advanceDNA:


Must u do every thing ur wife demands? Una no understand how women be ooo...Na una dey let this women ride una......

By responding to all her demands like a waiter....you have made her, overtime, feel she has higher leverage in the relationship hence she feels she has power to do wateva she likes.....

Marriage no be by force oooo....no go die ooo
Try using scare tactics by telling her attitude is frustrating you and u want a divorce....it might be that's what she wants too hence behaving like a werey so u can break up with her...

If not....she will likely tell u she's not going anywhere.....with the behavior u described ..she will think u are joking because she already sees u as a weak man that don't have the balls to check her... So make sure u draft a real and proper divorce agreement Incase u need to actually divorce .... Drop her the agreement and see her reaction ....when some pple see the victim of their abuse is reacting, they often stop.....

U cannot be paying bills and bankrolling someone yet they behaving like they are doing u a favour by being with you...... baba no let hypertension kill you..

.. If ur first try at marriage no work....
Try with someone else or stay your lane...

reddingtonblack:



Doesnt it occur to you she picks on you easily and insult you often becos she sees it gets to you deep, the effect she sees on you is her desire that why she keeps insulting you the more
Generally Women are insultive, to deal with a woman you must grow a thick skin for her words or better still if you have a good sense of humor you can turn her insults to cruise, maybe her goal is to see you sad & hurt

Right there where she is insulting you change her words to cruise ... trust me nobody wants to be seen or taken as a joke

Probably she hurting and she decides to always transfer the aggression on you, and apparently your reaction seems to be encouraging her, its time to change the man she knows, recycles all her favourite abusive words to joke in your head that your 1st assignment,
incase you love your wife learn humor

Rapture2021:


Thank you,for long I stopped laughing much with her due to this her attitude,they was a time she threatened cheating on me. These ladies takes advantage of us christians who hold positions in church, thinking we cannot divorce. But I will shock her

Cruise777:




Na joke I dey joke ooo

Organize Boys and thugs to break into her shop at night and let them pack everything in her shop, so that her business can collapse

Sell it off without her knowledge , let her return penniless under your roof

Let's see how she will insult you while she feeds off you, and get common upkeep from you


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CaptainFM1:



Thank God you said it's joke.

The problem with that move is that if they boys are caught, or it went awfully wrong, the husband may land himself in jail.

Coleman7:
Let your words be few. Stop talking much with her.
Grow your spirit man be alive. Do whatever you feel is good to her, be nice to her.
Proceed and open the boutique for her, but don't let your mouth be open for long, always act more and say less. Don't treat her bad, even when she does so. If the heat is so much, you can leave the house and stay off for days without her knowing your movement.

Let your words be few but treat her nice.

RonuThings:


Just negodu

Op, is your wife a Yoruba woman

Anyways, whatever, ladies of nowadays are a disgrace to Africa. They can insult the hell out of you.

Especially Nigeria Women

dkidd:


Mine was shouting at a new born of less than 24 hours because the baby wants to suck. And she's from that same state. It's like they don't value children there? Looking at her own family setting now it's obviously their way. And worse is she did it in the presence of an elderly man whom I respect and respects me. Even when I was correcting her to breastfeed the child she said she's tired and wanted to give her those baby food. A newborn oo. I had to shout at her and even my bro put mouth before she breastfeed oo. Sometimes I fear for the health of the baby because if she can do that when I'm there what will she do when I'm not. Sorry to say women from those parts are terrible and I'm not the only one saying it even my bro sef dey experience am right now too. I thank God I never intended to marry her because I know her true nature is wickedness. Na only that baby she fit get from me. I wish I had known about women from those parts I for just dey ignore her continuously when she was throwing herself at me. My only regret is going rawlings sha

Map1:
Kids are involved in marriage this days, When you see a growing up Man knee down for a Jobless lady to marry him this is what you get at the end,as a Man, you provide for shelter, food, clothes, education, health, transportation and many unforseen Bill,yet she still Insulting you because you can't create a business for her on time,then if i may ask, what is her own responsibility?My brother there are a lot of better women outside there who are well established and looking for a better husband to marry, when it gets to a stage that Woman don't appreciate your role,send her to her family let them feed her for a month,if she threatened to cheat on you,send her out , before any Man can give a woman 5k now,her Toto will cry for it

Therock5555:
Sir, with all due respect, lemme tell you a violent/non violent step to take.


When madam starts to para and she's all in your face saying trash, just grab her neck and push her to the wall.

Don't choke her but don't remove your hand either, just use your body weight to pin her to the wall then hoarsely whisper into her ears


"Baby girl (or what ever pet name you use to call her) respect yourself this moment, don't let me cross the line, trust me you won't like what would happen if you dare me next time, respect yourself."


Then let her go and walk out of the house, go and drink yoghurt and chop meat then come back and chill at home without a care.


Trust me, if she has a conscience, she'll have thought about her actions and felt sorry for herself. From there she'll apologize and y'all have mad make up sex.


Grabbing her earlier has proven to her that you could dish her a surprise beating anytime you wish and women don't like the fact that their mouth could cause a potential beating so she'll use it better.


I don't encourage violence of any kind but sometimes putting some people in their place is not just the right thing but the only thing to do.

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

slickgirl:
My dear brother, let me tell you the truth. You no dey fxck that woman well. It's the number 1 reason women insult their husbands or boy friends.
Get her into a position, suck her pussy hard and finger her as you are sucking her, put the pussy month and spit into her mouth, kiss passionately while still fingering her.

After about 45 mins to one hour, and you are sure she is dripping, start fucking her , enter very hard for like 3 mins then start sucking her again for another 5 mins. Then start fucking her from behind very hard. Make sure you use condom incase you are a 1 min man. After like 1:30mins into the fucking, remove the condom and Bleep her raw very hard and very quickly and cum into her, the wake up and go clean up.
Drink something energy drink and tell her to start sucking your breast while you start fingering her again. The second round should take another 2 hrs.

Things go just change like magic.

Cruise777:




Na joke I dey joke ooo

Organize Boys and thugs to break into her shop at night and let them pack everything in her shop, so that her business can collapse

Sell it off without her knowledge , let her return penniless under your roof

Let's see how she will insult you while she feeds off you, and get common upkeep from you


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Stanleynf:
leave weed you no gree see the result

Cruise777:


What if he has reciept of his purchase

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

tonicyril:
Can u see??

And when the child grows up he/she would be shouting mummy mummy, good mummy upandan..

Rapture2021:
I will consult my lawyer on my next move