Tadadobe:
Yes I agree with her. My ex left me to marry someone else last year. I was the one paying her tuition to study pharmacy and she was already in 300l Before she broke up with me. She told me I still need to be paying rents, tuition, feeding. And I'm still paying till now even though she's with someone else. Because promise must be Kept

Your mumu loud o

Oh for real? Did he tells you he is running scholarship programme or running United Nation education fund?

Anyway I kept elling guys to stop sending all these ingrate human to school it will end in tears and regret. If any babe want education let her go to her parent or sponsor herself or stay at home.

And some guy will still never hear

emexnaija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MERjyDu_uGU

You should have told to stop sending you to school and look for another sponsor.
All this kids self,I tire ooo

Na ball wey she pass give another, as long as she is within the field, this earth, somebody else go pass the ball back to her, it's just going to be a matter of time. In some cases, the ball will get back to her sooner than she ever dreamed. Let's the game continue.

Tadadobe:
Yes I agree with her. My ex left me to marry someone else last year. I was the one paying her tuition to study pharmacy and she was already in 300l Before she broke up with me. She told me I still need to be paying rents, tuition, feeding. And I'm still paying till now even though she's with someone else. Because promise must be Kept

How much you dey give your parents

If I be your boyfriend Darlington, I go thank God.

The current investment on you is a waste. You can't communicate well. That's the easiest thing girls who have gone through Secondary School does. Even when they obtain F9 in English, they speak Queen's English.

You can't communicate well, talk more of having good character. Tomorrow's investment would as well be a waste. Bleep off!

Before condemning her did you guys watch the video. Her reasons for not marrying has nothing to do with the sponsorship. The family she's marrying into already came across as toxic? They belittle and degrade her and even advising their son not to marry her due to her status as an orphan. It probably would have gone well and they get married if the guy's family were hospitable in the first place.

Aunty, which exam did you write for the scholarship

I agree with her 100%



Because only a mumu could do such...

I hope when the guy do her strong thing we wont be hearing another story.

Tadadobe:
Yes I agree with her. My ex left me to marry someone else last year. I was the one paying her tuition to study pharmacy and she was already in 300l Before she broke up with me. She told me I still need to be paying rents, tuition, feeding. And I'm still paying till now even though she's with someone else. Because promise must be Kept

You've been baptized in the river of foolishness

One day the clouds were filled with stupidity and it rained only on you.

Why telling us? We are not interested,

I reserve every Thursdays in a week to fear this vigina genders.

Fear igbo girls

Ransomware:
She is absolutely right, if you are dumb enough to expect your reward for paying someone's school fees to be marriage, then you are too dumb to be the head of a household. That woman just saved the nation from having some super dumb kids in the future.
when you lord your accomplishment over your spouse, then that will be a horrible relationship.
If a man decides to drive down the high way and start throwing his money out the window, do those who pick up the money owe him marriage or what ever he cooks up in his head?
Is the person doing that sane enough to be in charge of anything?

You will make a very bad judge. You have only succeeded in making a bad situation worse. You deviated almost 350 degrees from the course, wao!
1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.
2. His family objected to the idea.
3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).
4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer. (Direct link BTW 3 and 4. An understanding, like focus on me and my "love" and not my family ).
5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to babylon like the biblical lot's wife.
How selfish and self-centered can a person be? All her accusations pointed to the guy's family not even a single one to the guy.
Infact she said "your sister said that I may not even marry you after training me" you see after many years she could not prove that she is not an ingrate the guy's sister saw in her years ago.
Verdict is this: a spade should be called a spade and not a big spoon. She is a terrible and very wicked person. For the guy, you just dodge a bullet, take the lessons and move on.
For others don't stop being good, this here is just one of bad cases among the hundreds of good ones. Peace.

my man helped her achieve her dreams on contract basis in the lady's mind but in his heart, he was training his wife-to-be..
Very unfortunate situation..

One very big reason why people kill, murder and assassinate other people because i trust the relationship wasn't defined initially and the guy never knew he was pouring water into a basket ... look at her temerity!!!

emexnaija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MERjyDu_uGU

Note to all Mr SIMPson

What was the initial agreement, please?
If your heart is not for him, his hand must not serve you unless there is a mutual agreement that indicates marriage is out of it. Even when he has not expressly told you he would love to marry you, and you keep 'chopping im money ', una don enter 'memorandum of understanding'. Covetousness, dishonesty, and sextual sins are the threefold cord of youthful death. If you fear God and live holy by the grace of Christ, you do yourself lots of good. Eni a wi fun, Obaloke je ki o gbo.

Single guys should take note o, don't waste your money on a woman who will deny you in future.

It is good to listen to advice from some relations most especially when it come to do with relationship about someone you have not married to. Also if you are a man listen to your sisters because they understand their fellow ladies and can see red flags where you as man cannot see.

Another slap on SIMP face.

They will get sense by force

oxygeng:
You will make a very bad judge. You have only succeeded in making a bad situation worse. You deviated almost 350 degrees from the course, wao!
1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.
2. His family objected to the idea.
3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).
4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer. (Direct link BTW 3 and 4. An understanding, like focus on me and my "love" and not my family ).
5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to babylon like the biblical lot's wife.
How selfish and self-centered can a person be? All her accusations pointed to the guy's family not even a single one to the guy.
Infact she said "your sister said that I may not even marry you after training me" you see after many years she could not prove that she is not an ingrate the guy's sister saw in her years ago.
Verdict is this: a spade should be called a spade and not a big spoon. She is a terrible and very wicked person. For the guy, you just dodge a bullet, take the lessons and move on.
For others don't stop being good, this here is just one of bad cases among the hundreds of good ones. Peace.

Man you got it the sister saw the red flag long time ago and informed his brother that she is not a wife material but the man was adamant. Who do we blame?

Tadadobe:
Yes I agree with her. My ex left me to marry someone else last year. I was the one paying her tuition to study pharmacy and she was already in 300l Before she broke up with me. She told me I still need to be paying rents, tuition, feeding. And I'm still paying till now even though she's with someone else. Because promise must be Kept

you're unbelievable ...
.., you made a conditional promise to her, so long as she's with you but she left you and you're still doing what? Anyways, who get money go spend him money.. You should have just kept this secret oo..

Yes she have a very good reason why she cannot marry him, but age is not on her side sha.

after all those words her mother and sister say to you u should av end the scholarship.

Very ugilee creature.

I know she is catching cruise or indirectly advising mumu guys.

Let me say it loud and clear, if you know, deep down in your heart that you won't marry him, you better let him know before he starts spending his hard earned cash on you, don't think you are smart or that he is a fool.
In fact it's better you return his money with interest, because the young man is not running a charity foundation/NGO or scholarship board.
If the guy curse you ehn, you will regret it.

I know the case of a taxi driver who sponsored a once beautiful lady to learn hair dressing.
This lady was a beauty to behold and had a flourishing business when she finished the training.

All of a sudden, the lady made this bold declaration. She couldn't get married to a taxi driver. Never.

The guy did not argue with her, he just went to the middle of a T junction, called her name and placed curses on her.

Many years after, if you see this lady now, you will pity her. She is a shadow of herself.
Her health is far gone.
In fact her life is a mess.

I do not support curses but I do not also support acting smart like in this case.

Please stay true to your promises to each other. If you won't marry him or her , let them know before they spend their money on you thinking they would later reap from that investment only for you to be nursing another plan.

The man you intend to go and marry now after you have been polished, where was he when the guy was spending on you and making sacrifices for his intended future with you.

Be wise.

Caramia2020:
Smiling, this is hot breakfast and lunch served together, I'm even more surprised that people still see girls through school on the hope of marrying her, haba, someone that will surely have one or two boyfriend over there n probably one friends with benefits n even engaged in hookup occasionally. Foolishness.

I tell you. I was dating one, she won't call. I do the calling. She thinks I will be sending her money.

A time came when she started telling me about her school fees of 150k.

I no even answer, she left, I am relieved.

Dating her was a mistake, they are poor but she doesn't have sense. No idea or anything.

I am happy we are not together again, now I concentrate on gathering money for my traveling.

Never train any girl in school no matter what.

blackpanda:



If this happens to your brother, will you still have this opinion

Why not ...
If u catch your brother in this level of foolishness, u no go use thund@r hammer knock madness comot from em eye?

Chucks13:
■ Oh for real? Did he tells you he is running scholarship programme or running United Nation education fund? Anyway I kept elling guys to stop sending all these ingrate human to school it will end in tears and regret. If any babe want education let her go to her parent or sponsor herself or stay at home.

1. Scholarship programs no be only for foundations with large educational funds. That one na commonsense naw!

Make sure you let him before he starts spending his money on you.

oxygeng:
You will make a very bad judge. You have only succeeded in making a bad situation worse. You deviated almost 350 degrees from the course, wao!
1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.
2. His family objected to the idea.
3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).
4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer. (Direct link BTW 3 and 4. An understanding, like focus on me and my "love" and not my family ).
5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to babylon like the biblical lot's wife.
How selfish and self-centered can a person be? All her accusations pointed to the guy's family not even a single one to the guy.
Infact she said "your sister said that I may not even marry you after training me" you see after many years she could not prove that she is not an ingrate the guy's sister saw in her years ago.
Verdict is this: a spade should be called a spade and not a big spoon. She is a terrible and very wicked person. For the guy, you just dodge a bullet, take the lessons and move on.
For others don't stop being good, this here is just one of bad cases among the hundreds of good ones. Peace.

Ok young blood, allow me to break this down into crayons for you.




1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.

- Hope is not a strategy, dont confuse the 2

2. His family objected to the idea

- When you throw money from a moving car, I bet your family will object to that as well, does it mean the people who picked the money owe you marriage or whatever you were hoping for?

3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).

- He made that decision, the girl did not force him. He got advice from his family but decided to go with his erection, now you lot are here flapping your gum. The lack of personal responsibility and accountability is what is holding Nigeria down. the absolute need to blame others when you were the one who made the decision and acted on that decision.

4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer

- If you know that the person tossing 1000 naira bills from a moving car on the highway is drunk, will you not pick up the money because he is drunk?

5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to Babylon like the biblical lot's wife.

- Do you know that people walk away from marriage at the altar? after all the money spent on the occasion.
If it doesn't feel right then it's not right. Money is not everything

From all that you have written here, all I can see is that you are either the type that will get a girl by the material thing you can offer her or you are the "come and save me type".
here is my advice. No one is coming, the earlier you know that the faster you will pull yourself up by the bootstraps. If you think that another human being owes you marriage because you paid her fees, then you are in for a miserable life in that marriage.
If you are confident in yourself as a man, then you will never hinge marriage on material things or your monetary income.

Another quick piece of advice for you boys and girls out there. go into marriage thinking of what you can offer not what you will get. It is a life of service, as a man, you will do most of the work, that woman and the kids live in your domain, you don't lord over them because you paid their fees, its your bleeping job. it is a life of service. it is not a show of dominance.
To you young bulls looking at older couples outside and you see the wife kneeling and being submissive by her husband, that did not come by him lording over her or reminding her of all the things he did for her. That came from that man being a caregiver, a helper, a listener, a provider, a firm person, an intelligent decision-maker, and a faithful man at home. The wife will worship him outside but you young boys think it is because he acts like a tyrant. love does not come from fear, pretense to survive is what you get.

have a productive day