mar 13, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: This one of the disadvantage of marrying a lady from poor background; large percentage of them are self centered. Please ignore her attitude and do the needful except if you are managing her business not yours. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by BigBashiru: 1:31am On Mar 13, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: U don't need ur wife's permission to what u want because it's ur house |
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