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Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by upuphim(m): 9:02am On Oct 19, 2022 |
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Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 9:04am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: hmmm, you're laughing at me appreciating you or being honest, which one? I know most ladies don't like truth and I pray you don't join that list, after all, you're royalty not just a Lady. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 9:22am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf:Maybe it's because I don't flatter myself |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 9:23am On Oct 19, 2022 |
juman:Yes, I intend on getting job, and not over selective with their pays |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 9:34am On Oct 19, 2022 |
omosefeeguaibor:Wow! Thank you so much, ma'am. I really learnt a lot from this. I've small cash from the scholarship I'm currently on, but I'm confused on what to invest in cause I do not want to jeopardize my studies along the line. So, I'm going to be fixing the money, including the one I will be receiving in my finals by God's grace and wait until Nysc before investing. Also wish to japa, but where money dey? Lol 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by johnfem321: 10:20am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Sure you have hope.. don’t focus your thought and energy on negative thought.. you should believe you will find your own man and have a happy marriage..forget say woman plenty.. I’m sure you know there are thousand of people getting married every weekend.. the ladies are not more better or beautiful than you.. just be approachable, don’t deceive yourself by using work or money to compensate for not getting married, most especially pray, God answers prayer.. Yes marriage is a necessity for a happy and fruitful life… Stargurl20: |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by cayorday89(m): 10:21am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: You should know the kind of family/parents you have, I knew mine but they had a surprise for me, they started talking marriage and I was only surprised because it was a crime seeing me with male friends not to talk of females, well I put then in their place and focused on how I can survive independently without relying on anyone.. Save from your allawee and if you are able to make side money, it should help and don't think of getting your apartment immediately because doing that will still make you pressure yourself due to endless bills. Be intentional about who you date, as for jobs, you could be lucky and if it comes good take time to move out and be on your own, live your life and take things one step at a time. 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Trabaye: 10:29am On Oct 19, 2022 |
fman: Imagine see advice. Make she go rent house wey e never sure if job or business will come early or late. Make she dey her papa house till she's sure of herself. Country hard pass that one wey you talk o. 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 10:51am On Oct 19, 2022 |
johnfem321:I wonder why people think one is being negative when one is just being realistic. Thanks for the advice |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 10:51am On Oct 19, 2022 |
cayorday89:Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by juman(m): 11:09am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Good to go. Good luck to you. 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 11:22am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: am I flattering you? Its good not to flatter oneself too much but sincere flatter or let's use praise, is good once in awhile. 1 Like |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 11:24am On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf:Hmm |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 11:50am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20:what's is it my Royal Highness? let me hear it please or am I wrong? |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 2:12pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf: You're not wrong. I'm only acknowledging your majesty's words |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 3:50pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
HopeNeverDies: He fit dey lie like that?. @stargurl20. He is lying. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 4:00pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
youngZee23: Think say na guy. Na why I quickly view the thread. Make them advice boy too. Woman nor get problem. Na marriage she suppose dey think after nysc. Man wey go take up all her financial responsibilities. She be good girl, na why she dey bother like this. Awon omo to bad sabi wetin dey happen. During nysc, them don get wealthy man wey dey pay their bills. After nysc like this, wedding immediately. No time. Be feminine. You too go and read ubunja's miseducation. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 4:08pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Aguilar: How did you do it? What did you study? Government institutions don't accept awaiting result. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 4:18pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
johnfem321: This advice ehn. Women don't learn. Them nor know say them get wall. Marry in your prime. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 4:20pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
pinkygurl: You had the financial wherewithal. She doesn't have that. What do you advise? Make she go marry wealthy man. She is at the wall already. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 4:21pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
mzeepositive: You have not said anything. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 4:23pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
ashewoboy:Lol he's not |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 4:26pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
IamMobisola: How much do you want to save from 33 thousand? You will not feed? Abeg. This advice of save during nysc dey annoy me. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by IamMobisola(f): 5:08pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
ashewoboy: I did, tons of other people did. I said TRY. I didn’t say it’s a must. There are many people that were lucky to serve in the same state as their residence, so accommodation and feeding is already sorted even transport sef because your parents can still give you that one |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Aguilar(m): 5:22pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
ashewoboy:omo the story long |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Davidofzy: 6:24pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Check your mail quote author=Stargurl20 post=117616502]Is it advisable for a lady of maybe 25 years to leave home immediately after NYSC just to save her self from foreseen pressures? I'm still an undergraduate. Will be round off in less than a year by the grace of God and may ASUU not embark on another strike. I've been thinking a lot these days, and I'm just not confident enough to face any pressure from families especially after NYSC. To those who left home after NYSC, with no hope of where to go, how to start or what to do, were you able to scale through? Did you regret your decision? Pls, share your experiences, especially if you are a lady who has experienced this. Thank you[/quote] |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 6:37pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Aguilar: Share the story. Let us learn. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 6:38pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Stargurl20: You have seen his picture? That is btw though. Shey you are a pretty babe?. If you are pretty, reply my mail. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by ashewoboy(m): 6:42pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
IamMobisola: The exception. Now you are talking. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by Stargurl20(f): 6:47pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
ashewoboy: No. I'm not a pretty babe. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by DreamSonInlaw(m): 8:34pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
culf: Oh thanks chief. I have been following nairaland for years (because of the werey wey full here ) I don't engage a lot though, the few times I have..I found out there are amazing people; you & one girl like that. I am a firm believer that good girls abound. Thanks for your kind words..I want arrange one or two before I get out there..almost there. |
Re: Pressure From Families After NYSC: Share Your Experiences, Especially Women by culf: 11:57pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
DreamSonInlaw: nice and thanks bro, you're an amazing guy. 1 Like |
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