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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by AmazonTopaz(f): 4:07pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: The SIMPs are happy with women Alfa mails are self servicing to por* 5 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nobody: 4:12pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:serious don't have your time let me drop one of the links here you can go though it yourself and have peace of mind this is one, we have many of true confessions about it, but you never get to see it more serious reasons they are men,boys,man but any little thing you see alot wailering and frigging from women,yes women are abused too but men also have more of it though hidden or oppressed not to speak out. https://www.nairaland.com/7066779/guys-share-experience-sexual-abuse#111726540 |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Connected1: 4:20pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
TONYE001:I don't do presentation. Women are the ones who cry and wail most times, those raised by their mothers can tell you that, if a mother feeds the home for a day, she would make the immature children believe that the father isn't doing well at all and he leaves the home responsibilities for her. Many Children grow up with that mentality and they foolishly hate their fathers until their own children do same to them, then they realise the mistakes. You will never hear a Nigerian man wail and complain that his sick/pregnant/tired wife leaves the house chores for him alone, men do it without raising an alarm. We hardly complain, we leave that for women, it's their nature, we aren't trying to win them in that. You all know Nigerian men don't admire equality in their homes but you try to force them to do it, you try to force and instill a white man's culture in us, that's pathetic, the West and America is open, go there get married to their men, but I don't think they want you guys. That's one of the reason women hardly get married these days, you want the man to do traditional marriage, church wedding and reception too, it was never so in the old days. Money wey I go take buy Land or do investments, I go carry am go do Sataka because I want to please a woman who would verbally abuse me when the marriage life starts and there's no money to run the home. Too many women go to church but don't understand the teachings of the bible nor do they know how to use it to run their homes, all they know is to call one small boy Daddy. We should all go back to the old ways, I don't see the usefulness of these churches anymore. Rubbish. 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nobody: 4:25pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Connected1:thank you the stereotype of this attitude has made man in danger species when men are abused "you get to hear the phase man up" his enjoying it haa!, stop insulting us here even men too fight follow men to oppress you not to speak out recently a young guy was cry fowl here how a lady Raped her here. https://www.nairaland.com/7074396/neighbor-raped-me-overnight#111867491 |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by TONYE001(m): 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Connected1: Sadly, there are too many generalizations in your submission. There are many women that sponsor their homes happily and they don't make noise about it. There are many men that complain that their wives don't do chores at home. See? Let's talk briefly about the old days. Those days, recall that men provide for their homes? I mean, men provide all the resources while the women manage the homes. True? How many men can do this? Today, women have to work to support their homes. If you go out at 8am and return at 5am, and your wife does the same, and you both return home tired and spent, why would you want your wife to do the chores and prepare the dishes? How about doing all these things with her? See my point? Well, we both have our opinions and going back and forth would only be too stressful. Let's leave it here and wish for the best for us all. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nobody: 4:29pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:No matter how violent or hot tempered a man is. Nothing in this world will make him hit his submissive and quiet wife. A quiet woman never get beaten- Dr D.K. Olukoya (General overseer M.F.M) You modern women don't know how to relate what is annoying or bothering you to your husbands. If it is not nagging, it is insults and name calling, it is questioning his masculinity (are you a man at all?), withdrawing sex, embarrassing him in front of friends and neighbours, being disrespectful just to mention a few. You fail to employ the power of submissiveness, a submissive woman has the greatest power and will control her husband like a puppet. Even if that man does not love you he will do everything to please you just for that single fact of being submissive. Infact the love will just naturally build up in him. But you ladies of nowadays are forming "woke" thanks to feminism and women rights activism. You want your husband to wash plate and cook too. You want to share chores but don't want to divide bills. Even there's a way you lovingly talk to your husband he'll willingly do those chores and run errands for you. But the way some women will frown face like earthworm and be issuing command ehn as boss ladies . The way they greet you half-heartedly as if they forced her to marry you lol Most of you feminist the reason you are never satisfied in marriage is because you have been promiscuous for years jumping from Yahoo boy to cultist to street touts to lecturer. And when they marry a poor innocent dude and dude can't match the spending prowess of her yahoo boyfriend or can't match the ruggedity of her ex cult boyfriend or can't match the sexual prowess of her lecturer then she feels she settled for less and when a women thinks less of you then disrespects sets in only the grace of God and great self control will prevent a man from battering her when she has pushed him to the threshold. No man wishes to beat his wife, I know that for sure. That is why I will advocate for my fellow men that are still considering marriage to marry a virgin. A virgin has no ex to compare you to . Scientifically it has been proven that a woman that has more than 5 body count can't pair bond with her husband when she finally marries. Women behave as if they just sat down and didn't say or do anything then the man just come dey beat u . Make Una go sidon joor. Wahala for men wey still dey marry these social media modern day whores. I made my decision at age 20 never to marry any woman hell I don't even do boyfriend-girlfriend nonsense. I have never envied any married man in my life. Infact I feel pity when I see a married man. If you are my enemy and you are getting married I'm always glad because I know you about to destroy yourself for me 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by BigJoe29: 4:30pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
After all the stupid arguments their spouse would still beat them in the real world, continue being an online feminist while you dey collect steady. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 4:31pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Aydot351:The story you just told is pathetic abeg! If you were physically assaulted by an ex, and chose not to report it to the police because you didn't consider it much, that is no reason why you should go around thinking pummeling a woman for merely physically assaulting you is correct. You claim the other is your friend, why not ask her to report to the cops or leave the relationship? And by the way, every human relationship requires patience, whether you are dealing with kids or adults, na patience im all be. But abuse should not be tolerated no matter the kind.. 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Jamahyel(m): 4:31pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
I remember one man I stayed in a compound with that year in karu. Everyday he beat his wife, and the funny thing is she was the bread winnner of the house. All he does was go out in The evening to drink and come back drunk and beat her. One day when the man enter my trap, I use koboko flog am eh, en run from the house come back very late in the night. Everybody in the house was so happy for what I did . Please don’t sit and watch all the men who do this. They have mental issue . 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Aydot351(m): 4:40pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I did the right thing by walking away, but sometimes you can't walk away all the time. We all need the fear of God in situations like this. All in all, take ur time to study ur partner and look out for red flags, love is never enough 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 4:40pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Bonesbreaker: Nairaland link? Eweeeeee. Since when did Nairaland become a source of authority for incontrovertible evidence and researches? I ain't taking this. You can find proofs for virtually every thing online. I need stats, dude. Quantitative research showing the rates for each sex. Do you know what comparison mean? Are you getting me at all? I have no denied that men don't face abuses, again. I have not. And I have not said those guys' experiences aren't true. I am simply asking you to show me how men have MORE OF IT MORE THAN WOMEN. So what you'll do is to bring DV facts and stats for women, bring DV facts and stats for men and compare them. Do you think thousands of women too aren't pressurised into keeping quiet? This woman too and many others keep their experiences under wrap and protect their abuses. It is when they die that everything comes out. Because I can easily claim too than MORE WOMEN than men too are not speaking out, that we don't know of. So let us deal with recorded and observable realities of DV as it relates to both men and women. Thank you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by meobizy(f): 4:45pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Is this what Nairalanders want to make trend? I spit on you children. |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nobody: 4:46pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
TONYE001:Ah Mr Tonye I follow your dairy and I know the story of how you met your wife. Your wife is a rare exception sir. She supported your dreams and ambition. She did not berate you for leaving a job that was paying you well to chase your dreams. Some women would have called you selfish for pursuing your goal and called you all sorts to derail you. Please your wife is gold and thank God every morning for giving her to you. I have seen men so broken and unhappy, many looking far older than their age because of the type of woman they married. 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 4:50pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Bonesbreaker: It's funny to me, though, that Nairaland is your go-to source for evidences in a discussion like this. How brilliant. You say any little thing women are always wailing and frigging and whatnot? Somebody just died, an avoidable death, and you think we're all making noise? I know you've misplaced your empathy but you didn't have to broadcast it to the whole world like this. So, why do you have issue with women speaking up about a woman's death? Are you saying that's not right? Should we overlook women's abuse because men get abused too? Is it wrong to speak out? Has anybody speaking up for women's abuses told you not to speak up about men's abuses? Because I'm trying to understand your grouse here. Now men are speaking up, and you showed two threads here on Nairaland about men's abuses. Why did you have to come here to shut people up about speaking up for women? Why did you have to bring it up inside here? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 4:57pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
NewSoul: You should go through the links I posted first or bring a counter evidence to them if you want to discuss this issue of domestic violence with me. Your opinions do not cut it with me. Thank you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Connected1: 5:01pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
TONYE001:For your info, when something is 95% true it's no longer called generalization, We have light skinned people in Nigeria but we are a black nation, how about that. Lol You are too funny, who clamoured for education of the women and who said they don't want to be a sit at home wife that they don't want to end up in the kitchen that the have their own ambitions and dreams too. You shouldn't use your confusion to affect a man on his own, many Nigerian men can comfortably feed their wives if they sit at home and look after the children and home. There are sacrifices to be made for every decision you make, let those ambitious women deal with it, I am not wishing the best for anyone. 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Yewandequeen(f): 5:01pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi:100% true no one can be told how they r act to anger. But let me ask you, do you have a sister? So if her husband hits her and you get to hear of it, you go meet the husband and pat him on the back saying no one can tell you how to react ehn opkia? What happened to everyone tamming the beast inside them? Please just come off this verbal abuse thing it's not always the women being abusive always. Some men are just naturally beasts, aren't there men that beats their wife's just because she say she isn't in the mood for sex? Aren't their men that beats their wife's just cos their dinner didn't come out in time? Were the women verbally abusive? No Just cut it off, cos ur posts seem to be supporting the act. Tueh 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 5:09pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
BigJoe29: After all the stupid arguments their spouse would still make them wash pants, cook food, do domestic chores and emotionally abuse them in the real world, continue being an online macho man and redpiller while you dey collect steady. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by BRATISLAVA: 5:12pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: Looool. The way they've normalized battery is funny. May their evil remain in their homes since they love and advocate it so much. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 5:20pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Isee. I will return it back to him in equal folds. He think say he wise fit stay for corner dey throw shades. I will mention his baga and catch the sub well and direct my own back. I stay petty and triggered. *inserts nail-painting emoji here*. 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:so Nairaland is not good enough right ? just get out you can never see any reason in my point so no need we arguing again here since you have retired that nairaland is never enough here so no need i educating you more. Good day Miss |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 5:34pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Bonesbreaker: Nope. Nairaland ain't standard. I saw reason in your point. I reiterated it that I am not disproving the experiences on the threads you've posted, but in the case where we are comparing DV rates of both sexes, your "proof" isn't admissible in this case. You never schooled me, but I hope you learnt that you shouldn't go about making claims without substantial evidences. Opinionated claims and nothing more. You, too, and have a lovely evening. 5 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 5:39pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi: I told you I am here to provoke you and to keep you on your toes. I can understand if it was me you were insulting, ko si wahala. But without being provoked, why are you being verbally abusive to a lady who has been nothing but civil to you? What in her questions brought about the disrespect? It got to you, ba? Now aren't you being a beast like the women you're castigating? You see how even without doing nada to you, consider how you responded. And you think some men cannot be physical beasts without cause. You're a perfect example. Sha answer her questions. Na she ask o, but na me go press you to answer. Oya, fast now. She also mentioned some instances which you conveniently ignored, I see. How sweet. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Yewandequeen(f): 5:41pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi: You do not deserve to be amongst the Sane and neither do you deserve my reply, your moniker says it all. 5 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Yewandequeen(f): 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:He is a typical example of the beastie men 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Datikwerreboi(m): 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Yewandequeen:Tell that to your father please |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Datikwerreboi(m): 5:44pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Same insensitive well u ladies talk that get u beaten up and killed. U people will never learn 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 5:45pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 5:46pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi: Oga, we have gotten over than fact since 1966. Answer the babe's questions, let's hear. Why did you become insulting to a person who has been civil to you? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Orgasmgiver123(m): 6:07pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
NewSoul: Yo bruv Good idea Imma start teaching them how to kick nasty fvcks with rainboots, on their wedding day, imma gift them two pairs of rain boots each, and a pocket knife Damn... nasty... I’m out of here |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Datikwerreboi(m): 6:09pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:I can't answer an insensitive and stupid gal's questions sorry |
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