shiwex:
Eye don clear..........Body count just dey rise like inflation.

greypencils:
Pele tie! The LovePeddler phase done dey commot your body. Thought you wanted to explore and frolick with small boys. Them don extend your pussy finish that's when you realize nothing beats stability and family.

YoshihideSuga:


This is the thing. Young boys who are brutal nakademus, but will never take up the financial responsibility of taking care of the children. Or mature men who will drop something, but will not be interested in the lives of the children.

Although, her rant na because Danjuma get money.

LordAdam16:


The man you described in bold is a rarity.

Men generally have one or two vices. Rarely are they the spawn of Hades embodying every vice out there.

The trouble for you ladies is that the same conditions that make you relish your early adulthood create the same mechanics that make your middle and late adulthood a nightmare. When you leave your husband with his vices, you're not going to meet angels out there.

You can't teach an old dog new tricks. All the wonderful guys have been snapped up. A man with bad character will use his money to blind new women, not change for you. The dating pool for untethered men in their 30s and higher is not funny. You will have to settle for what vices you can tolerate. After a few years of dissatisfaction, you'll start weighing your choices. Did you really trade up or did you take a different poison? By the time you're asking this pertinent question, it's too late.

The things you value when you're 32 are different from what you value when you're 53 and your kids have flown out of the coop.

Something as simple as career advice from a man who's lived with a kid and intimately knows the kids strengths and flaws is invaluable.

My advice for women in bad marriages is divorce should be the last option, unless you're being assaulted. Get a side dude. Coworker, ex, boss, church member, customer, in law; doesn't matter. Keep it under wraps of course. Don't be stupid. Married or not is not your business, because if you leave, you're still going to get on all fours for another woman's man. You can't escape it.

You pretty much have to be as beautiful as Emanuelle Chriqui, Monica Bellucci, or Meta Golding to think that men who have their heads screwed on right will be falling over themselves to hand you commitments when even your teenage daughter is having a crush. Jungle rough!

But you know what, maybe your case will be different. If you believe so, you can disregard everything I typed.

-Lord

isabi2lof:
There's no good man out there , all of them are just the same , you just have to pay a deaf ears to somethings in your marriage, if not you won't have peace.

VULCAN:
She will say she is one. Lollz

OlawaleBammie:


Madam, that ur supposed good man will one day Bleep up, and if u re not prepare for it u will mess things up. That is the msg they are passing to u

FreeStuffsNG:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/i-would-love-to-go-back-to-my-ex-husband-actress-caroline-danjuma/

Toks2008:
When I take time out to write threads on marital issues, babies who are not even mature enough to have boyfriends will be mastbrting on my threads and call me names.

But when they become mature, they usually go back to the same threads o read again.

Many ladies have sent me a PM to thank me for a thread I wrote 10years back.

Experience they say is the best teacher but it is always better to learn from people's experience

prophetfire:
Don't mind the idiots!!! They always want to prostitute around. After prostituting around and men aren't showing interest in their ageing wares again, they start looking for that good man that invested heavily in them and was always ready to be there for them whom they dumped.
And they're not coming back because they really love him, they're coming back because he's the only option left for them as their aging kpekus is no longer attracting new rentals.

ImoleNaija:


You're eaten up by bitterness & hatred. Sha no go slump over Yoruba matter.

LAXconfidential:


Guy shut up, you meant it as a humble brag. Leave all this trash. The moment I saw that you were the OP of the thread, I immediately knew that you will find a way to link Igbos into it. BTW, Caroline Danjuma used to be Caroline Ekanem before she got married, and according to you guys, the South South are not Igbos so why did you make this statement; "and like Caroline, she was married to a non-Igbo too"

Ya'll secretly hate the South South too and you regard them as Igbo but for the sake of playing politics, you pretend we are different.

For what its worth, that little story of an unknown Ngozi "Nwozu" who was married to a non-Igbo is totally irrelevant to this news. You didn't have to put it there. But because everything has to be a penis measuring contest with you guys, you included it to feel cool about yourself.

We may also choose to point out how a majority of your marriagable daughters are single mothers whom their baby daddies have abandoned. They in-turn abandon the child for their parents and move to another city. I've never met a single adult yoruba lady who isn't a single mother. NEVER.
That speaks volumes of the rot and recklessness in your society, but you won't deal with that, na Igbos be your concern.


O ji shaaro kill you there.

FreeStuffsNG:
I pray she finds love, peace again and value it as she has promised.

Most men and ladies in marriages should learn from her regret today.

I read this same regret expressed by Madam Ngozi Nwosu in her interview, same regret in her interview too and like Caroline,she was married to a non-Igbo too. In fact, she used same words and admitted that she should have forgiven her ex husband who came begging and begging her to come back. Looking back, she now believes the issue that made her separate from her husband was not enough for her to end her marriage to a man who truly loves her. She said she would have handled it better with her current experience.

Please fight for your family. You will soon realise that it's all you got. May God help us all.

Freshtruth:
Go back go give am infection? I swear he get one gal wey I date last year every night for my house I dey bang this lady like crazy Bleep am anyhow styles 2months later this lady told me she was once married and miss her husband even carry the man picture go church me and her even go church go pray make d husband come back and I still dey bang her steady I dump her last month when I find my soulmate I will be getting married to my soulmate this year

tyinfinity:
You did not bang her well.infact your prick is too small compared to her ex.it was during your unenjoyable banging that she realized that her ex was the best of all men .

missyblissy:


You already concluded that this good man will mess up one day. What if he doesn't? Chai i know you might have experienced pain in the past, i did too but it doesn't stop me from loving a good man. Just forgive yourself and the men in your past and move on. Else you will miss the chance to experience what it means to have a good, faithful and honest man that loves you completely.

LAXconfidential:
I've never met a single adult yoruba lady who isn't a single mother.

LAXconfidential:


Guy shut up, you meant it as a humble brag. Leave all this trash. The moment I saw that you were the OP of the thread, I immediately knew that you will find a way to link Igbos into it. BTW, Caroline Danjuma used to be Caroline Ekanem before she got married, and according to you guys, the South South are not Igbos so why did you make this statement; "and like Caroline, she was married to a non-Igbo too"

Ya'll secretly hate the South South too and you regard them as Igbo but for the sake of playing politics, you pretend we are different.

For what its worth, that little story of an unknown Ngozi "Nwozu" who was married to a non-Igbo is totally irrelevant to this news. You didn't have to put it there. But because everything has to be a penis measuring contest with you guys, you included it to feel cool about yourself.

We may also choose to point out how a majority of your marriagable daughters are single mothers whom their baby daddies have abandoned. They in-turn abandon the child for their parents and move to another city. I've never met a single adult yoruba lady who isn't a single mother. NEVER.
That speaks volumes of the rot and recklessness in your society, but you won't deal with that, na Igbos be your concern.


O ji shaaro kill you there.

Toks2008:
When I take time out to write threads on marital issues, babies who are not even mature enough to have boyfriends will be mastbrting on my threads and call me names.

But when they become mature, they usually go back to the same threads o read again.

Many ladies have sent me a PM to thank me for a thread I wrote 10years back. Could you please send me a link to the thread you did from ten years ago?

Experience they say is the best teacher but it is always better to learn from people's experience

nony43:





Oga she was and still very rich before she got married to Danjuma.

missyblissy:



Really? Oga speak for yourself, don't generalise. Women stay in bad marriages because the men made them dependent. Madam if you work and yiu are independent, no man will treat you like shit when your father's house is not far way.

So because i want to keep the title "married woman" i should stay, sleep with other men and stay married, and you think this is what i plan for my life and my kids?

This is the reason we have so many irresponsible men out there cos their mothers choose to stay married and they end up growing up doing the same thing to their wives. It becomes an endless circle.

Please don't stay and accept shit because of the children as the same children will curse yiu tomorrow for not leaving. The change starts with you.

Remember YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE ANY MAN OR WOMAN.

isabi2lof:
There's no good man out there , all of them are just the same , you just have to pay a deaf ears to somethings in your marriage, if not you won't have peace.