Adewale1603:
that was why I said, to every laws, there are exception. I'm not generalizing. What I mean is that, being born poor or come from a very poor family background does not always means you too will also end up poor in life. Each and every one destiny and fate is different in life, and some people are favoured by grace.

What law are you on about? Abeg, open your eyes and read before responding next time. Yet study after study shows that those who are born in poverty have a higher chance of remaining in poverty for life.

Freezby2020:






Poor woman of course, who else?

literally,there are few women want to. here the poster said it a very costly mistake for to do that

Truths9ja:
“The Biggest Mistake a Lady can make in life is to Marry a Poor Man” - Nigerian Lady reveals!


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When you hear this people tal you go think say dem get something to offer but if you check well nothing e to offer .

Dem no dey hear word

greypencils:
Where she go see poor man if she herself is not poor. [b]Wetin Cuppy Otedola dey find for Ajegunle? [/b]Idiots everywhere.

Blazebond:
She ain't lying nau, nobody wants poverty life at all o,she should also know that the biggest mistake a man can make is marrying a poor, uneducated,barren and lazy woman.

You no add single mother.

KarinaSlim:


Let me correct 2 things u stated.
1) She will NEVER end up Single dear. She will still get married to someone better.

2) As for the husband, he will find it very difficult to stay married in life. Why? becos women will keep coming and leaving after discovering his adulterous nature.

His Parents and family will also know that the reason he can't keep a wife is becos of his philandering nature so they will know the fault is from him anytime a woman leaves. After all, the first woman left for same reason.

Even if they can't tell him his truth to his face. They will say it behind him. So he will remain alone in life.

Like u said, Men are Polygamous in nature.

1. That you leave one person doesn't mean you will get someone better. The person might be better or worse, leave your emotions out of it.

2. Your emotions are all over your write up without checking the reality of things on ground. In our environment how difficult is it for a divorced man to marry compared to a divorced woman?

While dishing out advice to others in this case your relative ensure to out critical thinking skills to the fore and allow emotions out of it in order for the recipient of the advice to gain maximum impact from it.

Poor woman nko?

TotoIsGud4boy:

you're really ignorant... man up lol.. women are not supposed to work, are you a lazy man? I'm a man but I love to provide for my broke gf as long as she's LOyaL and provides me pussi

Mr. Everyone must think like me.

The impetus to call someone who does share same ideals with you lazy is out of this world. A man who is a multi millionaire and still doesn't share same mindset is lazy too I guess?

Adulthood is a period where people taking responsibility for their actions, well being and also contribute meaningfully to the development of the society at large.

Anyone who can't take responsibility for himself or herself doesn't deserve to enter the institution called marriage. If a man hits the financial winds because his wife isn't supposed to bring finance to the family they should all dies of hunger isn't it?

Nigeria is the headquarters of poverty in the world, where more than 103 million people are living in multidimensional poverty. NBS asserts from their finding that not more than 1 percent of Nigerian population has a million naira as balance in their account meaning that majority of people in Nigeria live below the poverty and this is exacerbated by people with your kind of mentality leading to decrease in house hold income.

In synopsis, adults who wants everything free in life have no reason to enter the marriage route , they should stay single so that those freebies will be provided by God to them.

yesloaded:
A broke man needs not to think of having a relationship not to talk of getting married because I see it as extra burden

As a broke guy, work hard & make money before thinking of having a relationship or getting married

Lastly, never marry a broke girl rather go for a lady who's making enough money like you do or even more than you

I have screenshotted this comment, will be looking at it every morning

ceejay80s:

70% of Nigerians are poor if U go by Ur assumption

70 percent is even small.

NBS once brought a statistics of how many account holder has up to about 1nillion naira as balance you will be shocked d that the number isn't up to 1percent of the population.

Nigeria is a country where a few hold majority of the resources in the country, very pathetic.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Mr. Everyone must think like me.

The impetus to call someone who does share same ideals with you lazy is out of this world. A man who is a multi millionaire and still doesn't share same mindset is lazy too I guess?

Adulthood is a period where people taking responsibility for their actions, well being and also contribute meaningfully to the development of the society at large.

Anyone who can't take responsibility for himself or herself doesn't deserve to enter the institution called marriage. If a man hits the financial winds because his wife isn't supposed to bring finance to the family they should all dies of hunger isn't it?

Nigeria is the headquarters of poverty in the world, where more than 103 million people are living in multidimensional poverty. NBS asserts from their finding that not more than 1 percent of Nigerian population has a million naira as balance in their account meaning that majority of people in Nigeria live below the poverty and this is exacerbated by people with your kind of mentality leading to decrease in house hold income.

In synopsis, adults who wants everything free in life have no reason to enter the marriage route , they should stay single so that those freebies will be provided by God to them.

I didn’t say marry a lazy woman… any woman that loves you will be willing to support you. All I’m saying is, by looking for or settling with a truly independent woman, you’re inviting troubles you might not be prepared to handle in future. So my point? Man tf up, stop complaining, take care of your woman, be a man. For experienced men (that have been in successful marriages for more than a decade), this is just common sense.

Antoeni:
Nobody is Asking How Rich Was Her Father

Stupid statement.

Your mother is likely old and fat.

Do you want to go for an old fat woman? Afterall she was good enough for your father, she should be good enough for you.

I don't believe a man needs to be rich, but just be financially okay before thinking of marriage, how hard is that to understand ?

If you're financially struggling, why do you want to get married!!!

And yes, women also need to be financially comfortable.

True but the greatest mistake a man will make is to marry a poor lady

Cruzmaster:
Even pastor Kumuyi said it on one his sermon. He said "Don't marry if you know that you are not financially bouyant to provide for your family. Otherwise, such union will suffer"! What this lady said is the truth. Although some no go like am

That kumuyi , the lady and you assert that doesn't make true.

bonnyhope:


Your lie is a fat one

Those poor ones are the ones staying in marriages

Bro Na only rural areas
Broke marriage for urban areas no dey last for this generation
She go likely cheat

hardon1:


How many man are really rich in the true sense of the word?. If you really want to go by the word "rich" in real terms, only like 30% of men would scale true.

Her choice of words should have been : "women should try not to marry a man that can't fend for her needs"

Secondly what if you marry a man who later becomes poor🤷

I don't know why you guys always like to ask this question.

If someone can have the capacity to make alot of money, they should also have that same capacity to not lose it.

It's only low value men that somehow became rich that end up loosing their wealth

Eg yahoo boys/ gamblers/lottery winners.

KarinaSlim:
My senior cousin caught her husband cheating on her. Till date the husband doesn't know she knows. This man loves this my cousin like crazy. It shows. They married 2 years ago.

She told me that she will be walking out of the marriage by the end of the year (31st of December). The man doesn't know yet.

He still lives life thinking they will leave together forever.
She calls me for advice.
Me wey never marry, na me dey advice married woman.
I am thinking of telling her to go-ahead with the divorce becos she is bitter and it's telling on her.

She is as beautiful as me and so she will marry again.

But that her husband no try.

I'm thinking of telling her to call a big family meeting during Christmas period. Call his old father and mother to the house and some siblings. Cook delicious food. When everybody finishes eating, she should then drop the big news on their faces with receipts of their son's affairs before she leaves. Let them see the son they raised.

What do u think?

Matured minds




Modified
Thank you so much for your inputs. I appreciate. Funny enough. I have gotten the answers I needed from ur comments
So we have decided on what to do.
She will go ahead with my ADVICE above. It is the best for now for her happiness and joy. Life is too short to live in an unhappy marriage becos of an adulterous spouse.
Thanks once again.

I'm out.

I laff u n ur cousin, u said her husband loves her, what does she want again....where she is aspiring or visualizing to go, do u think it would be better?.....if she catches her new husband cheating, wud she divorce again?......she should go n handle her marriage, talk to her n settle things.....its not rossy out there.....some bad homes became the best n good became the worse

True o. Even dating a broke guy na risk. You know ladies can’t do without a man’s money. So the richer the better. It’s what it is.

smartr:
True o. Even dating a broke guy na risk. You know ladies can’t do without a man’s money. So the richer the better. It’s what it is.

don't make use of the word 'rich' but financially okay

Mhizzard:
Then who will marry the poor man?

when you people will start wasting Very Expressive RIP on this kind of lady when she's killed. Na like this e dey start

Mhizzard:

don't make use of the word 'rich' but financially okay

Yeah bro. Once she sees a guy with a car ( when you don’t have one) o ti lor!

Whatisurproblem:
when you people will start wasting Very Expressive RIP on this kind of lady when she's killed. Na like this e dey start

abi nah
this can gives poor man depression.because he would feel that he is being descrinminate which he would does what he suppose not to does.not every man wish to be poor it just fate that makes some.let me tell you some things i believes in.there are some fate that when a poor man legally marry to a woman and they give birth,thereafter,they get bless by God.then they name the child 'shina' (openway)

smartr:


Yeah bro. Once she sees a guy with a car ( when you don’t have one) o ti lor!

if it happen we have a child together,she will surely has the taste of what she did

Fully Supported.

Even me as a Man, I won't touch any "POOR LADY/WOMAN" with a thousand feet pole.

If you like be Polite, Pretty, Tall, Have Big Boobs & Ass et all. Once I discover you are from a Poor Background, That where it Ends.

As a man, If you are Poor and Single regardless of your age. Believe me, I will never have any problem whatsoever with you. I can even extend some help to you at my discretion in as much as you decide to remain single due to your current condition.

But the moment you go and pour Akamu inside one hole and bring forth another soul into your penury state. Omo, that's the end between me and you. Just don't near me again.

Poor people with many children are Cancer of the Earth.

Gospel Facts

Ojagun:
She speaks with such arrogance and surety.Yet just take a look at her face...look at her nose...look at her hairline.These bottom of the barrel Nigerian women have no idea how lucky they are to be born in a society where the men worship low quality women

Ojagun:
Who told you black western women do not want to intermingle with men of other races?Men of other races simply do not want to intermingle with black western women.Therefore,black western women have to settle for black western men.If other races of men desired black western women,they would all avoid black western men.What happens when black non-western women arrive in the west?They encounter exactly what black western women face in the dating scene with other races

They don't want white men. I know you want it to be the other way around to feed your sexist view against black women. But most of them don't fancy white men. It's that simple

Curse777:




I fully agree

Wickedness is bringing an innocent child into the world when you are poor

Imagine someone who can't feed himself attempting to feed others

If you are poor, without source of income, use condom and don't marry till you can figure out ways of making money

Anytime I see the poor Almajiri children, my blood boils, this are inocent children made to suffer a useless man's promiscuity and erection


.

And who told you almajiris are poor

the biggest mistake a man can make is to marry a poor woman.

1Sharon:


Stupid statement.

Your mother is likely old and fat.

Do you want to go for an old fat woman? Afterall she was good enough for your father, she should be good enough for you.

I don't believe a man needs to be rich, but just be financially okay before thinking of marriage, how hard is that to understand ?

If you're financially struggling, why do you want to get married!!!

And yes, women also need to be financially comfortable.

ask all these broke girls roaming around. I don't understand why a full human being will decide to get married when she has no money.

TotoIsGud4boy:

I didn’t say marry a lazy woman… any woman that loves you will be willing to support you. All I’m saying is, by looking for or settling with a truly independent woman, you’re inviting troubles you might not be prepared to handle in future. So my point? Man tf up, stop complaining, take care of your woman, be a man. For experienced men (that have been in successful marriages for more than a decade), this is just common sense.

independent women are the best. they have their own money. Are you marrying a wife to control her? Let her make her own money first before looking for husband.

Creamcrest:
So automatically means no wife for poor people then, how then will they cure konji when it comes.

yes, it also means no husband for poor women. Let the poverty end with poor people.