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Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by VTJN(m): 9:03pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20:Not me I'm not one of them.. Even if a girl is not lucky with already made man, it's not an excuse to go after her school mate I won't encourage that |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ILEMUDA(m): 9:07pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
HopeNeverDies:Una won dey knack from nairaland enter school Sharpp Guy |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by omosefeeguaibor(f): 9:11pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Well I had to post on this thread because this was exactly my case as at four years after my p.o.p, note i come from a very strict background where as a girl you can never pass the night out, except under your father's roof, and to be honest, my parent's house was quite comfortable to stay, however it was a case of too comfortable for my liking. And i made up my mind during service that never ever will I return home after NYSC, till I made it. lt sounds funny � thinking about it now, but back then it was pretty much tough. So what I did was this I saved money, I mean 19.8k then I saved, and I sent part of my money to my parent lol to show off that I was fine without their help, even though the reality was different. Also note that during my service year I never asked them for any financial help I wanted to send an indirect message that I was doing fine without their input, and that worked. And lastly after service, I went back to my former hostel when I was still in uni and lived with the most amazing friend I could never trade for anything, this lady believed in my dream and helped me grow, my dear there was nothing I didn't venture into(legit oo) from learning to work with cars, I was a female mechanic, remembered how people laughed at me chaii! to learning decor and catering services, to selling different items, well it was one hell of a journey but I never returned home, all because I wanted to make them proud. I remember countless times my dad and mom will threaten me even my siblings to return home I simply like my independence hence I ignored the threats... looking back today, I did not regret any of my actions I made, I was able to save up and with the help of my friend turned sis.. I left the shores of naija and its been a better journey moving forward. All I can say is make sure you're convinced you are doing the right thing, and be focused and above all hold God true, He will surely give you a safe landing. I do hope my story inspires. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by DreamSonInlaw(m): 9:18pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
culf: Sugar boy. The way you dey talk sweet sweet so..you sure no be you go be the guy she fancy? |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by DreamSonInlaw(m): 9:20pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Toh why you want make e be you? Why not him? � |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 9:21pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
VTJN: I'm not even after already made man. Once I see you're not lazy, you're relentless, you're with prospect, and I feel something for you, and sense the feeling is mutual ( coz I wouldn't force myself on who doesn't love me), I will turn mumu for you o.... Some of them blaming these women for looking for already made man wouldn't even withstand their daughters considering a civil servant. Let them keep ranting. I know most of them are young guys. Let's wait until to start having children, doing responsibilities expected of them, train their children, and when they're of age, they went and bring some wretched men home to them. I wish their reactions are what we could see 3 Likes |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 9:23pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
DreamSonInlaw: Lol.... Every child wants to be its parents beloved |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by AdeoyeAdefemi: 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
My younger sis said "Bro, you were once my role model but I don't think I want to be like you again. She also advised me to start doing yahoo . Well, I'm grateful the story is gradually changing. 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 11:14pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
DreamSonInlaw: naaaa, she deserve better, she will get a brand new fresh guy, I'm taken and old fashion. Who knows, it might be you, after all you're a 'dream son in law', only don't break her heart else I will come for you... lol. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 11:16pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20:we made front page you know... cheers to that my royal Highness! |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 6:35am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf:Lol... I never knew your majesty. Cheers |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 6:38am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf:Lol |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by R0LL0N(m): 6:47am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Nicepoker: She is not a baby, you are referring to a graduate. Most unwanted preg are link to under 18s |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by DreamSonInlaw(m): 7:13am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf: Ah you be correct guy oh! I can hear dem ladies say; ' why are all the good guys taken'?. I no sure say i get time for women matter now. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 7:14am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: good morning her royal Highness? Its no laughing matter oooo, they think I'm sweet mouthing but I'm only being truthful. you deserve the best and you will get the best. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by DreamSonInlaw(m): 7:16am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: I am mines...maybe na why I get blind spot there. This one wey you say u no like school, hope you get your PVC sha |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 7:17am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: I noticed it yesterday! how is her royal Highness this morning, the one and only stargurl20, your boy is still very loyal. Have a remarkable day ahead! |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 7:28am On Oct 19, 2022 |
DreamSonInlaw: lol...thank you boss Mi, they are still good guys around just that they are not usually as conspicuous as the players and I think you're one yourself. Bros, try oooo, they are still good ones out there(and I think my lady here is one. Truly, they are good ladies here but you will never know, most of them are usually quiet because of the unfriendly nature of this place now), try and its good to start on time too even as a guy. Have a good day sir |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 7:56am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf: Good morning, your majesty. thank so much. I sincerely appreciate you. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 7:56am On Oct 19, 2022 |
DreamSonInlaw:Lol.... |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 7:58am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf: My boy? Oh come on, sir. It's time you stopped this modesty. Too much modesty is a sin. Good morning, majesty. I'm fine, you? |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:00am On Oct 19, 2022 |
R0LL0N:I'm still an undergraduate. But his comment is actually funny though |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 8:18am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Hahahahaha. modesty ke, I'm actually very loyal, my Royal Highness. I'm OK, thank God and thank you too. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 8:21am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: you're welcome your Highness and you're highly appreciated from here too. God bless you for us. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:33am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf:Lol |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:34am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf:Aameen. God bless u too |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:46am On Oct 19, 2022 |
johnfem321:As if I get hope after sch sef. Women don plenty pass men. Honestly, I wonder why marriage is a necessity. I for no stress myself. A these stories of couples pretending to be happy while going through a hell gan is enough. Me I no just get strength for wahala |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:48am On Oct 19, 2022 |
juman: If I fit squat with person.... I don't know why, the pressure I foresee is something I feel I may not survive. I no like wahala |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:49am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Jalo60:Pls sir, why can't a Muslim lady leaves her parents house? I'm sincerely asking. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 8:57am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Elidrisy20:I don't understand your point of commenting ngbayen |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 9:00am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20:amen and thank you Mi lady, her royal Highness and the one and only Stargurl |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by juman(m): 9:02am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: How are you going to be feeding yourself? First get atleast small job before moving out. Teaching job is lucrative, you can get hundreds of thousands per month if you are really active. If not you will be forced to sell your body to pay bills. |
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