ishowdotgmail:
Ashawo with her puff puff face.

Why can’t your father or brothers train you! Some ladies with a leech-parasitic mentality

Yankiss:
Did they agree on marriage before the training? If so, she is absolutely wrong, if not, she is right. We tell SIMPs to only train wives, they no gree. Girlfriend is not wife. A wife can leave, how much more someone with no legal agreement.

hardon1:


How much you dey give your parents

addexx:



You've been baptized in the river of foolishness

One day the clouds were filled with stupidity and it rained only on you.

olisaEze:
Yes, I agree with her! She paid her way through school by serving, night & day, under rock hard & sweaty conditions. Now she’ll go for her NYSC with over five years service experience! Wonderful!! She stooped to conquer!!


PS: The owner of the comment above mine needs Jesus in a hurry.🙄

Hypnotise:
She can be sued for this. Negligence and failure to comply

Ransomware:


Ok young blood, allow me to break this down into crayons for you.




1. The man started training her in school hoping to marry her after school.

- Hope is not a strategy, dont confuse the 2

2. His family objected to the idea

- When you throw money from a moving car, I bet your family will object to that as well, does it mean the people who picked the money owe you marriage or whatever you were hoping for?

3. But he did (girl's statement of appreciation confirmed that).

- He made that decision, the girl did not force him. He got advice from his family but decided to go with his erection, now you lot are here flapping your gum. The lack of personal responsibility and accountability is what is holding Nigeria down. the absolute need to blame others when you were the one who made the decision and acted on that decision.

4. Despite knowing the family's position, she still accepted the offer

- If you know that the person tossing 1000 naira bills from a moving car on the highway is drunk, will you not pick up the money because he is drunk?

5. Done with school now, she suddenly looked back to Babylon like the biblical lot's wife.

- Do you know that people walk away from marriage at the altar? after all the money spent on the occasion.
If it doesn't feel right then it's not right. Money is not everything

From all that you have written here, all I can see is that you are either the type that will get a girl by the material thing you can offer her or you are the "come and save me type".
here is my advice. No one is coming, the earlier you know that the faster you will pull yourself up by the bootstraps. If you think that another human being owes you marriage because you paid her fees, then you are in for a miserable life in that marriage.
If you are confident in yourself as a man, then you will never hinge marriage on material things or your monetary income.

Another quick piece of advice for you boys and girls out there. go into marriage thinking of what you can offer not what you will get. It is a life of service, as a man, you will do most of the work, that woman and the kids live in your domain, you don't lord over them because you paid their fees, its your bleeping job. it is a life of service. it is not a show of dominance.
To you young bulls looking at older couples outside and you see the wife kneeling and being submissive by her husband, that did not come by him lording over her or reminding her of all the things he did for her. That came from that man being a caregiver, a helper, a listener, a provider, a firm person, an intelligent decision-maker, and a faithful man at home. The wife will worship him outside but you young boys think it is because he acts like a tyrant. love does not come from fear, pretense to survive is what you get.

have a productive day

Nchenches:
What if marrying an educated lady was his reason for training you?

What if both of you agreed earlier that you will marry if he trained you?
If you don't want to marry him now, kindly refund all he used in training you at school. As both of you could have slept and made love, as e de sweet him, so e de sweet you, so don't up with that crap of you have been sleeping with me without pay. Unless you ßi to make yourself look like a prostitute.

Mentholated:


I listened to that video twice. All the things she said were the reasons why she cannot marry the guy are actually the reasons why she should marry the guy. it is unfortunate that we live in a very selfish world where we no longer understand the concept of sacrifice. We feel so entitled and self centered and call it freedom of choice.

When you have plans with someone and the person makes reasonable sacrifices, you do not jump ship because you now have better options. You work with the person to make your other options less attractive.

Caramia2020:
Smiling, this is hot breakfast and lunch served together, I'm even more surprised that people still see girls through school on the hope of marrying her, haba, someone that will surely have one or two boyfriend over there n probably one friends with benefits n even engaged in hookup occasionally. Foolishness.

blackpanda:



If this happens to your brother, will you still have this opinion

Kobojunkie:
1. Scholarship programs no be only for foundations with large educational funds. That one na commonsense naw!

Tadadobe:


I'm not foolish bro. I made her a promise. If it wasn't the guy that confuse her and snatch her from me, we will still be together by now. She's not that type of girl

Bmaster:
Many people including nairalanders don't understand the difference between sponsoring and training

donbenie:
Hope she let him know that,before he started the sponsoring?

emexnaija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MERjyDu_uGU

Ransomware:


Bossman. If you lend a so called good friend 10k and they disappear because they have your money now? Consider that a good investment. If you think the money he paid for fees is worth marrying into a life of pure agony, then yoy dont know the value of life or money.

Mentholated:


We can always make up excuses to protect our self interest. I made my judgement based on the reasons she gave. She did not give any impression that the guy took advantage of her. Happiness is based on so many factors including knowledge and exposure. Making sacrifices plays a big role in relationships.

Making this video is enough to tell you she is trying hard to justify her actions. I understand your viewpoint but I strongly believe that we should all be considerate when pursuing our self interest.

GeneralPula:
Nah Wetin see finish dey cause be this..

Some unfortunate men have destroyed men’s dignity beyond redemption..

The day I read say some men do buy gift for wife before knacks or to enjoy knacks, nah hin I Don now say it’s almost finished..

Ransomware:


you still don't get it. She did that guy a favor. If she had gone ahead to marry him, it would have been a horrible marriage. It is best he cuts his loss and move on. she does not owe him marriage but if this small change like school fees will make her become this, Is this the person you want to sleep and wake up next to everyday?
you guys are all bent out of shape because of the money involved, but money is not greater than peace of mind

Akwamkpuruamu:
I pity SIMPS. It's better train poultry birds and pigs than training a naija geh for marriage mindset or for love. Zero economic returns

emexnaija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MERjyDu_uGU