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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by BobbieZion(m): 9:19am On Oct 24, 2022
Dliquidmetal:
ofcourse your god ain't man,just a figment of your imagination (because you can't proof its existence) and indoctrinations.
And if you wanna make your purpose in life eating,shitting and sleeping then I have no problems with that but don't think every human being should have purposes that aligns with your pre conceived ideology of what "a lifes purpose" should be whereby anything outside of this your scope is seen by you as lesser or animalistic.

God is greater than Man's imagination.

Can you prove that God does not exist?
Which is harder proving He exists or proven He does not?
Then i guess billions of Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus and Buddhists are just using a figment of their imagination.........
Can you now hear how you sound?

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by blingxx(m): 9:34am On Oct 24, 2022
BobbieZion:


God is not a Man.......take it or leave it.

If i don't believe in anything then i am worse than an animal.
That means all i will do is eat, shit and sleep?

Bruh we have over a thousand religions with billions of worshippers on Earth each religion believe you will go to hell if you don't worship their God and you are here blaming atheist for not believing sad .. which of those Gods is yours lemme chose my hell in peace

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by dhardline(m): 10:01am On Oct 24, 2022
suicidesheep:


This is a really funny comment, the theist women that are guided by their religion, are they the ones committing marital crimes. If it’s because of religion you don’t sleep with animals , then you really need to be checked.

Your view on atheism is laughable. It proves you’re just a bigot

Ps, I’m. It atheist

You can go ahead and call me all that you want still does not change the fact that you really have so much that you are yet to understand about my statement. Do you think those who sleep with animals feel they are in the wrong? Or do you think those who go ahead to have a sex change feel they are in the wrong or the average Joe who lies to get what he wants think he's in the wrong. You really need the learn the nature of man and he's capabilities, how man naturally seeks to live a life in which he gives no account to anyone. How what you regard to be 'morals' can become really fluid in the mind of a man who has nothing governing his mind.

P. S. I am a Christian! tongue

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by suicidesheep: 10:20am On Oct 24, 2022
dhardline:


You can go ahead and call me all that you want still does not change the fact that you really have so much that you are yet to understand about my statement. Do you think those who sleep with animals feel they are in the wrong? Or do you think those who go ahead to have a sex change feel they are in the wrong or the average Joe who lies to get what he wants think he's in the wrong. You really need the learn the nature of man and he's capabilities, how man naturally seeks to live a life in which he gives no account to anyone. How what you regard to be 'morals' can become really fluid in the mind of a man who has nothing governing his mind.

P. S. I am a Christian! tongue

If you’re matured you’d realized one doesn’t religion to be moral, a good person is a good person with or without religion. most atheist I know are more morally upright than Christians.

The religious folks that do these same crime (and worst) that you want to accuse atheist, what will you say about what’s governing their mind

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by BobbieZion(m): 10:41am On Oct 24, 2022
blingxx:


Bruh we have over a thousand religions with billions of worshippers on Earth each religion believe you will go to hell if you don't worship their God and you are here blaming atheist for not believing sad .. which of those Gods is yours lemme chose my hell in peace

But they have something to believe, even if it is not the right one.............
But, not just believing in nothing.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by CoconutMilk: 11:02am On Oct 24, 2022
suicidesheep:


If you’re matured you’d realized one doesn’t religion to be moral, a good person is a good person with or without religion. most atheist I know are more morally upright than Christians.

The religious folks that do these same crime (and worst) that you want to accuse atheist, what will you say about what’s governing their mind
Tell me one moral value you hold and I'll show you there is no reason the be moral outside religion.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by advanceDNA: 11:26am On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:


Yeah, a long thing here. My ex called me the devil. This was someone i had a high chemistry with, but we weren't compatible- incompatibility borne out of religion.

Why dont u just get a woman u are on the same table on the God issue......instead of complaining that someone who believes in God doesnt want to date you...

a man and a woman can easily get along at sexual level...but differences in values, ideologies will cause serious issues....u should know this.
..u are just looking at religion at superficial level...make mistake religion is what guides some people's values on morality, sex, destiny, purpose, love, even being kind sometimes...so there's almost no how u wint have too differences....especially with a woman...

the idea that u may not want marry her in church or mosque before her God , or not pray with her or make a mockery of her spiritual engagements is enough to make her think twice

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by hamza1aarinade: 11:48am On Oct 24, 2022
God is not a Man.......take it or leave it.If i don't believe in anything then i am worse than an animal.That means all i will do is eat, shit and sleep?God is not a Man.......take it or leave it.If i don't believe in anything then i am worse than an animal.That means all i will do is eat, shit and sleep?...

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Starz825(m): 11:54am On Oct 24, 2022
dhardline:
Will I say Nigerian atheist or atheist in general are a funny lot. How do you desire to have a 'decent' atheist as a girl friend?
Like who are you to require a standard for her when nothing rules her?
Or do you not know God gave man commandments on how to live life and be 'decent' and once God is removed man is free to make up his own rules as he lives and nothing becomes out of place for him. So just go ahead a marry any atheist you come across, she can decide to have 10 husband's and it's not out of place, she can decide to sleep with animals and it's still not out of place for her. She is ruled by nothing just as you claim you are too and hence free to do as she wills.
In essence, he shouldn't put being atheist and being decent in the same sentence..... cheesy
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by suicidesheep: 12:09pm On Oct 24, 2022
CoconutMilk:
Tell me one moral value you hold and I'll show you there is no reason the be moral outside religion.

Every decent moral value doesn’t need religion

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Nobody: 1:34pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:


Try to be just a little less arrogant and have just a little critical awareness of yourself,
because a huge percentage of the stuff you tend to be automatically certain of, can turn out to be totally wrong and deluded..

You think I can be as deluded as you are?
Cry me a river
Why why why.... grin
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Dliquidmetal(m): 2:25pm On Oct 24, 2022
BobbieZion:


God is greater than Man's imagination.

Can you prove that God does not exist?
Which is harder proving He exists or proven He does not?
Then i guess billions of Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus and Buddhists are just using a figment of their imagination.........
Can you now hear how you sound?
lmao the usual fallacies,the onus lies on he who makes a claim not the other ways round.
If its not hard to proof your gods existence then you should do that real quick but you dodging it as usual if yall grin and its very possible for billions of people to be deluded due to a varieties of contributing factors,the evidence is all around you(look in the mirror sef) its we(albeit few) who were lucky enough to transcend indoctrinations that suffer because the price of these knowledge/enlightenment is great.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SPAMBOX7: 3:31pm On Oct 24, 2022
Peterrio:
Some might not be very religious, but their thought patterns are still warped in religion.

The very religious ones can even be a challenge to Christian guys

One thing that amazes me from time to time is that they can partake freely in fornication and adultery, while holding the religion very tight
Lol this is one thing I think Guinness records should look into. It's one hell of a wonder cheesy

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by TrittNG: 4:06pm On Oct 24, 2022
TritNG:
There is severe economic hardship in Canada. The rate of unemployment is also very high.
The health system is crippled.
If you want to 'japa', follow who know road. Maybe do Yahoo. When you live amongst them for a while, you'll notice the cognitive and intellectual decline of Westerners.
Westerners make up the majority of Canada's population.
The Westerners invaded Canada, subjugated the indigenous people and displaced them to become the majority population. Since then, the indigenous people of Canada have lived under repression & oppression.
The invaders/occupiers have refused to go back to their barren land in Europe.
Read about the residential schools in Canada, it still continues till this day under different guises.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by DropsMic(m): 4:07pm On Oct 24, 2022
I usually don’t tell them I don’t believe in their God until after I’ve had coitus with them. After that, i take my time to unpeel my layers whilst making them see reasons why they should embrace humanity and discard the facade that is religion. Works all the time. My current girl although she still prays, she no dey go church again grin

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by pocohantas(f): 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
Peterrio:
Some might not be very religious, but their thought patterns are still warped in religion.

The very religious ones can even be a challenge to Christian guys

One thing that amazes me from time to time is that they can partake freely in fornication and adultery, while holding the religion very tight

I always taunt them with this every time. God is indeed merciful. smiley

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by MasterJayJay: 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
Cry cry babies!!

Why would an atheist want to date one that believes in God?

Go for your type and stop wailing.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by HomeTutorsPro: 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist like me, let alone a decent one.



I know one.
She is my good friend and confides a lot in me.
She's cute, educated and very jovial.
I am a Christian who respects people's views a lot.
Would you want to connect with her?

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by PointZerom: 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.




I know one Atheist that called on God for help at the point of death. How foolish he has bn.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by drsmut: 4:12pm On Oct 24, 2022
[quote author=NeckingNgulping post=117823562]I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.


It's not necessary you find another atheist, look for one who can accept you as you are.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by pocohantas(f): 4:12pm On Oct 24, 2022
dhardline:


You can go ahead and call me all that you want still does not change the fact that you really have so much that you are yet to understand about my statement. Do you think those who sleep with animals feel they are in the wrong? Or do you think those who go ahead to have a sex change feel they are in the wrong or the average Joe who lies to get what he wants think he's in the wrong. You really need the learn the nature of man and he's capabilities, how man naturally seeks to live a life in which he gives no account to anyone. How what you regard to be 'morals' can become really fluid in the mind of a man who has nothing governing his mind.

P. S. I am a Christian! tongue

Nah, you don’t need religion to be moral. Your common sense and conscience are enough moral compass. If you need a pastor, holy book or threat of hell fire to be right by man - then you need to reevaluate yourself.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Farid24224(m): 4:13pm On Oct 24, 2022
I rather be a Christian than an Atheist!!!

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by VIKTO83(m): 4:14pm On Oct 24, 2022
I have never seen an African woman who is Atheist. If u need one try ch3cking America. It's a complete country with shit, mess and urine.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by VULCAN(m): 4:15pm On Oct 24, 2022
The statement makes a lot of sense and I laughed out loud.

Don't think that just because you did not grasp something then it makes no sense.

blingxx:


You just made absolutely no sense undecided
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by GreyLaw(m): 4:16pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:


You are the real one.. You only lost a bunch of indoctrinated classmates, people who are hardwired to not see reasons and facts.




When an atheist talks of reason and facts I get flummoxed, because it's ironical. If you ever cared to bother about facts and reason, you'd drop your atheist beliefs in a heartbeat.

Enjoy your time anyway; afterall everyone gets to find out the truth in the end when it's all said and done and changes cannot be made anymore. Your belief is your right; enjoy it!

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Bigleaf1006: 4:18pm On Oct 24, 2022
You are searching in the wrong places bro or at the wrong time.....if u gallant well even oyedepo dota go dey run follow u

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by pocohantas(f): 4:19pm On Oct 24, 2022
That said, atheists on social media are always whining of how they are judged and find it difficult getting or connecting to partners - I think they are just cry babies.

I am not an atheist, but I am heavily irreligious. I have never had a reason to hide it from anyone, male or female. Not even my parents. My friends know, my colleagues know. They tease me with it and some would say I would become a full blown antichrist if I leave Nigeria.

So I don’t know y’all circle. Maybe they are close-minded people or maybe you keep shoving your atheist stand down their throats and castigating their religion.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by meobizy(f): 4:20pm On Oct 24, 2022
I'm still not sure if this guy's bragging. What then is your problem?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Deicide: 4:20pm On Oct 24, 2022
I beg you religious people this thread is about the op complaint about not being dateable in Nigeria because of his Atheism. Any point you have to make should be related to that. This thread should not be about if God exist or not.....I believe we are all intellectuals here act accordingly.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by BigMamaNaija: 4:20pm On Oct 24, 2022
The most confused humans alive are these self acclaimed 'atheists'. Especially the Nigerian ones. At least, the oyibo ones rely on their scientific inventions and too much money plus a working society/government.

Good luck looking for a DECENT ATHEIST. Whenever you're ready to come out of your confused state, visit the nearest church to you and sign up for counselling.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by tsdarkside(m): 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2022
you are a moroon....people dont care about religion that much no more....not even in nigeria....

you could meet a atheist woman that wouldnt understand you either....
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by drlateef: 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.







You and gay people are in the same shoe. You might want to migrate to an atheist friendly country like Norway.

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